Anyone else feel like a nobody at times?

  • HopefulMuscle

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    Dec 16, 2014 3:35 AM GMT
    Having a kind of a blue day, like im just here. Anyone else have days like this? How do you move forward?
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    Dec 17, 2014 5:44 AM GMT
    OMG, this is from the 15th? And no one responded? Oh how sad. It's normally such a warm and welcoming and supportive community. Are you okay? Here's how you'll know:

    If you can see the humor in nobody responding to a cry for help from someone saying they feel like a nobody, then you're gonna be okay. But if it made you feel even worse, and why wouldn't it?, then I just thought I'd check in on ya, see how ya doin'?

    Look at me; at a time of need, I'm a first responder. Two days late. But still first.

    So anyway, um, no, I've never felt that way. My mommy loved me too much to ever let that happen. Also I do quite a bit of exploring of consciousness so I've a sense of self as well as a sense of no self which is not quite the same as a sense of being nobody. It's a sense of being. And that might be what you're missing.

    Now, be careful. Because there are douchebags on this forum who will actually endeavor to make someone feel like a nobody. I think they do that so you don't have to feel that way on your own. See how helpful the people around here are? But they are actually nothing but scum so if anyone does that to you, you tell them to fuck off.

    Don't look towards them to make you feel like someone because they are nothing but crap. Whenever you feel like a nobody, you look inside. We are snowflakes.

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  • Rowing_Ant

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    Dec 17, 2014 1:56 PM GMT
    Yep. Pretty much all the time.

    Feel like a nobody.

    Useless.

    Waste of space.

    Like empty in side and not sure of who I am. Other than I don't like who I am (go figure!).

    ARGH. sigh.
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    Dec 17, 2014 3:18 PM GMT
    Sure. Whenever I go,to west Hollywood :-)
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    Dec 17, 2014 3:35 PM GMT
    You are one of approximately 7 billion people on this planet. Unless by some twist of fate you have been gifted like Einstein, Beethoven, Leonardo da Vinci, Michelangelo, or the like you will live and die and remain to posterity a nobody. You may be lucky enough to show up as a name on a family tree provided someone bothers to research you.

    The best you can hope for is to be a good man to those around you and not fuck up and do something stupid like exterminate 6 million Jews or the like. Even if you do no harm and only good, within a generation, you will be forgotten.

    Now run along, be of good cheer, and have a good day!
  • HopefulMuscle

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    Dec 17, 2014 4:56 PM GMT
    You guys are absolutely right. And I should/will be a lot more grateful for what I have. It was a blue day, felt less than a man. Im doing ok now. I guess exhaustion and lack of food affected my mind.
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    Dec 18, 2014 9:20 AM GMT
    Rowing_Ant saidYep. Pretty much all the time.

    Feel like a nobody.

    Useless.

    Waste of space.

    Like empty in side and not sure of who I am. Other than I don't like who I am (go figure!).

    ARGH. sigh.
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  • HottJoe

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    Jan 01, 2015 5:21 PM GMT
    I often get depressed about my writing career, because I've never found a place for my work, other than RJ, which doesn't count for anything in the writing industry. I just worry that I'm wasting my talent, since most people (even most gay people) will probably never read my work. It just gets lost in the shuffle.... That's why I use my body/face as a crutch.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Jan 01, 2015 5:38 PM GMT
    Stop looking at the big picture, you can't be everywhere and all things

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    and just concentrate on the small space and around you that you occupy, live in the here and now

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    Mar 09, 2015 12:17 PM GMT
    of you are nobody, which I think too sometimes. who is somebody..and that's everyone else...so whay cant I be in that group. I got cool things to say and am nice and fun..... you are a body, handsome one at that.

    just focus on strethening your body and mind and flexibility..

    also we cant read minds yet, so until then others opinions derogatory towards me for being adhd- that's the other peoples prejudices and lack n interest.

    domebody day ho, ho ho

    pst