Can a pretty boy and a non-pretty boy become boyfriends?

  • infinitefrien...

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    Nov 23, 2014 6:16 PM GMT
    Is it possible?

    I fancy him but he is so pretty and it makes me insecure sometimes. All I think about is getting plastic surgery to impress. What can I do?
  • Destinharbor

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    Nov 23, 2014 8:07 PM GMT
    No.
  • infinitefrien...

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    Nov 24, 2014 12:47 PM GMT
    Destinharbor saidNo.


    Why not? icon_neutral.gif
  • Sunny_x9

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    Nov 24, 2014 5:37 PM GMT
    I can't judge my looks
    but I had a relationship ( sexual as well ) with a 16 year Pretty femme boy
    and you more look like Cat rather than a normal guy icon_razz.gif
    anyway I don't think so
  • ATLANTIS7

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    Nov 24, 2014 6:22 PM GMT
    Can a sea lion have sex with a penguin?

    The answer is YES?
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    Nov 24, 2014 7:50 PM GMT
    Those are rape cases! Poor penguins,have to cope with all this polar drama, and remain the lovely creatures they are!
  • johari94

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    Nov 24, 2014 8:22 PM GMT
    Yeah definately.

    I think a lot of gay men experience attraction differently from heterosexuals because we are usually attracted to what we aspire to be. In other words "I want to fuck you" vs. "I want to be you".

    There's nothing wrong with admiring his looks just learn to be secure in how you look. Because regardless of whether you choose to date him or not you're insecurities are still gonna be there.
  • johari94

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    Nov 24, 2014 8:22 PM GMT
    *your
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    Nov 24, 2014 10:24 PM GMT
    If Adam Duritz had a chance with Jennifer Aniston, anything is possible:

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  • Iota

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    Nov 24, 2014 10:45 PM GMT
    Be who you are...if the guy is as pretty as you say then great, but tastes are different for everyone, he may think you are breathtaking even if you don't think so. If looks are a that big of a deal breaker then its not meant to be and all the surgery in the world can't fix that. Be confident in who you are and the right guy will find you. I know plenty of couples that were brought together because of their looks but don't have any other compatibility. They fight all the time and are really difficult to be around because they are staying together for the wrong reasons....
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    Nov 24, 2014 11:51 PM GMT
    **Pretty** or **HOT** is a relative subjective term, depends on who you're asking. Just be who you are and date whoever you want, being **Pretty** won't automatically mean that you're unapproachable.
  • BloodFlame

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    Nov 25, 2014 12:00 AM GMT
    Iota saidBe who you are...if the guy is as pretty as you say then great, but tastes are different for everyone, he may think you are breathtaking even if you don't think so. If looks are a that big of a deal breaker then its not meant to be and all the surgery in the world can't fix that. Be confident in who you are and the right guy will find you. I know plenty of couples that were brought together because of their looks but don't have any other compatibility. They fight all the time and are really difficult to be around because they are staying together for the wrong reasons....


    +1 here.

    Sure, it may be true that most "pretty" boys date other "pretty" boys but that's not a 100% absolution because guys can have a range of different likes. This is example IS NOT very common but I remember browsing A4A once and came across a young bodybuilder who you'd expect wanted to find someone like him but he said he was only attracted to fat, hairy, silver haired daddies. Now, who knows why he had that attraction to someone so different from him but this goes to show that you never know who is attracted to who.

    Again, yes, this isn't very common in the gay world compared to the hetero world but that doesn't mean it doesn't exist. Heck, for all you know, the supposed hot guy may like someone who isn't considered physically hot to his friends/group and thus, doesn't want to act on it. You see this with the secret chubby chasers in the hetero world. Guys deemed attractive who have a liking to overweight women but due to social stigma, don't act on it or if they do, they do it behind closed doors.

    Anyway, just try to find inner confidence in yourself. If you want to lose some weight, lose some weight or vice versa. But as far as face goes, I really wouldn't risk having a full retouch because it can either go good or horribly wrong.
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    Nov 25, 2014 2:58 AM GMT
    No. I think there are laws against it. icon_rolleyes.gif
  • mybud

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    Nov 25, 2014 5:54 AM GMT
    No amount of plastic surgery can fix a low self esteem..You change the face and body but you're still you.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Nov 25, 2014 6:34 AM GMT
    Happens all the time ... I'm like, 'what the fuck does he see in him .... o ... big dick'
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    Nov 28, 2014 3:27 PM GMT
    Life is a interesting thing. It can play any game it want's, there e is no answer that would be 100% correct. You need to try and start loving yourself icon_smile.gif
  • PRDGUY

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    Nov 29, 2014 4:45 AM GMT
    yes again
  • Quasar

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    Dec 04, 2014 3:36 AM GMT
    I dont know many friendships that hinge on whether or not both find each other attractive.
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    Dec 17, 2014 10:54 AM GMT
    what does this even mean?
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    Dec 17, 2014 1:55 PM GMT
    It depends on how much money the non-pretty boy has.
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    Dec 17, 2014 2:49 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidIt depends on how much money the non-pretty boy has.

    Are there no rich pretty boys out there? Am I going to be single all my life? icon_sad.gif
  • HottJoe

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    Dec 17, 2014 4:42 PM GMT
    __morphic__ said
    paulflexes saidIt depends on how much money the non-pretty boy has.

    Are there no rich pretty boys out there? Am I going to be single all my life? icon_sad.gif

    Lol