Why do old white men assume young minorities will be attracted to them?

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  • ZakSayWhat

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    Dec 18, 2014 11:17 PM GMT
    because they do.
  • BloodFlame

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    Dec 19, 2014 1:15 AM GMT
    From what I've observed when I do get hit on by white men who are majority, all well over my age in their 50s and 60s, in my experience, it's because they want the "BBC" myth. I only say this because they'd ask me questions about how big my penis was or if they could have a picture of it. And since they know that minorities, especially black men are thought to be the least desirable, they feel they could take advantage of that "fact."

    However, another thing I noticed from two I've conversed with, I feel that they generally are interested and don't see color. They just want to get to know the person but this is VERY rare in my experience.

    My 0.02
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    Dec 19, 2014 3:43 AM GMT
    BloodFlame saidFrom what I've observed when I do get hit on by white men who are majority, all well over my age in their 50s and 60s, in my experience, it's because they want the "BBC" myth. I only say this because they'd ask me questions about how big my penis was or if they could have a picture of it. And since they know that minorities, especially black men are thought to be the least desirable, they feel they could take advantage of that "fact."

    However, another thing I noticed from two I've conversed with, I feel that they generally are interested and don't see color. They just want to get to know the person but this is VERY rare in my experience.

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    What's the BBC myth?
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    Dec 19, 2014 3:54 AM GMT
    xrichx said
    BloodFlame saidFrom what I've observed when I do get hit on by white men who are majority, all well over my age in their 50s and 60s, in my experience, it's because they want the "BBC" myth. I only say this because they'd ask me questions about how big my penis was or if they could have a picture of it. And since they know that minorities, especially black men are thought to be the least desirable, they feel they could take advantage of that "fact."

    However, another thing I noticed from two I've conversed with, I feel that they generally are interested and don't see color. They just want to get to know the person but this is VERY rare in my experience.

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    What's the BBC myth?


    Big black cock?

    I don't assume anyone would be attracted to me, that way I'm pleasantly surprised if someone is! icon_cool.gif I may be a white man but hopefully I don't count as "old" yet (I'm pushing "gay old," though!).
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    Dec 19, 2014 3:56 AM GMT
    BloodFlame saidFrom what I've observed when I do get hit on by white men who are majority, all well over my age in their 50s and 60s, in my experience, it's because they want the "BBC" myth. I only say this because they'd ask me questions about how big my penis was or if they could have a picture of it. And since they know that minorities, especially black men are thought to be the least desirable, they feel they could take advantage of that "fact."

    However, another thing I noticed from two I've conversed with, I feel that they generally are interested and don't see color. They just want to get to know the person but this is VERY rare in my experience.

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    Yup thats what I think so too. Problem is if you say what you just said and youre not a minority prepare yourself for a huge bashing from many RJrs.
  • wesv

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    Dec 19, 2014 4:22 AM GMT
    I think they believe all younger guys want them. Have you ever visited those bars in Palm Springs? Those Liberace guys check all sorts out.
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    Dec 19, 2014 4:57 AM GMT
    Because.......

    They are!

    Sexy

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    Hot chocolate galore.......

    My hot Brazilian man

    I adore them all.....
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    Dec 19, 2014 11:57 AM GMT
    They lust after young white guys as well, message them etc. 99% of the time nobody assumes a stranger will find them attractive. They may hope, but not assume.
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    ZakSayWhat saidbecause they do.


    I have found that!!
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    David3K said
    BloodFlame saidFrom what I've observed when I do get hit on by white men who are majority, all well over my age in their 50s and 60s, in my experience, it's because they want the "BBC" myth. I only say this because they'd ask me questions about how big my penis was or if they could have a picture of it. And since they know that minorities, especially black men are thought to be the least desirable, they feel they could take advantage of that "fact."

    However, another thing I noticed from two I've conversed with, I feel that they generally are interested and don't see color. They just want to get to know the person but this is VERY rare in my experience.

