My friend is an relationship and it's upsetting him

  • ZakSayWhat

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    Dec 02, 2014 2:52 PM GMT
    So we were talking yesterday and basically he is 31 /32 now and has been seeing a guy for a year. He is open and has met many of his friends etc but this relationship has no sex in it, they've not even seen each other naked. They don't even hold hands, my friend now has it in his head that's innapropriate to even touch. He knows it's a messed up relationship but he basically wants to know if it's ok to wAnna be with someone coz it's better than being alone. This is his first proper bf as well.

  • HottJoe

    Posts: 21366

    Dec 02, 2014 9:51 PM GMT
    Is it upsetting less than being single would upset him? Lol
  • Destinharbor

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    Dec 02, 2014 10:08 PM GMT
    My guess is there are a lot of guys out there like your friend's friend. Not everyone is sexual. Seems odd to those of us who are, but I've known a lot of men and women who just aren't into sex. Especially in hetero marriages. Your friend should decide if that's enough for him and be happy with his guy or have a serious talk. I personally wouldn't appreciate it if I found out my guy had a problem with us and chose to talk to someone else instead of me.
  • HottJoe

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    Dec 02, 2014 10:34 PM GMT
    Destinharbor saidMy guess is there are a lot of guys out there like your friend. Not everyone is sexual. Seems odd to those of us who are, but I've known a lot of men and women who just aren't into sex. Especially in hetero marriages.

    I think an unwillingness to consummate the marriage is grounds for an annulment in the Catholic Church, and they're the most conservative anti-divorce group I can think of.

    It would seem selfish for someone to pretend to want a relationship with someone and then not put out. If you just want a possessive emotionally manipulative platonic friendship then at least choose someone who lost their dick in a IED, or something.icon_lol.gif
  • ZakSayWhat

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    Dec 02, 2014 11:00 PM GMT
    Ps my friend is actually me


    Imitely now turning to do so many different sources for emotional support and for validation without having sex with anyone


    So much
  • HottJoe

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    Dec 02, 2014 11:06 PM GMT
    ZakSayWhat saidPs my friend is actually me


    Imitely now turning to do so many different sources for emotional support and for validation without having sex with anyone


    So much

    I think you should date an abstract poet with a donkey dick.
  • ZakSayWhat

    Posts: 573

    Dec 02, 2014 11:53 PM GMT
    I literally have no idea what happened. I can't see what I write coz im on my phone