New to Gay Life: Looking to Meet New People

  • Jav1993

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    Dec 13, 2014 3:27 PM GMT
    Hi, guys! I'm Jav. I've recently decided to embrace the gay lifestyle and make some friends and hopefully start dating. I live in GA and go to a very conservative school here, so there's not many guys I can talk to. And the ones I can talk to are only interested in white guys (not that's a bad thing, it's just...I'm everything but white haha). So basically, I'd love to be your friend and hopefully you can teach me something and give me advice about being gay cause...I know nothing haha. Thanks!
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    Dec 13, 2014 3:31 PM GMT
    Hi and welcome. icon_biggrin.gif
  • Jav1993

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    Dec 13, 2014 4:02 PM GMT
    Thanks haha! I feel like a fish out of water icon_razz.gif
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    Dec 13, 2014 4:14 PM GMT
    Jav1993 saidHi, guys! I'm Jav. I've recently decided to embrace the gay lifestyle and make some friends and hopefully start dating. I live in GA and go to a very conservative school here, so there's not many guys I can talk to. And the ones I can talk to are only interested in white guys (not that's a bad thing, it's just...I'm everything but white haha). So basically, I'd love to be your friend and hopefully you can teach me something and give me advice about being gay cause...I know nothing haha. Thanks!

    Welcome!
    By the way, there is no "gay lifestyle"
    There are as many types of lifestyles among gay men as there are among straights: jocks, muscleheads, gamers, geeks, techies, nerds, musicians, you name it
    Just be whatever you want to be, and you'll enjoy your life
  • HottJoe

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    Dec 13, 2014 4:41 PM GMT
    Welcome to RJ! Feel free to post noodz, offer life advice, workout tips, healthy political debate-- or just an old fashion drag down smack down hair pulling wig snatching diva fight....icon_lol.gif
  • Destinharbor

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    Dec 13, 2014 4:44 PM GMT
    Welcome, guy. Good for you. Life is so much more fun out! Enjoy!
  • Jav1993

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    Dec 13, 2014 5:06 PM GMT
    "Feel free to post noodz"

    Hahaha thanks guys icon_smile.gif Nice to see I've already made a few friends! It's good to be out icon_biggrin.gif
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    Dec 13, 2014 8:37 PM GMT
    Sharkspeare said
    Jav1993 saidHi, guys! I'm Jav. I've recently decided to embrace the gay lifestyle and make some friends and hopefully start dating. I live in GA and go to a very conservative school here, so there's not many guys I can talk to. And the ones I can talk to are only interested in white guys (not that's a bad thing, it's just...I'm everything but white haha). So basically, I'd love to be your friend and hopefully you can teach me something and give me advice about being gay cause...I know nothing haha. Thanks!

    Welcome!
    By the way, there is no "gay lifestyle"
    There are as many types of lifestyles among gay men as there are among straights: jocks, muscleheads, gamers, geeks, techies, nerds, musicians, you name it
    Just be whatever you want to be, and you'll enjoy your life


    +1


    Welcome!
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    Dec 13, 2014 8:39 PM GMT
    First step towards embracing gay lifestyle is you need to post your nudes. Otherwise,you ain't no gay. icon_mad.gif
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    Dec 13, 2014 9:25 PM GMT
    __morphic__ saidFirst step towards embracing gay lifestyle is you need to post your nudes. Otherwise,you ain't no gay. icon_mad.gif


    Followed by whining about how everyone victimizes you. icon_rolleyes.gif
  • Jav1993

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    Dec 13, 2014 9:36 PM GMT
    Only the cool kids get muh nudes icon_cool.gif
  • tj85016

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    Dec 14, 2014 12:45 AM GMT
    Jav1993 saidOnly the cool kids get muh nudes icon_cool.gif


    everyone has them dude, my sister even forwarded them to me
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    Dec 14, 2014 12:57 AM GMT
    Ummm... what is a "gay lifestyle"?
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    Dec 14, 2014 12:58 AM GMT
    Sharkspeare said
    Jav1993 saidHi, guys! I'm Jav. I've recently decided to embrace the gay lifestyle and make some friends and hopefully start dating. I live in GA and go to a very conservative school here, so there's not many guys I can talk to. And the ones I can talk to are only interested in white guys (not that's a bad thing, it's just...I'm everything but white haha). So basically, I'd love to be your friend and hopefully you can teach me something and give me advice about being gay cause...I know nothing haha. Thanks!

    Welcome!
    By the way, there is no "gay lifestyle"
    There are as many types of lifestyles among gay men as there are among straights: jocks, muscleheads, gamers, geeks, techies, nerds, musicians, you name it
    Just be whatever you want to be, and you'll enjoy your life


    Exactly.
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    Dec 14, 2014 4:44 AM GMT
    Welcome!!!

    Like many others have said, just be yourself. Your good lucks are a major plus, you should have no problem meeting new people.
  • Jav1993

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    Dec 14, 2014 7:43 AM GMT
    Aww thanks man icon_smile.gif that's nice. The looks aint helping so far tho
  • Trontastic

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    Dec 14, 2014 7:01 PM GMT
    Hey there! Welcome to the club! Chips and dip are on the table to your right!

    For what it's worth, I'm kinda sorta in the same position at the moment. Frankly, I think if you put yourself "out there" (as much as you're comfortable), you should do fine. You'd be surprised how many like minded guys are around you.

    But, a word of caution. Do NOT get into a political debate here. No matter stupid the other guy is sounding. It's for your sanity's sake.
  • Jav1993

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    Dec 15, 2014 5:27 AM GMT
    HAHA thanks for the advice man!
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    Dec 15, 2014 6:33 AM GMT
    Welcome Out!

    Hold on tight -- it's a breath-taking ride!!!

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    Dec 16, 2014 6:18 PM GMT
    Buddy, just jump in and get wet. If you're over 21, go to a gay bar. There are plenty of them in Atlana. Just go in, order a drink, and if you see a guy who appeals to you say hello. Don't ovethink it, and dont't go in with any expectations. Just have fun. It is more liberating just being in a place where you can be yourself than you can possibly believe :-)
  • Joeyphx444

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    Dec 16, 2014 7:54 PM GMT
    Welcome, have fun getting corrupted
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    Dec 16, 2014 8:40 PM GMT
    Cash saidWelcome Out!

    Hold on tight -- it's a breath-taking ride!!!

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    I heard those exact words last night.
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    Dec 16, 2014 8:44 PM GMT
    Is there any particular reason you HAVE to go to "a very conservative school" in GA? There ARE more gay-friendly places on the globe.