Is it even a good idea?

  • meezo

    Posts: 117

    Jan 01, 2015 3:55 PM GMT
    Hey all,
    I am looking for Mr.Right,the man whom I want to spend the rest of my life with,BUT since I am planning to leave my country(note:I don't know when this will happen)I am always looking for people living in the area I want to go to(USA)..is this stupidity..or I am doing the right thing?Should I make it first and succeed in going to USA and then love will come?
    Your advices are very very appreciated.
    Thanks in forward.
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    Jan 01, 2015 4:11 PM GMT
    You know the answer to this already.

    Mr Right should never be the be-all and end-all. If you have tunnel-vision you will miss many Mr Right-nows and Mr Right-for-friendships. Live your life now! Don't postpone being happy to some yet unknown point in the future. Finding Mr Right will be a lot easier if you are Mr Right for yourself, meaning, become the type of man you wish to attract.
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    Jan 01, 2015 6:03 PM GMT
    Plan lunch not love.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Jan 01, 2015 6:25 PM GMT
    When Mr. Right comes along, all your plans get tossed out the window and you make new plans .... if you stick to your plan when a guy comes along, then he was not your Mr. Right ... in the mean time, since there is no Mr. Right and only a Mr. Right Now, stick with the plan
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    Jan 02, 2015 3:13 AM GMT
    Well if your moving here I would just stick with your fuck buddies and start your search for true love when you get here.
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    Jan 02, 2015 4:15 AM GMT
    meezo saidHey all,
    I am looking for Mr.Right,the man whom I want to spend the rest of my life with,BUT since I am planning to leave my country(note:I don't know when this will happen)I am always looking for people living in the area I want to go to(USA)..is this stupidity..or I am doing the right thing?Should I make it first and succeed in going to USA and then love will come?
    Your advices are very very appreciated.
    Thanks in forward.


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    Jan 02, 2015 4:16 PM GMT
    Too bad that's not your real pic or I'd tell you I'm your Mr. Right and get your sexy ass here pronto!

    Seriously, bhp91126 has given you good advice.
  • MikemikeMike

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    Jan 02, 2015 4:47 PM GMT
    bhp91126 saidYou know the answer to this already.

    Mr Right should never be the be-all and end-all. If you have tunnel-vision you will miss many Mr Right-nows and Mr Right-for-friendships. Live your life now! Don't postpone being happy to some yet unknown point in the future. Finding Mr Right will be a lot easier if you are Mr Right for yourself, meaning, become the type of man you wish to attract.


    Best advice above! Work on youself first. A man in your life will not fix anything. You need to be ready to date. You're notāœ“icon_idea.gif
  • meezo

    Posts: 117

    Jan 05, 2015 6:25 PM GMT
    First thank u guys,many thanks,for your great advices,I really appreciate,and really want to thank everyone who participated in this,I really need this.
    Yes you are right guys,I am not ready for a LTR,but I am against short term relationships and casual sex,maybe what makes me feel bad is that I want to be loved and love as early as possible and when being more young not later when I am a icon_cry.gifa little bit older icon_sad.gif
  • mybud

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    Jan 05, 2015 7:35 PM GMT
    It's best for you to look for Mister Right Now and if that sticks, decide if you're going to move here...