It still feels weird to kiss a guy

  • Inque

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    Dec 28, 2014 1:12 AM GMT
    Even though most times I'm looking forward to it I always feel weird kissing a guy. There's only been one time I liked it. He went straight for tongue. He was messy. He was everything. It was amazing. It was sloppy wet. His tongue was everywhere. I feel fireworks. My heart was pounded. My fingertips felt like an extension of my anticipation. My body had no idea what was going on. It was magical.

    I've never felt that way again. Most times when I kiss guys I either feel nothing or awkward and sometimes I feel weird about the fact I'm kissing a man at all. It doesn't matter whether private or public I never feel comfortable. When I had a boyfriend not too long ago it was weird kissing him. I don't like the smell of breath. Not even with toothpaste. The guy I had sparks with had the perfect smelling breath. It was neutral undistinguishable and non offensive and almost non existent. It was like the Rita Ora of breath scents.

    I like the feeling of kissing someone after I get into it sometimes but most times I get the feeling the person on the other end isn't into it because they never give as much gusto as me. I attack the face with my tongue. I am literally fucking their face with my mouth. That is my goal everytime. I want them to do the same to me. My favorite kind of kissing is when a guy has me pinned down and my mouth is open and he just shoves his tongue down my throat like he has a tiny slimy pink dick coming from out of his mouth.

    Sometimes I have to pretend the guy I'm kissing with doesn't exist so I don't feel weird. Idk why but so often I just feel weird kissing boys.
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    Dec 28, 2014 2:26 AM GMT
    Kissing is more important to me than sucking or fucking, and I like it passionate, but your oral-domination fantasies are not in my wheelhouse.
  • Inque

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    Dec 28, 2014 3:07 AM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle saidA good kisser makes me rock hard.

    You just have to work out a few things, perhaps.


    I've tried everything outside of getting high while I do it. I just never feel anything and I'm always so wigged out going into it. I'm kind of the same way about eating ass or sucking dick.

    I feel less gay because neither of those things really get me going unless the conditions are right and they so rarely are
  • AMoonHawk

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    Dec 28, 2014 5:25 AM GMT
    I can guarantee, based on passed experience, that guys that don't like kissing guys are not worth dating ... if every you are so unlucky to meet or date one, dump him and run as fast as you can
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    Dec 28, 2014 5:29 AM GMT
    Every time some dude insists on kissing on the first date... I get a cold icon_mad.gif

    BTW: I once met a guy who didn't want to kiss, but went right to town on rimming icon_rolleyes.gif
  • HottJoe

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    Dec 28, 2014 5:34 AM GMT
    mindgarden saidEvery time some dude insists on kissing on the first date... I get a cold icon_mad.gif

    BTW: I once met a guy who didn't want to kiss, but went right to town on rimming icon_rolleyes.gif

    Rimming on the first date is just what gay guys do.icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Dec 28, 2014 5:53 AM GMT
    HottJoe said
    mindgarden saidEvery time some dude insists on kissing on the first date... I get a cold icon_mad.gif

    BTW: I once met a guy who didn't want to kiss, but went right to town on rimming icon_rolleyes.gif

    Rimming on the first date is just what gay guys do.icon_rolleyes.gif


    But it's got all the same viruses as the other end, plus a few more icon_rolleyes.gif
  • FRE0

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    Dec 28, 2014 7:30 AM GMT
    HottJoe said
    mindgarden saidEvery time some dude insists on kissing on the first date... I get a cold icon_mad.gif

    BTW: I once met a guy who didn't want to kiss, but went right to town on rimming icon_rolleyes.gif

    Rimming on the first date is just what gay guys do.icon_rolleyes.gif


    Not this one!!
  • Inque

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    Dec 28, 2014 8:15 AM GMT
    Does anyone else ever think 'I'm kissing a man. Why am I doing this?'
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    Dec 28, 2014 11:44 AM GMT
    Inque saidDoes anyone else ever think 'I'm kissing a man. Why am I doing this?'

