How To Be a Better Bottom

  • CuteGamerboy

    Posts: 18

    Dec 01, 2014 6:30 PM GMT
    Hello i really need help, i want to be a better bottom, im kinda new to the gay world as a whole just coming out, but when i try and date or even have sex with guys i just don't feel all the way good down there if u know what i mean.........enemas don't really work for me and u cant always pull one out of the blue so is there like a diet i should have just to be ready for sex in a relationship. and i would like to just be healthy all the way around because i know enemas and pills that make u go are not good for long term heath so can anyone HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • Destinharbor

    Posts: 4433

    Dec 01, 2014 6:41 PM GMT
    There are disposable douche bottles available. If you feel the need, just use one of them and shower before going out in a venue that might end up with you having sex. Or a date. And just eat healthy food with leafy veggies as part of your regular diet. But eating clean, healthy food is the key to minimal pooping. And no greasy food ever. But it really isn't as big of a deal as most newbies assume. Seems like it would be, but it isn't. My partner and I never, ever use anything like that and we never have a problem. Now if you're talking rim, a shower minutes before crawling in bed is always nice. And if a nasty happens, don't be embarrassed or apologetic or make a big deal about it. Just grab the sheets and throw them in the washer. It does and will happen somewhere sometime. Not a big deal.