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    Yup thats what I think so too. Problem is if you say what you just said and youre not a minority prepare yourself for a huge bashing from many RJrs.

    White people can't have BBC, can't they? Everyone knows that, and given your wider views of the world, you should also know that. So telling false lies is going to get bashed.
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    David3K said
    BloodFlame saidFrom what I've observed when I do get hit on by white men who are majority, all well over my age in their 50s and 60s, in my experience, it's because they want the "BBC" myth. I only say this because they'd ask me questions about how big my penis was or if they could have a picture of it. And since they know that minorities, especially black men are thought to be the least desirable, they feel they could take advantage of that "fact."

    However, another thing I noticed from two I've conversed with, I feel that they generally are interested and don't see color. They just want to get to know the person but this is VERY rare in my experience.

    My 0.02

    Yup thats what I think so too. Problem is if you say what you just said and youre not a minority prepare yourself for a huge bashing from many RJrs.

    White people can't have BBC, can't they? Everyone knows that, and given your wider views of the world, you should also know that. So telling false lies is going to get bashed.

    Whites having BBC has nothing to do with this. We're talking about old men hitting on minorities because they think they have more chances with them.
  • HottJoe

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    Dec 19, 2014 3:56 PM GMT
    I just hope my marriage lasts forever and I die first. I don't want to be a lonesome old white man.icon_cry.gif
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    HottJoe saidI just hope my marriage lasts forever and I die first. I don't want to be a lonesome old white man.icon_cry.gif

    If you'll be rich, I can be your boytoy. I don't care if you get all wrinkly and ugly. I am hopless romantic though.icon_biggrin.gif
  • Destinharbor

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    Dec 19, 2014 4:43 PM GMT
    Ya know, while you whine about how awful old men are, it certainly appears you can't attract anyone of any age. Listen, you moron, the population of older, gay guys is small having lived through a period when it was social and economic suicide to be out unless you were a hairdresser or ran a flower shop. Exceptions certainly, but few enough that most guys just figured out how to live in some closet or other. Oh, yeah. And we managed to make it OK for you twits to live openly. So outside of a few concentration centers like Palm Springs, the chance to meet other guy guys that have transitioned out of that closet is problematic and largely internet based. In my experience, most older guys can and do admire guys of all ages. And there is a substantial group of younger guys that actually prefer older guys because we generally aren't childish and stupid like you. So we chat around the net. Some are drooly and nasty just like you and it doesn't surprise me that they keep finding you. But it appears to me that there are just as many slimy, uneducated, self-centered McDonalds fry machine mental midgets who think they are interesting for no reason other than they're young. HEY! Heads up! You're attracting an older version of yourself. But it doesn't apply to the rest of us, young or old.
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    Dec 19, 2014 5:06 PM GMT
    Destinharbor saidYa know, while you whine about how awful old men are, it certainly appears you can't attract anyone of any age. Listen, you moron, the population of older, gay guys is small having lived through a period when it was social and economic suicide to be out unless you were a hairdresser or ran a flower shop. Exceptions certainly, but few enough that most guys just figured out how to live in some closet or other. Oh, yeah. And we managed to make it OK for you twits to live openly. So outside of a few concentration centers like Palm Springs, the chance to meet other guy guys that have transitioned out of that closet is problematic and largely internet based. In my experience, most older guys can and do admire guys of all ages. And there is a substantial group of younger guys that actually prefer older guys because we generally aren't childish and stupid like you. So we chat around the net. Some are drooly and nasty just like you and it doesn't surprise me that they keep finding you. But it appears to me that there are just as many slimy, uneducated, self-centered McDonalds fry machine mental midgets who think they are interesting for no reason other than they're young. HEY! Heads up! You're attracting an older version of yourself. But it doesn't apply to the rest of us, young or old.

