bahlobahlo saidIf a guy didn't have a muscular body and was just average or even leaning more on the chubbier side, would you still be interested? What if instead of having the six pack, he had a wildly creative side in the bedroom and was always willing to try different things?
I guess I'd prefer a guy who works at maintaining his body and muscle tone and was also a great lover (or simply a great guy). Attraction is pretty uncontrollable; you either are or are not attracted to someone. This site is set up for guys who spend time trying to be in good shape. Why would you expect them to want someone who doesn't make the same effort? A workout is work, ya know, and to be in good shape most guys do it 3-4 times/week or more. And they deny themselves that delicious chocolate cookie or butter popcorn that they want so badly just to maintain the look. Every day, every day... They judge themselves against an ideal aesthetic because they like that look- so why wouldn't they judge a prospective partner the same way?