Locking Eyes at the Gym

  • AnonymousNYC

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    Dec 08, 2014 3:39 AM GMT
    How do you know if they are interested or not? I dont want to seem creepy
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    Dec 08, 2014 6:02 AM GMT
    If it's a gym you like going to and plan to stay at, I would be cautious. Maybe ask them to spot you or ask to work in on the equipment they are on and see if it leads to more conversation. I wouldn't do anything too forward at the gym or it could lead to some awkward moments if he is not into you, or not into guys at all. A smile and just saying hi when you see him wouldn't hurt.
  • LutheranGuy

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    Dec 09, 2014 7:28 PM GMT
    They will approach you.
  • MikemikeMike

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    Dec 09, 2014 7:31 PM GMT
    AnonymousNYC saidHow do you know if they are interested or not? I dont want to seem creepy

    Your profile says monogamous relationship. I guess not for long.icon_lol.gif
  • bro4bro

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    Dec 10, 2014 5:11 AM GMT
    LutheranGuy saidThey will approach you.

    Umm... unless someone gave the other guy the same bad advice.

    If this is a guy you see at the gym every day, it's easy. Just say "Hi" as he passes by, or as you pass by him. Nothing more, just "Hi". And do it every time you see him.

    After a week or so of that, assuming he responds, add something like "How's it going?" or "Hey I see you here a lot but I don't know your name."

    If he's at all interested, he'll respond.

    On the other hand, if this is a guy you've never seen at the gym before, just fuckin' go for it.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Dec 10, 2014 6:12 AM GMT
    YCYL icon_lol.gif