Would you date a guy that looks butch but acts fem?

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    Nov 20, 2014 12:16 AM GMT
    Would you be OK with that unusual dichotomy or would it weird you out? I personally find it strangely sexy.

    Discuss.
  • BloodFlame

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    Nov 20, 2014 5:04 AM GMT
    lol I feel that a lot of masculine gay men wouldn't care.
  • craycraydoesd...

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    Nov 20, 2014 5:16 AM GMT
    There are already too many of those. To pick the lesser evil, I'd rather have someone who looks more effeminate but IS butch inside.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Nov 20, 2014 6:12 AM GMT
    how is that even possible?
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    Nov 20, 2014 7:02 AM GMT
    I love muscle marys! icon_biggrin.gif

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    Nov 20, 2014 3:34 PM GMT
    xrichx saidI love muscle marys! icon_biggrin.gif




    Me too!
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    Nov 20, 2014 3:35 PM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidhow is that even possible?


    A guy that talks fem and has some mannerisms but physically is masculine: Body hair, muscles, beard in some cases, enjoys doing sports or tough jobs ,etc.
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    Nov 20, 2014 3:41 PM GMT
    yes but already found one
    thanks
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    Nov 20, 2014 6:56 PM GMT
    Why not?! You can (possibly) get the best of both worlds.
  • bro4bro

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    Nov 20, 2014 8:33 PM GMT
    One of the most effeminate guys I know is an absolute monster in the gym. He's tall, muscled, and ripped (all natural) and the amount of weight he throws around frightens me.

    While he's lifting, he's strong as an ox, and butch as can be. When he's not lifting, he has a sweet smile, soft eyes, a shy voice, and yes, quite effeminate mannerisms.

    I'd date him in a heartbeat. But - he's taken. He and his partner had a hasty wedding a week before Prop 8 passed and temporarily banned same sex marriages in California (of course they had no idea whether it would pass, or that it would be overturned). Good for him!
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    Nov 20, 2014 10:00 PM GMT
    That's not what I'm attracted to.
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    Nov 20, 2014 10:02 PM GMT
    kxd7 saidWould you be OK with that unusual dichotomy or would it weird you out? I personally find it strangely sexy.

    Discuss.


    Get 99.9% "butch" men behind close doors and you see how quickly they become fem and talk about fvcking their pussy. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Nov 20, 2014 10:10 PM GMT
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    kxd7 saidWould you be OK with that unusual dichotomy or would it weird you out? I personally find it strangely sexy.

    Discuss.


    Get 99.9% "butch" men behind close doors and you see how quickly they become fem and talk about fvcking their pussy. icon_rolleyes.gif

    And they want nothing else but a fist up their ass.
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    Nov 21, 2014 12:28 AM GMT
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  • stratavos

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    Nov 21, 2014 3:31 PM GMT
    depends how much we like each other.

    3/4 ain't bad you know ;)
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    Nov 21, 2014 9:51 PM GMT
    Nope. If I wanted a chick I'd be straight. Lol.
  • BlackDapper

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    Nov 22, 2014 3:47 AM GMT
    Yes and no. I don't mind some feminine qualities but if he's basically a woman trapped in a man's body ... absolutely not! I'm one of those guys who's attracted to masculinity and men who enjoy being men.
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    Nov 22, 2014 11:24 AM GMT
    I don't think that's an unusual combination. I though that was the common stereotype lol


    I'd give the right guy a shot....I think lol. Never been in that situation.
  • Sunny_x9

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    Nov 23, 2014 3:24 AM GMT
    Nope
    I like femme guys but
    I don't prefer muscle and hair on body, beard ...
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    Nov 23, 2014 4:27 AM GMT
    I love Muscle Marys!
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    Nov 23, 2014 11:07 PM GMT
    If he acts a little femme, it's ok. But if he acts like a Girl, then we may have a problem. icon_eek.gif
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    Nov 23, 2014 11:22 PM GMT
    I don't consider a muscle bottom to be effeminate. Nor a gentle touch.

    Effeminate, to me, is the walking, hand gestures, too many 'essssses" etc. Even then one is OK. But if he acts like a girl all the time....NFW!
  • muscleboundfe...

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    Nov 24, 2014 6:20 AM GMT
    Yes I'd date myself
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    Nov 25, 2014 8:13 AM GMT
    Yea I would date Tim Tebow.
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    Nov 30, 2014 9:16 AM GMT
    I know one guy, who is in friend list, but when I meet him - his fem attitude blows up. But he s quite muscular, going to gym working hard. If he is not openeing his mouth, then it is acceptable, bt afterwards talking with him it is clear (for me), that this is not the person with whim I would like to sleep together in one bed for long.
    That is my subjective opinion.