I bear no sympathy...

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    Nov 16, 2014 4:40 PM GMT
    I bear no sympathy for those who are one-sided and use others for their own selfish needs! An example of it was this...

    A guy I knew from 5 years back turned out to be nothing more than a complete selfish, mercy fuck. It was all about him; once he got what he wanted, he played me to the left for someone he opted to play house with. Now, fast forward 2½ years, out of all of this tine, he claims he was "saying hi", but I know better, he was looking for what he was getting in the beginning, a mercy fuck; he was complaining to me about how much of a coke/testosterone addiction he had and was abusive to him on all levels, how he cracked his jaw 3 times, so on and so on. He was stating in his complaining he packed his bags and left, he was worth more and deserved better than that. I came at him with a rebuttal. I told him how selfish he was for treating me the way he did, and I reminded him of the hole he dug for himself; I said to him, "Why are you crying to me for a shoulder, when you were thinking of no one but yourself? I am worth more than some mercy fuck & I deserve way better than the way you treated me." His response was, "Okay. Bye." Basically, he's nothing more than a 39 year-old fucking crybaby who got his just desserts.

    Where do selfish ass people get their nerve with this "Sense of Entitlement"?

    When it's said and done, you cannot just treat people any way you see fit & not expect your comeuppance. You dug a hole & you dug it deep, 'nuff said.

  • Destinharbor

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    Nov 16, 2014 4:52 PM GMT
    Sounds like you two were having sport sex and he fell for a guy and settled down. Turned out to be the wrong guy. Why do you call yourself a mercy fuck? You need to examine why you're so angry FIVE years later.
  • HottJoe

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    Nov 16, 2014 4:54 PM GMT
    Yep, he sounds pretty selfish. That's too bad that he had to swoop back into your life and dig up old memories about how he betrayed and used you the first time. That's good that you put your foot down.
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    Nov 16, 2014 11:39 PM GMT
    Destinharbor saidSounds like you two were having sport sex and he fell for a guy and settled down. Turned out to be the wrong guy. Why do you call yourself a mercy fuck? You need to examine why you're so angry FIVE years later.


    Destin, I am far from angry. If I were to stay angry with him, that means he would have power over me & I refuse to give him that. What had me heated was the fact that he thought he could just look me up out of the blue, thinking he can have his cake and eat it too (i.e., pick up where he left off with me). And FTR, I don't consider myself a mercy fuck. I know I deserve better and am worth more than that. Selffish crybabies like him are the reasons why a #SelfishPhase exists.
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    Nov 17, 2014 1:23 AM GMT
    Sounds like you handled that very well and every further thought wasted on him is too much. These narcissistic assholes don't like it when someone looks through them and he's off to greener pastures.
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    Nov 17, 2014 1:59 AM GMT


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    Nov 17, 2014 6:01 AM GMT
    AMoonHawk said



    Really, AMoonHawk? These aren't my kind of artists...if you had went old school & put up P!nk's "There You Go" or otherwise, I would agree with you. "99 Problems" by Jay-Z does wonders...