How do you guys feel about sugar daddies

  • muscleboundfe...

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    Nov 19, 2014 4:33 PM GMT
    I'm talking to this sugar daddy on another site. I don't want his money and I'm not interested in him sexually or romantically. He seems nice and has been respectful of me so far. We both live in Houston where many of the muscular black dudes aim to be taken care of. He was taken through the ringer by one dude and felt hurt afterwards. He doesn't consider himself a sugar daddy but he pretty much is. I feel bad for his love life but he is still chasing very fit, black, hung dudes. I know he is going to be used again. I've had several guys try to use me financially. A dude did that to me a long time ago. I'm not judgmental so I will talk to these dudes and I know how they operate.

    How do you guys feel about sugar daddies, the ones who know what they are doing and the ones who don't?
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    Nov 19, 2014 4:51 PM GMT
    If he is hot, there is nothing else to feel about but how to bang him. If he is ugly, just take his money.
  • muscleboundfe...

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    Nov 19, 2014 5:09 PM GMT
    __morphic__ saidIf he is hot, there is nothing else to feel about but how to bang him. If he is ugly, just take his money.


    lol I have a very unflattering name for guys like you. Houston is full of guys like you.
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    Nov 19, 2014 8:08 PM GMT
    muscleboundfem saidI'm talking to this sugar daddy on another site. I don't want his money and I'm not interested in him sexually or romantically. He seems nice and has been respectful of me so far. We both live in Houston where many of the muscular black dudes aim to be taken care of. He was taken through the ringer by one dude and felt hurt afterwards. He doesn't consider himself a sugar daddy but he pretty much is. I feel bad for his love life but he is still chasing very fit, black, hung dudes. I know he is going to be used again. I've had several guys try to use me financially. A dude did that to me a long time ago. I'm not judgmental so I will talk to these dudes and I know how they operate.

    How do you guys feel about sugar daddies, the ones who know what they are doing and the ones who don't?

    I wish I had enough money for somebody to try to use me financially.
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    Nov 19, 2014 8:10 PM GMT
    They taste great! icon_biggrin.gif
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    Nov 19, 2014 8:11 PM GMT
    I remember a couple of years ago when someone started an almost identical topic to this, and it ended with a shitstorm for the ages. Those were the days icon_smile.gif
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    Nov 19, 2014 8:12 PM GMT
    He deserves what he gets.
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    Nov 19, 2014 8:21 PM GMT
    Sugar Daddies--gross
    Sugar Babbie's; on the other hand--how else you going get a trophy DILF.
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    Nov 19, 2014 8:32 PM GMT
    I seem to recall losing a tooth in one of those things, back in the day.
    Also that if you ever dropped one on a solid surface, it would irreversibly glue itself down.
    Had no idea they still existed.
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    Nov 19, 2014 8:34 PM GMT
    __morphic__ saidIf he is hot, there is nothing else to feel about but how to bang him. If he is ugly, just take his money.
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    Morphic is my brown sugAr indian.
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    Nov 19, 2014 9:24 PM GMT
    I could have used one when I was 18-20 - as long as he was hot and versatile. Guys that age were/are so immature. Maybe a sugar uncle.
  • muscleboundfe...

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    Nov 19, 2014 10:29 PM GMT
    mindgarden saidI seem to recall losing a tooth in one of those things, back in the day.
    Also that if you ever dropped one on a solid surface, it would irreversibly glue itself down.
    Had no idea they still existed.


    would have been funny had you been the first to make the joke
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    Nov 19, 2014 11:44 PM GMT
    Snooze you lose?

    And then this comes up in the nooz today:

    Prominent Gay Rights Activist, Democratic Donor, and Sugar Daddy, headed for jail. icon_rolleyes.gif

    http://www.wweek.com/portland/article-22648-terry_beans_problem.html
    http://www.oregonlive.com/portland/index.ssf/2014/11/terrence_bean_indicted_a_lane.html#incart_river

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    Nov 19, 2014 11:48 PM GMT
  • SilverRRCloud

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    Nov 20, 2014 4:36 AM GMT
    A sugar daddy knows that he is a, well, a sugar daddy.

    He may or may not be willing to admit it. Which is neither here nor there.

    Like with so many things in life, it all really depends on HOW you do it more than on WHAT you do...