    Wow! This was very interesting to read. I feel ya!
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    Dec 20, 2014 6:07 AM GMT
    Ohno saidThey lust after young white guys as well, message them etc. 99% of the time nobody assumes a stranger will find them attractive. They may hope, but not assume.


    + 1, I've seen this at clubs and shopping malls. Older white men with younger white guys. It's more like a money-relationship thing, the younger guy buys something, the older dude whips out his Credit card. LOL. It's just human nature, older gay males tend to like cute, sexy, young gay youths. This includes other older minority men too. I, too, tends to find myself liking younger guys in their 20s sometimes.
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    Dec 20, 2014 6:51 AM GMT
    Meh, who cares! If the two guys are happy together, then that's all that matters.
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    Ohno saidThey lust after young white guys as well, message them etc. 99% of the time nobody assumes a stranger will find them attractive. They may hope, but not assume.


    + 1, I've seen this at clubs and shopping malls. Older white men with younger white guys. It's more like a money-relationship thing, the younger guy buys something, the older dude whips out his Credit card. LOL. It's just human nature, older gay males tend to like cute, sexy, young gay youths. This includes other older minority men too. I, too, tends to find myself liking younger guys in their 20s sometimes.


    It's pretty funny when younger guys start assuming you are rich. Wrong! I am poor, just like you icon_sad.gif
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    Ohno said
    LAXWill10 said
    Ohno saidThey lust after young white guys as well, message them etc. 99% of the time nobody assumes a stranger will find them attractive. They may hope, but not assume.


    + 1, I've seen this at clubs and shopping malls. Older white men with younger white guys. It's more like a money-relationship thing, the younger guy buys something, the older dude whips out his Credit card. LOL. It's just human nature, older gay males tend to like cute, sexy, young gay youths. This includes other older minority men too. I, too, tends to find myself liking younger guys in their 20s sometimes.


    It's pretty funny when younger guys start assuming you are rich. Wrong! I am poor, just like you icon_sad.gif

    you too? what's the point of being old then? icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Ohno said
    LAXWill10 said
    Ohno saidThey lust after young white guys as well, message them etc. 99% of the time nobody assumes a stranger will find them attractive. They may hope, but not assume.


    + 1, I've seen this at clubs and shopping malls. Older white men with younger white guys. It's more like a money-relationship thing, the younger guy buys something, the older dude whips out his Credit card. LOL. It's just human nature, older gay males tend to like cute, sexy, young gay youths. This includes other older minority men too. I, too, tends to find myself liking younger guys in their 20s sometimes.


    It's pretty funny when younger guys start assuming you are rich. Wrong! I am poor, just like you icon_sad.gif

    you too? what's the point of being old then? icon_rolleyes.gif


    You get to moan about the youth of today like Miley Cyrus not being as good as Candi Staton or whoever.
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    Ohno said
    You get to moan about the youth of today like Miley Cyrus not being as good as Candi Staton or whoever.

    Huh! You started too soon to moan about Miley Cyrus. No wonder you are a poor old man. Bye!icon_mad.gif
  • jtz03932

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    Dec 20, 2014 8:45 PM GMT
    Old men who go after really young guys (I'm talking about 15+ year younger) just creeps me out
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    Ohno said
    You get to moan about the youth of today like Miley Cyrus not being as good as Candi Staton or whoever.

    Huh! You started too soon to moan about Miley Cyrus. No wonder you are a poor old man. Bye!icon_mad.gif


    Lol or you can start listen and lust after guys from one direction. Lol
  • BlackDapper

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    Dec 21, 2014 4:35 AM GMT
    I've noticed that too .... 90% of the white guys and white couples that hit me up are 45+ (all clearly looked aged). They gross me out. I guess they're looking for an "exotic" twist but I never bite.

    There's nothing appealing about having sex with an old, boring, corny, white guy. I've been even offered money several times just to indulge these losers ... just ridiculous and gross. And 95% of the time they're on some BBC fetish bullshit ... get the fuck out of here.