Do You Text Merry Christmas To Your Ex??

  • AnonymousNYC

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    Dec 24, 2014 11:25 PM GMT
    Do You?
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    Dec 25, 2014 12:26 AM GMT
    Are you still friends? Have you not talked since an unpleasant break up? Sort of depends on a lot of things. If you are doing it to let him know he's still on your mind or are looking for a way to rekindle something with him, then I would say no. If you are in somewhat regular communication, then I would say yes.
  • AnonymousNYC

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    Dec 25, 2014 2:41 AM GMT
    PatrickRyan saidAre you still friends? Have you not talked since an unpleasant break up? Sort of depends on a lot of things. If you are doing it to let him know he's still on your mind or are looking for a way to rekindle something with him, then I would say no. If you are in somewhat regular communication, then I would say yes.


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  • AMoonHawk

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    Dec 25, 2014 5:50 AM GMT
    I don't have any clue where the x's are
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    Dec 26, 2014 1:52 AM GMT
    Yes I do. Most of them.
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    Dec 26, 2014 4:26 AM GMT
    One of them, yes! The other, NOOOO! lol!
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    Dec 26, 2014 5:09 AM GMT
    ...I only have so many text message usages on my plan...
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    Dec 26, 2014 5:33 AM GMT
    I don't have that many.. I'm friends with all but one, so yeah.
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    Dec 26, 2014 5:46 AM GMT
    One of my ex live in Upstate NY now. The second one live in San Francisco. Even though it was amicably split, I didn't text him for Xmas. Because I don't want to stir up any feelings. I noticed that he, now and then, likes my status and photos randomly on Facebook. icon_redface.gif
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    Dec 26, 2014 8:28 AM GMT
    Makes sort of a dumb text message - whether to an ex or anyone else. About as personal as a "Merry Christmas" from a car dealership. Or a bank.
  • BuddhaLing

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    Dec 26, 2014 9:12 AM GMT
    Puppenjunge said

    Makes sort of a dumb text message - whether to an ex or anyone else. About as personal as a "Merry Christmas" from a car dealership. Or a bank.


    I agree Young Pup . . . a dumb text message . . .about as personal as a Merry Christmas" from a bank or car dealership . . . why bother? Let it be!
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    Dec 26, 2014 10:16 AM GMT
    Funny Enough that what my EX did 1 day ago.

    And I´m still paying him No Mind!
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    Dec 27, 2014 2:10 AM GMT
    BuddhaLing saidPuppenjunge said

    Makes sort of a dumb text message - whether to an ex or anyone else. About as personal as a "Merry Christmas" from a car dealership. Or a bank.


    I agree Young Pup . . . a dumb text message . . .about as personal as a Merry Christmas" from a bank or car dealership . . . why bother? Let it be!


    Agree with this, you don't text something like that, even if the breakup went well. Plus it's a bit impersonal.

    I haven't texted my ex for a few months now, we remained friends for a while after the breakup but unless we're getting back together it's not the best idea to do that to them or yourself. My opinion is if he want's to text you he'll send you a text.
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    Dec 27, 2014 2:18 AM GMT
    Some do rate a text. Anyone more than a few fucks, then generally no, there is likely a real reason it never evolved. Thats how my twisted mind works… icon_twisted.gif
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    Dec 27, 2014 6:36 PM GMT
    I´ve always wanted to, never really done it. I figured it would send the message that I wanted to get back together.

    Never drink eggnog and text at the same time!
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    Mar 01, 2015 1:35 PM GMT
    The exes I've amiably split with, I still have contact and am cool with; the ones who basically portrayed themselves as salted garbage to me, don't even so much as get a happy b'day, let alone a Merry Christmas from me! Salted garbage belongs where it belongs...
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    Mar 01, 2015 5:06 PM GMT
    AnonymousNYC saidDo You?


    Holiday texts and happy birthday texts are unnecessary in my opinion (of all kinds, not just to/from exes). It feels fake. We get enough junk in our inboxes these days. When I text with others, I try to make sure there is some actual content in it.

    As for contact with exes, I don't stay in touch. I keep my eyes on the present and the future.
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    Mar 01, 2015 6:15 PM GMT
    Passive, meet aggressive.
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    Mar 01, 2015 7:40 PM GMT
    NO, text an X is always bad
    your X is just another average citizen.
    put 100% of your energy in going forward.
    Letting go of someone you loved is one of the few black and white things in life.
    unless you phucked up big time and still love him
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    Mar 02, 2015 1:30 AM GMT
    I do. We have remained friends. icon_smile.gif
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    Mar 06, 2015 11:11 PM GMT
    Hell no. 'Friends after break up', doesn't really mean literally friends after breaking up, or at least that is how I work and think how relationship with the exs works. I won't purposely greet them, but I would if I see them in person. Otherwise it's better to put a distance with the ex(s).
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    Mar 07, 2015 4:36 AM GMT
    One of my ex's HATES Christmas, so of course I send him a text wishing him a "Merry Christmas". It's the only time I text any of my ex's.