    A sugar daddy is simply a guy who is using his other attributes to redress his disadvantage on the daily fresh meat market. Age, looks, style, grooming, all work for you or against you. A 50 y.o. possibly not-so-hot dude wants to mess around with a hot 23 college dude. He usually faces quite some competition. So, he drives in his Ferrari, and pulls out his big checkbook...

    Some guys remain unimpressed. But a one or two get very impressed, and the game is up.

    The pitfall here is to start looking into this as a case of someone being exploited by someone else. Guys who go into such arrangements are acutely aware of the nature of the trade off they are making. The first thing they are really factoring-in is the trade off itself.

    So, if the Daddy does not know how to make sure that he is not being taken for a ride, well, too bad for him. The same applies to the sugar boy, too.

    This all works beautifully for some guys, and does not work for the others. Taking a big moral stance here is completely useless. The rich and the powerful have been using their attributes to their advantage since the times immemorial. Just as the sexy, cute and usually young have been using their chips to enjoy their rides, too. And this ain't going to change ...

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    Nov 20, 2014 5:30 AM GMT
    Sugar rots your teeth and gives you bad skin.

    Be who You are and true wealth will find You.

    I am old and rich.

    Pay attention.
  • tj85016

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    Nov 20, 2014 12:48 PM GMT
    it's ok i guess, if you want to forfeit whatever dignity you have left
  • Krispy1985

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    Nov 20, 2014 5:32 PM GMT
    It depresses me that I'm closer to being a daddy than whatever the other thing is.

    However, if anyone wants to buy me a playstation, I can dress up like a school girl for you.

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    Nov 20, 2014 5:58 PM GMT
    Like everything else - okay in moderation.
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    Nov 20, 2014 7:07 PM GMT
    Krispy1985 saidIt depresses me that I'm closer to being a daddy than whatever the other thing is.

    However, if anyone wants to buy me a playstation, I can dress up like a school girl for you.


    I'll buy you a candy.
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    Nov 20, 2014 8:13 PM GMT
    In my twenties, I was playing frisbee with a few buddies of mine in Lafayette Park in San Francisco. I noticed a gorgeous Bentley pulling to the curb. Out stepped a good looking, fit, distinguished looking 60-something man with a small poodle. He walked the dog into the park and later I saw him again, exiting the park walking toward his car - with a hunky little 20-something stud along side him. So I suddenly found out what a sugar daddy, and a sugar boy meant. It's all fine with me, by the way. Each guy is (hopefully) getting what he needs and wants.
  • FRE0

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    Nov 20, 2014 8:40 PM GMT
    Over half a century ago, when I was 20, I could have had a sugar daddy. "Ricardo" had an advertising business and did advertising for the then Minneapolis Symphony Orchestra for which he got free tickets. Considering that the tickets were free, I had no problem attending performances with him. However, I became exceedingly uncomfortable when he wanted to have meals with me at very expensive restaurants which him paying. Even if I had been romantically interested him him, and I was not, that would have made me uncomfortable. So, I stopped seeing him.
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    Nov 20, 2014 8:43 PM GMT
    I wish I was wealthy enough to be a sugar daddy I'd do what ever I wanted with MY money and wouldn't care what anyone else thought.

    I'd have a bevy of beautiful boys in my stable. I'd be the Hugh Hefner of the gay world.
  • FRE0

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    Nov 20, 2014 8:49 PM GMT
    UndercoverMan saidI wish I was wealthy enough to be a sugar daddy I'd do what ever I wanted with MY money and wouldn't care what anyone else thought.

    I'd have a bevy of beautiful boys in my stable. I'd be the Hugh Hefner of the gay world.


    And you'd know that they were interested only in your money, not you.
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    Nov 20, 2014 9:19 PM GMT
    FRE0 said
    UndercoverMan saidI wish I was wealthy enough to be a sugar daddy I'd do what ever I wanted with MY money and wouldn't care what anyone else thought.

    I'd have a bevy of beautiful boys in my stable. I'd be the Hugh Hefner of the gay world.


    And you'd know that they were interested only in your money, not you.

    How is it any different from guys interested in you due to your looks or dick size or your body? I wouldn't mind being rich either and banging all the hot guys out there using my money. You can't really say one type of superficiality is better than the other.