Dudes checking out your penis while you're pissing at bars.

  • IAmTheOneWhoK...

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    Dec 24, 2014 2:12 AM GMT
    Am I the only one who gets kind of annoyed at this? Is it too much of me to ask to not have dudes blatantly staring at my cock while I'm drunk and trying to just focus on pissing into the urinal? The fact that the dudes who do it are never attractive isn't even a factor, it's just trashy to me.
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    Dec 24, 2014 2:13 AM GMT
    Small dick ehh? icon_cool.gif

    (Joking)
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    Dec 24, 2014 4:10 AM GMT
    Is it a gay bar? Then what do you expect?

    You should take it as a compliment. icon_lol.gificon_lol.gif
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    Dec 24, 2014 4:18 AM GMT
    Looky looky

    gets to sucky sucky!!

    lol
  • SilverRRCloud

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    Dec 24, 2014 4:30 AM GMT
    Yup. You are probably one of the very few folks who gets annoyed at this. If you are going to any place frequented by gay dudes this comes with the territory. As simple as that.

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  • Apparition

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    Dec 24, 2014 4:54 AM GMT
    pee like a girl.
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    Dec 24, 2014 5:08 AM GMT
    All publicity is good publicity icon_wink.gif
  • jeep334

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    Dec 24, 2014 5:15 AM GMT
    Apparition saidpee like a girl.



    hmmmmm I don't know if I would say it quite like that but that's my choice when it's ever available. Most times it's fine at a urinal but I can understand not being comfortable there. Besides, there's plenty of room in a stall to have your new best friend that you just met join you. icon_cool.gif
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    Dec 24, 2014 5:18 AM GMT
    The worst is when they take out a measuring tape and then start making a plaster cast of it...
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    Dec 24, 2014 5:22 AM GMT
    There was this time in Lancaster Co., you know, Amish country...one of those toilet, urinal, sink combos....

    This strapping young blond guy beside me pulled out this anaconda was easily sucking all the oxygen out of the small room...

    How could I NOT peek?!?
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    Dec 24, 2014 5:28 AM GMT
    Next time, choose the urinal that isn't so close to another. icon_rolleyes.gif

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    Dec 24, 2014 6:42 AM GMT
    I've done this once at the Abbey in WeHo like a long time ago. Lol, I was a little tipsy, this one cute guy was peeing next to me. I caught a peek, he was cut, sorta pinkish mushroom head. He saw me and smiled, I was so Embarrassed. I wasn't cruising him, was kinda horny at the time. icon_redface.gificon_redface.gificon_razz.gif
  • helloandgoodb...

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    Dec 24, 2014 12:58 PM GMT
    better to have them stare in admiration than look away in disgusted horror...
  • HndsmKansan

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    Dec 24, 2014 1:18 PM GMT
    I just think it's in bad taste, I go out of my way never to do that crap.
  • jeep334

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    Dec 24, 2014 1:24 PM GMT
    englishdude said
    Cash saidThe worst is when they take out a measuring tape and then start making a plaster cast of it...

    Haha its the time it takes to get it all back in my pants that frustrates me.



    Having a problem like that is just one of "deliminas" with having humongous junk
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    Dec 24, 2014 1:37 PM GMT
    A number of the bars in Seattle, including gay ones, used to have open trough urinals. Not sure if any still do. There was nothing separating you from the guy alongside you, it was like peeing in the open, you almost couldn't help but see the other guy's dick, and you certainly saw his piss stream.

    There was also an events arena in San Antonio that had a concrete pissing wall in their mens room. A sheet of water ran down it, and guys would line up in a row and pee on it. Again, no hope of shielding yourself from glances.

    And during Army field operations we used sunken 55-gallon drums, their tops at ground level, around which we peed. You were looking directly across at other guys with their dicks out, all standing out in the open air. Of course, we all showered together, too, which took the novelty out of seeing merely a dick poking through the fly of a uniform.

    The concept of male privacy while peeing is an idea that hasn't been around that long in the US. Generations before us managed to piss with no privacy, I suppose it won't kill us now.

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    These metal troughs are like some sports stadiums had, such as Seattle's Kingdome. Except in the Kingdome they lined 3 walls of entire rooms, to handle the crowds. Startling what noise they made, like a heavy rain downpour on a tin roof, when guys were packed in there shoulder to shoulder. And women might be walking nearby, crashing the mens room to use the stalls, because the lines for the inadequate ladies rooms were too long. Meaning the men couldn't use the stalls themselves, Men simply weren't afforded much pee privacy; you either openly pissed in public or you pissed your pants.

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  • jeep334

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    Dec 24, 2014 1:51 PM GMT



    Having a problem like that is just one of "deliminas" with having humongous junk
    icon_redface.gifIsnt it just icon_razz.gif[/quote]

    Sadly, not all of us that issue icon_sad.gif
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    Dec 24, 2014 4:28 PM GMT
    Back in my bar days, turned out two drinking buddies had followed me into the bathroom when I had to pee like a race horse, snuck up behind me, grabbed hold of my body mid-stream and swung me back and forth like a water wiggle. I could neither stop peeing nor laughing. Left a mess though.

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    What's more natural, checking someone out or avoiding a curiosity? In a nudist camp, do you just not look there? What takes more effort, looking or not looking? So normally not a big deal. What would be creepy is a lingering stare or if they whisper into your ear mid pee that they're into water sports which is both so fucking disgusting and hardly appropriate to a public urinal.

    And never treat your friends like a water wiggle which when not drunk would be highly embarrassing.
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    Dec 24, 2014 4:51 PM GMT
    IAmTheOneWhoKnocks saidAm I the only one who gets kind of annoyed at this? Is it too much of me to ask to not have dudes blatantly staring at my cock while I'm drunk and trying to just focus on pissing into the urinal? The fact that the dudes who do it are never attractive isn't even a factor, it's just trashy to me.


    I dislike this as well. and I really dislike it when places have those open troughs. Just my personal preference.

    the ones with mirrors above the troughs are even more awkward :/
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    Dec 24, 2014 4:59 PM GMT
    I don't mind for them to look , i don't mind to check the competition either , but i don't fancy when they want to touch ...
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    Dec 24, 2014 8:12 PM GMT
    neffa saidI don't mind for them to look , i don't mind to check the competition either , but i don't fancy when they want to touch ...


    +1 (and alternatively one can choose to use a stall. Mind you, this whole scenario to me is only appropriate in a gay bar.)
  • TonyD

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    Dec 24, 2014 10:36 PM GMT
    I cannot believe no one here
    is empathizing with your annoyance.

    There's a valid reason for this annoyance. You have a right to have it.

    Yes, of course 'you should know better and it's a gay bar blah blah it's a compliment (you don't know that)'

    Do you do this behavior to others?

    Do you think they're judging you and your size or taking something from you by sneaking a peek?
    I'll say it again...
    There's a valid reason for this annoyance. You have a right to have it.
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    Dec 24, 2014 10:54 PM GMT

    Sounds like Paruresis

  • rnch

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    Dec 24, 2014 11:19 PM GMT
    Usually a sarcastic "Do You Mindddd?" or a growled out "EYES FRONT!!" makes the other guy stare straight ahead.


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    Dec 24, 2014 11:32 PM GMT
    It's a urinal, not an elevator.