    No. If you don't kiss, I just think you aren't worth my time. Bye!
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    Dec 28, 2014 1:02 PM GMT
    Inque saidDoes anyone else ever think 'I'm kissing a man. Why am I doing this?'

    That's what I would think kissing a woman. Kissing a man is natural for me. So, either you're not gay or you've internalized homophobia.
  • Inque

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    Dec 28, 2014 2:53 PM GMT
    bhp91126 said
    Inque saidDoes anyone else ever think 'I'm kissing a man. Why am I doing this?'

    That's what I would think kissing a woman. Kissing a man is natural for me. So, either you're not gay or you've internalized homophobia.


    The only time I really really like kissing is right after sex.

    I would prefer cuddling than kissing.
  • ATLANTIS7

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    Dec 28, 2014 3:15 PM GMT
    Kiss me honey honey kiss me "SHIRLEY BASSEY"
  • Inque

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    Dec 28, 2014 4:19 PM GMT
    __morphic__ said
    Inque saidDoes anyone else ever think 'I'm kissing a man. Why am I doing this?'

    No. If you don't kiss, I just think you aren't worth my time. Bye!


    It just feels weird. Whenever I'm with a guy I have to coach myself into first. But I'm so horny when I'm alone
  • rnch

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    Dec 28, 2014 4:36 PM GMT
    Hale, not for me!

    The first time I passionately "lip locked" with my off-and-on man I knew I was hooked.



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  • davfit

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    Dec 28, 2014 5:46 PM GMT
    Because not everyone is a good kisser trust me i've had a great kiss like that(he was bi hum..) if it isn't good why bother.
  • Destinharbor

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    Dec 28, 2014 6:01 PM GMT
    There are a thousand speeds to kissing. You describe one but kissing is about communicating and exploring, not just face fucking (which is also good). You are gay. Stop with the self-hate. Make love to a man. Slow down and feel him. Brush soft lips across across soft lips and build tempo. Relax and let it wash over you.
  • Inque

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    Dec 28, 2014 6:38 PM GMT
    Destinharbor saidThere are a thousand speeds to kissing. You describe one but kissing is about communicating and exploring, not just face fucking (which is also good). You are gay. Stop with the self-hate. Make love to a man. Slow down and feel him. Brush soft lips across across soft lips and build tempo. Relax and let it wash over you.


    Even when the guy is cute I get nervous and I don't know what to do.

    I just try not to focus on what I'm doing and get it over with. I get very uncomfortable and I don't know why. I've tried thinking about something else while I'm kissing him.
  • hockeyguymsp

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    Dec 28, 2014 7:14 PM GMT
    It is all about the breath. Have good hygiene, floss, and brush your teeth. Bad breath is a turn off you may never recover from.
  • LJay

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    Dec 28, 2014 8:20 PM GMT
    Practice makes perfect.
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    Dec 28, 2014 8:58 PM GMT
    goto the mall and people watch the men. Pick the ones you would like to at least kiss.

    would you if you could kiss your self. Try it.
  • Inque

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    Dec 28, 2014 9:49 PM GMT
    pellaz saidgoto the mall and people watch the men. Pick the ones you would like to at least kiss.

    would you if you could kiss your self. Try it.


    I have no idea what you're trying to say
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    Dec 28, 2014 10:34 PM GMT
    I've just never been into kissing anyone, period. Certainly into men, but not kissing them. Sucking their dicks, but not kissing them. Fucking them and being fucked, but not kissing. Just holding hands or snuggling naked in bed, but not kissing. Having BFs and marrying them, but not passionately kissing them. I'm just not a kissing guy. icon_confused.gif
  • AMoonHawk

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    Dec 28, 2014 11:42 PM GMT
    Inque said
    __morphic__ said
    Inque saidDoes anyone else ever think 'I'm kissing a man. Why am I doing this?'

    No. If you don't kiss, I just think you aren't worth my time. Bye!


    It just feels weird. Whenever I'm with a guy I have to coach myself into first. But I'm so horny when I'm alone

    So, sounds like you are straight and you are just using guys to get off because they are easier to pick than women. Happens all the time, you're not the first.