cheating bf

  • mladri

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    Dec 22, 2014 8:31 PM GMT
    So...I'm dating this guy for almost a year now.

    I met him during my trip acros Italy, and our relationship was to good to be true.

    He was always saying to me that he never thought that he could be attached to "just one guy" untill he met me.

    I found out that he is chatting with other guys, and one of my friends told me that he tried to hook up with him one time.
    I'm sure that he is seeing other guys behind my back.

    Have you ever been in situation like this before? Any advices because I really fel in love to him :/
  • HottJoe

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    Dec 22, 2014 8:36 PM GMT
    Confront him and tell him that he betrayed your trust... Although it sounds like he was right about himself the first time; he can't be attached to just one guy. He's already failed at it, and in less than a year.
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    Dec 22, 2014 8:45 PM GMT
    find out if hes playing around, if he is dump him, people like that wont change.
  • mybud

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    Dec 22, 2014 9:33 PM GMT
    You deserve better...but you have to believe that..I'd dump him.
  • HndsmKansan

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    Dec 22, 2014 9:34 PM GMT
    You have to decide which is more important... a relationship with integrity or a boyfriend you love who is out screwing around with others. Only you can make that decision.

    I know what is more important to me.
  • mladri

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    Dec 23, 2014 8:28 PM GMT
    thank you guys...I'm gonna end this relationship today.
  • HottJoe

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    Dec 23, 2014 10:17 PM GMT
    mladri saidthank you guys...I'm gonna end this relationship today.

    Oooh, that means he's single now??? What's his number?icon_twisted.gif

    icon_lol.gifjk
  • Apparition

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    Dec 24, 2014 5:02 AM GMT
    there is no such thing as a cheating bf for me, cheating ex, or dead ex...but not bf
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    Dec 24, 2014 5:04 AM GMT
  • mladri

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    Dec 24, 2014 3:24 PM GMT
    HottJoe said
    mladri saidthank you guys...I'm gonna end this relationship today.

    Oooh, that means he's single now??? What's his number?icon_twisted.gif

    icon_lol.gifjk


    hehe feel free to contact him...I'll send you his e-mail adress icon_biggrin.gif
  • BIG_N_TALL

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    Dec 24, 2014 11:19 PM GMT
    I'd dump him. Even if I loved him, I couldn't be sure I could trust him. It's probably the worst situation to be in, relationship-wise.
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    Dec 25, 2014 7:07 PM GMT
    You're kinda jumping to conclusions. All I'm reading is a bunch of "he said/he said" stuff. No facts. Get your facts straight (ha!) and confront that dude. Also get your friend to pony up some facts too. Talking and cheating are two different things.
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    Dec 25, 2014 8:42 PM GMT
    we choose to accept the love we think we deserve. if u think u deserve a cheating bf.. then u shud just accept it :s if u think u deserve more than that.. then dump him icon_smile.gif