Sex in the past and its effect on LTR

  • meezo

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    Dec 13, 2014 8:25 PM GMT
    How past sexual actions&having sex 4 fun in the past &mutiple realtions with men will affect a Love Long Term monogamous Relationship in the future?Is there any relation?will it make the relation stronger weaker,less fun? Can u share your experiences?
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    Dec 13, 2014 10:26 PM GMT
    You first. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Dec 13, 2014 10:52 PM GMT
    meezo said
    How past sexual actions & having sex 4 fun in the past &mutiple realtions with men will affect a Love Long Term monogamous Relationship in the future? Is there any relation? will it make the relation stronger weaker,less fun? Can u share your experiences?

    I had lots of recreational anonymous gay sex when I was single. Sometimes 7 guys in a single weekend (not counting bathhouse mass orgies). It taught me a lot (as well as providing much fun!). Useful skills that helped when I was monogamous with a BF or LTR, that made me a better, more experienced lover.

    Multiple relations need not weaken you, I think rather they can strengthen you, make you better.

    And it works both ways for me. I smile & laugh when my husband tells me about his past sexual adventures, and misadventures, because they don't affect me, long before we got together. He's not gonna stray today, I know that. And I freely tell him about my own past escapades. Sometimes we reenact them. icon_eek.gif
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    Dec 14, 2014 12:41 AM GMT
    meezo saidHow past sexual actions&having sex 4 fun in the past &mutiple realtions with men will affect a Love Long Term monogamous Relationship in the future?Is there any relation?will it make the relation stronger weaker,less fun? Can u share your experiences?

    Can we say having had some experience under your belt before meeting Mr. Right can really increase the likelihood that Mr. Right is in fact right for you (and vice versa).
  • meezo

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    Dec 14, 2014 10:03 PM GMT
    xrichx saidYou first. icon_biggrin.gif

    Haha..if I have I would tell,I am just afraid to have sex adventures icon_smile.gif That is why I am asking
  • meezo

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    Dec 14, 2014 10:04 PM GMT
    Thank u guys for your replies,so I can say it will affect LTRs positively
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    Dec 16, 2014 3:52 PM GMT
    sex is the 30% of the relationship.
    -your the silly romantic to think any of this matters when the bills dont get paid.
    -New years day you conisder at where your combined lives will be in ten years when two partners dont share a view of the future.
    -The constant compromise when you dont appreciate the present.
    -to make a ltr work you have to forgive a lot, like you must forgive your self