Not sure how to proceed...

  • jesseazoulai

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    Dec 09, 2014 11:03 PM GMT
    So I started talking to this guy from a dating app a few weeks ago, and when we finally met we matched perfectly. We have so much in common. We've been on two dates since then. I REALLY am starting to fall for him (e.g. I get really nervous around him and I get "butterflies" in my stomach). I really want kiss him on our next date (tonight) but I don't know if he wants to? He told me a week ago he still needs time to get over his ex... but still, we're going on dates? He's really hard to "read" and I don't want to be put in a situation where I move in to kiss him and he pulls away. What should I do? I really need help on this one, guys. icon_confused.gif


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  • Destinharbor

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    Dec 09, 2014 11:45 PM GMT
    jesseazoulai saidSo I started talking to this guy from a dating app a few weeks ago, and when we finally met we matched perfectly. We have so much in common. We've been on two dates since then. I REALLY am starting to fall for him (e.g. I get really nervous around him and I get "butterflies" in my stomach). I really want kiss him on our next date (tonight) but I don't know if he wants to? He told me a week ago he still needs time to get over his ex... but still, we're going on dates? He's really hard to "read" and I don't want to be put in a situation where I move in to kiss him and he pulls away. What should I do? I really need help on this one, guys. icon_confused.gif


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    Kiss him everywhere but on the lips and see what happens. Start with the back, then ears, then neck.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Dec 09, 2014 11:57 PM GMT
    2 dates and no kiss ... he's not interested in anything other than friends ... save yourself some time and heartache .... look for someone else
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    Dec 10, 2014 12:19 AM GMT
    jesseazoulai saidS... and I don't want to be put in a situation where I move in to kiss him and he pulls away...
    no big bad, at least you tried, in case he does have some verbal reply.

    the worst thing that could happen is he goes back to his X