My Grindr Story

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    Dec 04, 2014 6:53 AM GMT
    I see this guy on Grindr and he's just what I'm looking for. I start a convo and we immediately kick it off. I suggest we exchange pics and he agrees. I send a couple pics right before I start driving home. As I'm driving I get a notification, check it quickly, it's a comment from him. He really likes my pics. Noted. I'm driving so I don't respond. Two more notifications. He's sending me pics. Awesome! I don't check them tho because I'm driving, on the highway... at night. Two more notifications. I take a quick glance but can't really read them, all I make out are some questions marks. OK. 45 mins or so later I arrive at my destination. I go to check my messages, eager to see the pics... but there are none, neither is our conversation. Whammo! he blocked me. Just like that. Grindr always shows me as online and I guess he thought I wasn't interested when I didn't respond... icon_sad.gif and now he never existed. That's my grindr story.

    Your turn. Do you have one?
  • AMoonHawk

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    Dec 04, 2014 7:03 AM GMT
    Create a new account, you'll find him again ... However if he is that hot headed you may not really have hit it off like you thought and he's probably not worth getting to know.
  • Rene_Aensland

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    Dec 04, 2014 7:09 AM GMT
    Never had Grindr.
    Stupid ass app.

    Get a car, go meet people like normal people did.
    What's the point of talking to people on an app when other people around them can be talking to them at the same time you are.
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    Dec 04, 2014 6:34 PM GMT
    How 'bout "Don't Grindr & Drive". Focus on driving when you're behind the wheel, and focus on Grindr when you're not...

    Signed with love and appreciation,
    A cyclist and runner who gets really bothered by distracted drivers.
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    Dec 04, 2014 6:39 PM GMT
    very simple.. if ur gonna leave a guy hanging while ur in a conversation with them.. say brb or something so they know ur busy and not ignoring them.
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    Dec 04, 2014 6:41 PM GMT
    If you're on Grindr you deserve whatever happens to you. Can't believe anyone still uses that app given all we know about it.
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    Dec 04, 2014 6:43 PM GMT
    I've had a number of guys get pissed at me for not instantly returning their txts, even after I told them, "I'm driving now," or "I'm working now." It's probably a bad sign if they're unable to comprehend this.
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    Dec 04, 2014 6:51 PM GMT
    --Older, didn't look like his pics...still let him blow me in the HEB parking lot.
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    Dec 04, 2014 9:33 PM GMT
    Dude was the type that wanted instant responses. Looks like his parents didn't teach patience. Forget that dude.
  • FRE0

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    Dec 04, 2014 9:52 PM GMT
    onejock saidHow 'bout "Don't Grindr & Drive". Focus on driving when you're behind the wheel, and focus on Grindr when you're not...

    Signed with love and appreciation,
    A cyclist and runner who gets really bothered by distracted drivers.


    Good point.

    The dangers of using a cell 'phone while driving have been well established. It should be discouraged.
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    Dec 04, 2014 10:00 PM GMT
    After 45 minutes or so of no response, I can see how he thought you weren't interested. But he sounds a bit insecure if he blocked you just because of it.
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    Dec 04, 2014 10:16 PM GMT
    I was talking to a really hot guy on Grindr last night. He messaged me first and didn't have a pic on his profile, so I asked him for one and he sent it. I complimented him and we chatted for a little while, until I decided to tell him how hot I thought he was. He thanked me and asked to see more pics of me, so I sent them. He said "Nice" so I thanked him and asked to see more of him, and he never replied. I figured maybe he went to bed since it was late, but I sent him a "Good morning" message today and he still hasn't replied. I really hope he messages me again. He looked like Ryan Gosling. icon_sad.gif
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    Dec 04, 2014 10:32 PM GMT
    people are so insecure i don't even know whether to laugh or laugh.

    some serious cringe worthy shit right there.


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    Dec 04, 2014 10:40 PM GMT
    Rene_Aensland saidNever had Grindr.
    Stupid ass app.

    Get a car, go meet people like normal people did.
    What's the point of talking to people on an app when other people around them can be talking to them at the same time you are.


    thing is people want easy sex, without having to deal with the "ordeal" of the getting-to-know-them phase.

    that's society in 2014 for you.
  • FRE0

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    Dec 04, 2014 10:42 PM GMT
    ant811 saidI was talking to a really hot guy on Grindr last night. He messaged me first and didn't have a pic on his profile, so I asked him for one and he sent it. I complimented him and we chatted for a little while, until I decided to tell him how hot I thought he was. He thanked me and asked to see more pics of me, so I sent them. He said "Nice" so I thanked him and asked to see more of him, and he never replied. I figured maybe he went to bed since it was late, but I sent him a "Good morning" message today and he still hasn't replied. I really hope he messages me again. He looked like Ryan Gosling. icon_sad.gif


    Perhaps is only interest is in collecting pictures.
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    Dec 04, 2014 10:56 PM GMT
    and then printing'em and sticking them on his secret grindr altar in his basement.
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    Dec 04, 2014 11:06 PM GMT
    ant811 said He said "Nice" so I thanked him and asked to see more of him, and he never replied. I figured maybe he went to bed since it was late, but I sent him a "Good morning" message today and he still hasn't replied. I really hope he messages me again. He looked like Ryan Gosling. icon_sad.gif

    Or, he's not the guy in the pic he sent you.
  • FRE0

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    Dec 05, 2014 2:37 AM GMT
    patito saidand then printing'em and sticking them on his secret grindr altar in his basement.


    Or, if the pictures are of a man who looks better than him, passing them off as his pictures.
  • wesv

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    Dec 05, 2014 6:26 AM GMT
    I have too many stories to even think of one.

