Can someone tell me why I don't have a boyfriend?

  • infinitefrien...

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    Nov 29, 2014 11:30 AM GMT
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    I really want one to love, but no, i don't have one!

    Don't know what to do anymore except get plastic surgery and try to attract one.

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    Dec 03, 2014 9:34 PM GMT
    If you are not comfortable or accepting of your looks, then people recognize that. You have to stop presuming what people think about you and focus on how you think about yourself. If there are things you don't like about your appearance that you can change, then make the commitment to do that and stick with it. But recognize that you are doing it for yourself, not to "attract others". There will always be someone better looking, in better shape and younger, and if that is all your potential partners are interested in, then you will not be in a fulfilling relationship. Focus on being the best you can be and learning to like yourself and someone will come along. Also, don't attached yourself to friends that are always single or aren't very social. Having someone that can introduce you to others helps. Maybe get out there and volunteer, learn to approach others and initiate conversations. Don't do things to perpetuate the situation.
  • Destinharbor

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    Dec 03, 2014 9:43 PM GMT
    Because you're annoying. Stop acting so weird and making up multiple goofy threads every day. Get real.
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    Dec 03, 2014 9:43 PM GMT
    It's because you are a kitten
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    Dec 03, 2014 11:51 PM GMT
    Because most gay men prefer to play the field, and because you live in a somewhat remote location.
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    Dec 04, 2014 4:23 AM GMT
    PatrickRyan saidIf you are not comfortable or accepting of your looks, then people recognize that. You have to stop presuming what people think about you and focus on how you think about yourself. If there are things you don't like about your appearance that you can change, then make the commitment to do that and stick with it. But recognize that you are doing it for yourself, not to "attract others". There will always be someone better looking, in better shape and younger, and if that is all your potential partners are interested in, then you will not be in a fulfilling relationship. Focus on being the best you can be and learning to like yourself and someone will come along. Also, don't attached yourself to friends that are always single or aren't very social. Having someone that can introduce you to others helps. Maybe get out there and volunteer, learn to approach others and initiate conversations. Don't do things to perpetuate the situation.


    ^ spot on, brother!
  • muscleboundfe...

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    Dec 04, 2014 6:42 PM GMT
    Your underage pussy, try the guys at your school