why do people lie. about being a virgin?

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    Jan 02, 2015 10:27 AM GMT
    Everybody lies a lot. i know that.

    but why lying about being a virgin?

    is that a thing now?

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    Jan 02, 2015 10:29 AM GMT
    he was not a virgin lemme tell ya

    & that is ok.

    he didn't say ouch not once.

    took it like a pro.

    does virginity make people look more attractive now?

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    Jan 02, 2015 1:21 PM GMT
    I guess they believe that pretending to be virgin makes them more desirable.
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    Jan 02, 2015 2:36 PM GMT
    patito saidhe was not a virgin lemme tell ya

    & that is ok.

    he didn't say ouch not once.

    took it like a pro.

    does virginity make people look more attractive now?



    You seem disappointed that he wasn't a virgin. Did you feel that his "virginity" made him more attractive?
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    Jan 02, 2015 3:47 PM GMT
    I'm not tho. I don't care that he wasn't a virgin.

    tbh I thought for a 27 yo gay guy it's weird.

    I just don't like the fact that he had to lie about that shit that's all.
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    Jan 02, 2015 3:50 PM GMT
    __morphic__ saidI guess they believe that pretending to be virgin makes them more desirable.


    I don't think there's anything more undesirable than being a virgin.

    seriously.

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    Jan 02, 2015 4:08 PM GMT
    patito said

    I don't think there's anything more undesirable than being a virgin.

    seriously.


    QFT

    maybe he tried to tell you that it is ok to fuck him bareback? "he's a virgin, so he couldn't possibly be HIV+" (which of course is crap)

    Condoms! Condoms! Condoms! Especially with "virgins" and virgins
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    Jan 02, 2015 6:14 PM GMT
    patito said
    __morphic__ saidI guess they believe that pretending to be virgin makes them more desirable.


    I don't think there's anything more undesirable than being a virgin.

    seriously.


    Considering that virgins usually have special "issues," why did you do it with him? The well was dry?
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    Jan 02, 2015 7:51 PM GMT
    This is a guy I met on OKCUPID.com. OK FUCKING CUPID.

    btw is everyone on that site a "virgin"??

    anyway, yeah. so this is how the story goes:

    1st date he tells me he's never been with a guy bfore and that he's basically a virgin. I'm like OK. (I don't see why virginity or the lack thereof has to be an issue when it comes to dating and such).

    2nd date we go to a bar, laugh a lot then go to his place & touch ourselves/masturbate.

    3rd date was on New Years eve. we go to a restaurant then to a club, have a lot of fun, get very drunk then go to his place and have sex. 4 times. he only bottomed and deepthroated like only experienced gays do. papa knows best.

    still I'm not complaining. I liked the sex!

    next day (which was yesterday) we had lunch together, then went to the movies then walked around a bit.

    everything was seemingly cool. till this morning I see he's online on okfuckingcupid.virgin and stays on for like an hour.

    ugh.
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    Jan 02, 2015 10:42 PM GMT
    Ah. Maybe this is his "game," to claim virginity, so he can be "seduced."

    Or maybe he's backing off, bc he knows you knew he wasn't.

    Nice to enjoy oneself.
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    Jan 03, 2015 12:44 PM GMT
    patito saidThis is a guy I met on OKCUPID.com. OK FUCKING CUPID.

    btw is everyone on that site a "virgin"??

    anyway, yeah. so this is how the story goes:

    1st date he tells me he's never been with a guy bfore and that he's basically a virgin. I'm like OK. (I don't see why virginity or the lack thereof has to be an issue when it comes to dating and such).

    2nd date we go to a bar, laugh a lot then go to his place & touch ourselves/masturbate.

    3rd date was on New Years eve. we go to a restaurant then to a club, have a lot of fun, get very drunk then go to his place and have sex. 4 times.


    You had me at 4 times