would you date/marry a physically handicapped person?

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    Dec 21, 2014 6:41 AM GMT
    truth be told, majority of homosexual men are known to date or fall into men who are physically fit, sexually fit and healthy and the sad part, only good looking men at most times but i am sure a few of the homosexual men have no problems and have a heart big enough to take care and look after i.e marry or date people who are physically impaired - blind , deaf , crippled , living with a deadly diseases , etc yet who have a sane thinking just like many straight people fell in love with those kind...


    nothing against people who won't bother to date/marry those people but is a 'relationship' mostly only about physical attraction in the gay men community ? i won't mind myself if the person is mentally sane.


    Oh yes, it could happened to us all, with a blink of an eye or later in life.
  • tajsreve

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    Dec 21, 2014 8:36 AM GMT
    My first boyfriend was deaf. I would someone who is handicapped any day over some guy who is super hot and narcissistic.
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    Dec 22, 2014 6:27 PM GMT
    I'd buy THIS guy a malted:

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bpYTkavEt20
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    Dec 22, 2014 11:07 PM GMT
    Love is blind ...icon_smile.gif
  • HottJoe

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    Dec 22, 2014 11:18 PM GMT
    neffa saidLove is blind ...icon_smile.gif

    And so is my new boyfriend!
  • HottJoe

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    Dec 22, 2014 11:18 PM GMT
    tajsreve saidMy first boyfriend was deaf. I would someone who is handicapped any day over some guy who is super hot and narcissistic.

    That's discrimination.icon_evil.gif
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    Dec 22, 2014 11:30 PM GMT
    to be honest, I would if he has an awesome personality or outlook on life. Otherwise I don't think I could. If my current partner had an accident resulting in a handicap, of course I would stay with him.
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    Dec 23, 2014 1:36 AM GMT
    If we had a very good connection and were genuinely attracted to each other outside of just the physical, why not? You can't help who you fall for.

    On another note, if they look anything like Alex Minsky you best believe I am dating/ marrying the guy as soon as possible icon_twisted.gif

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  • muscleboundfe...

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    Dec 23, 2014 1:42 AM GMT
    Of course, looks are a secondary consideration for me.
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    Dec 23, 2014 2:28 AM GMT
    I'd like to think I would. But I see some of the photos posted here are of men who would be considered exceptional even if they weren't missing limbs. Who wouldn't jump on that ride?

    None of these men pictured above would hesitate to cruise a bar. Hell, I'm pretty sure tattoo boy above is plenty picky about who he dates too.

    The answer is:

    Hot handicapped guys are hot.

    Just like:

    Hot black guys are hot.
    Hot bearded guys are hot.
    Hot Asian guys are hot.
    Hot red heads are hot.
    Hot bald guys are hot.
    Hot hairy guys are hot.
    Hot old guys are hot.
    Hot pale, tattooed, vegan hipsters are hot.
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    Dec 23, 2014 2:42 AM GMT
    Hell yeah! I hooked up with a guy who had a prosthetic leg and this guy was hot. He lost his left leg to a rare bone condition that was quickly spreading to his thigh so amputation was the only answer to save his life. This guy took very good care of himself and his absent leg was never a factor. The factor was when he told me he had a bf after our hookup......asshole!
  • Dominican_Gen...

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    Dec 23, 2014 4:22 AM GMT
    One of my best hookups ever was with a mute guy. He lived in another city and didn't like to travel much, otherwise I would totally see him as BF material.

    I don't particularly like overly talkative persons, so being mute is actually a + on my list.

    And he was physically HOT as hell.
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    Dec 23, 2014 4:30 AM GMT
    I saw "TheTheory of Everything" tonight. The story of Stephen Hawking.

    The woman who would eventually become His wife met Him before He was diagnosed with ALS. He was initially told He had only two years to live.

    We all know how THAT diagnoses turned out.

    She Loved Him even as He physically deteriorated. Who COULDN'T Love a mind like that - regardless of the packaging.

    An extraordinary Man is ALWAYS worth Loving -- so YES, definitely I would.
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    Dec 23, 2014 6:23 PM GMT
    Absolutely.
  • HottJoe

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    Dec 23, 2014 10:24 PM GMT
    I'd cut off my hand to date that guy with no leg.icon_redface.gif
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    Dec 31, 2014 11:32 PM GMT
    Absolutely, as long as his name isn't Oscar Pistorius!
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    Jan 01, 2015 2:45 PM GMT
    HottJoe saidI'd cut off my hand to date that guy with no leg.icon_redface.gif


    But would you give your right arm to be ambidextrous?icon_lol.gif
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    Jan 01, 2015 2:50 PM GMT
    Yes. I dated a deaf guy, briefly. (briefly being his decision, not mine)

    Dated a guy with a speech impediment..but dated might be the wrong word.

    Fu-k Buddies is more like it. Boy had 10" and loved to get fu-ked! mmmmm!

    Getting hard just remembering the fun we had...icon_twisted.gif

    So, yes I would have dated a physically handicapped guy.

    I think some of the guys with those carbon fiber spring legs are f-ing HOT!