How past sexual actions & having sex 4 fun in the past &mutiple realtions with men will affect a Love Long Term monogamous Relationship in the future? Is there any relation? will it make the relation stronger weaker,less fun? Can u share your experiences?
I had lots of recreational anonymous gay sex when I was single. Sometimes 7 guys in a single weekend (not counting bathhouse mass orgies). It taught me a lot (as well as providing much fun!). Useful skills that helped when I was monogamous with a BF or LTR, that made me a better, more experienced lover.
Multiple relations need not weaken you, I think rather they can strengthen you, make you better.
And it works both ways for me. I smile & laugh when my husband tells me about his past sexual adventures, and misadventures, because they don't affect me, long before we got together. He's not gonna stray today, I know that. And I freely tell him about my own past escapades. Sometimes we reenact them.