evchado32 saidHey. I'm having some trouble with my confidence and I think it is driving guys away from me. I can get most guys to talk to me, but they never seem to stick around and I know it is because of my confidence. I go to the gym and stuff(just started not too long ago), but I'm still having trouble thinking I'm attractive enough compared to all the other gay guys and stuff. Do you guys have any advice for gaining confidence and thinking of yourself as more attractive? I feel like if I did that, I would stand a better chance it finding a relationship and stuff like that. Thank you.
Self-esteem and self-confidence have become the buzzwords of the last couple of years. Practically every guy I meet in whatever the environment may be, claims that he is having self-esteem/self-confidence issues. Well, no one really wants to be left behind, rite?
When you come to think about it, since practically everyone has got those issues, these do not matter anymore.
The notion that everything could be better, richer, more colorful, more rewarding, etc. is exacting a very heavy toll on all of us.
You want to start your day by remembering that you, too, have quite a few blessings to count. You are in-shape, good-looking, young, to start with...
Now, if you personally feel that there are issues in your life that are not going the right way, address them immediately. Your school sucks? Your career prospects are dim? You are sinking in private debt?
Grab the bull by the horns, and start dealing with it today. Get as much help as you can, and make sure that whatever is robbing you of your sleep goes away.
And, yeah, leave those tired buzzwords to the others...