1285pytk saidThis is a fitness site primarily and we all now what attracts us. We like men who look good so we try to look good.
RJ started as a fitness site and as many of Us got to know one another it morphed into more of a social site. It is safe to say none of Us had difficulty getting attention when We went out or had difficulty meeting other Guys. This may be hard for some some to grasp -- but many of Us actuallly like one another and enjoy the interaction.
The dating element is relatively new. Most Members don't use it that way and the long time Regulars rarely if ever do....although a few sparks have been known to fly here and there.