    Oh here's one:
    There's this guy who lives in Santa Monica. He was in my city to take care of his mom. He sent me a message. I wasn't into this guy at all. I replied just to have a neighbor-like chat. Nothing sexual in our convo. Then the next time he visited, he sent a message. I didn't reply just because I didn't want to. He visits his mom every now and then and usually sends me a message when he's around. I never replied since. So at one point he got mad and sends me things like "you're a snob," "asshole," "die from AIDS," and my favorite, "move to West Hollywood with that attitude, you belong there." Man this guy's crazy. He'll never get a reply from me.
  • Rene_Aensland

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    Dec 05, 2014 6:36 AM GMT
    wesv saidI have too many stories to even think of one.

    Oh here's one:
    There's this guy who lives in Santa Monica. He was in my city to take care of his mom. He sent me a message. I wasn't into this guy at all. I replied just to have a neighbor-like chat. Nothing sexual in our convo. Then the next time he visited, he sent a message. I didn't reply just because I didn't want to. He visits his mom every now and then and usually sends me a message when he's around. I never replied since. So at one point he got mad and sends me things like "you're a snob," "asshole," "die from AIDS," and my favorite, "move to West Hollywood with that attitude, you belong there." Man this guy's crazy. He'll never get a reply from me.


    Move to West Hollywood?! There are so many nice people there lol
    Myself included.
  • wesv

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    Dec 05, 2014 6:39 AM GMT
    Rene_Aensland said
    wesv saidI have too many stories to even think of one.

    Oh here's one:
    There's this guy who lives in Santa Monica. He was in my city to take care of his mom. He sent me a message. I wasn't into this guy at all. I replied just to have a neighbor-like chat. Nothing sexual in our convo. Then the next time he visited, he sent a message. I didn't reply just because I didn't want to. He visits his mom every now and then and usually sends me a message when he's around. I never replied since. So at one point he got mad and sends me things like "you're a snob," "asshole," "die from AIDS," and my favorite, "move to West Hollywood with that attitude, you belong there." Man this guy's crazy. He'll never get a reply from me.


    Move to West Hollywood?! There are so many nice people there lol
    Myself included.


    Fuck it man, I should just move there and work at Cooley's when it opens. Two really great friends of mine live there.
  • Rene_Aensland

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    Dec 05, 2014 6:52 AM GMT
    wesv said
    Rene_Aensland said
    wesv saidI have too many stories to even think of one.

    Oh here's one:
    There's this guy who lives in Santa Monica. He was in my city to take care of his mom. He sent me a message. I wasn't into this guy at all. I replied just to have a neighbor-like chat. Nothing sexual in our convo. Then the next time he visited, he sent a message. I didn't reply just because I didn't want to. He visits his mom every now and then and usually sends me a message when he's around. I never replied since. So at one point he got mad and sends me things like "you're a snob," "asshole," "die from AIDS," and my favorite, "move to West Hollywood with that attitude, you belong there." Man this guy's crazy. He'll never get a reply from me.


    Move to West Hollywood?! There are so many nice people there lol
    Myself included.


    Fuck it man, I should just move there and work at Cooley's when it opens. Two really great friends of mine live there.


    I don't know what Cooley's is.
    xD
  • wesv

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    Dec 05, 2014 7:02 AM GMT
    Rene_Aensland said
    wesv said
    Rene_Aensland said
    wesv saidI have too many stories to even think of one.

    Oh here's one:
    There's this guy who lives in Santa Monica. He was in my city to take care of his mom. He sent me a message. I wasn't into this guy at all. I replied just to have a neighbor-like chat. Nothing sexual in our convo. Then the next time he visited, he sent a message. I didn't reply just because I didn't want to. He visits his mom every now and then and usually sends me a message when he's around. I never replied since. So at one point he got mad and sends me things like "you're a snob," "asshole," "die from AIDS," and my favorite, "move to West Hollywood with that attitude, you belong there." Man this guy's crazy. He'll never get a reply from me.


    Move to West Hollywood?! There are so many nice people there lol
    Myself included.


    Fuck it man, I should just move there and work at Cooley's when it opens. Two really great friends of mine live there.


    I don't know what Cooley's is.
    xD


    It's the new restaurant/bar/club that was supposed to be opened since the summer but keeps on having delays. Around the corner from the Abbey.
  • thadjock

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    Dec 05, 2014 7:07 AM GMT
    The_Perfect_Ashlar saidI see this guy on Grindr... and now he never existed. That's my grindr story.

    Your turn. Do you have one?


    ^ edited for clarity ^

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    additionally; everybody knows.... all good grindr stories end with a body in the trunk of a rental-car at the airport.
  • Rene_Aensland

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    Dec 05, 2014 7:08 AM GMT
    wesv said
    Rene_Aensland said
    wesv said
    Rene_Aensland said
    wesv saidI have too many stories to even think of one.

    Oh here's one:
    There's this guy who lives in Santa Monica. He was in my city to take care of his mom. He sent me a message. I wasn't into this guy at all. I replied just to have a neighbor-like chat. Nothing sexual in our convo. Then the next time he visited, he sent a message. I didn't reply just because I didn't want to. He visits his mom every now and then and usually sends me a message when he's around. I never replied since. So at one point he got mad and sends me things like "you're a snob," "asshole," "die from AIDS," and my favorite, "move to West Hollywood with that attitude, you belong there." Man this guy's crazy. He'll never get a reply from me.


    Move to West Hollywood?! There are so many nice people there lol
    Myself included.


    Fuck it man, I should just move there and work at Cooley's when it opens. Two really great friends of mine live there.


    I don't know what Cooley's is.
    xD


    It's the new restaurant/bar/club that was supposed to be opened since the summer but keeps on having delays. Around the corner from the Abbey.


    I know exactly what you're talking about.