Rejection from guys who insist they cannot have sex with condoms

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    Jan 11, 2015 3:20 PM GMT
    More and more guys many saying their HIV negative insist that condoms ruin sex for them and surprisingy are a mix of ages and all wanted BB as the receptive partner. But what is behind this ignorance of risk

    I would find it interesting if no one on RJ has not experienced being told by a prospective lover that if you insist on using a condom, sex will not happen, or maybe everyone is feeling to much stigma about how they sometimes gave in to pressure and reluctantly had condomless sex anyway.
  • SilverRRCloud

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    Jan 13, 2015 5:34 AM GMT
    Yup. A committed barebacker is a committed barebacker. He won't have it any other way. So, you know where you standicon_smile.gif

    Some people have called their shots. Those guys believe that condoms just don't work for them, and they want to go bareback. Period. Full stop. Whatever?

    A few other dudes understand that among a few other things, sex happens to be a primordial power game. If a dude manages to impose his rules on the game, he sees himself as the winner thereof, and receives a huge ego boost. Or he thinks so...

    One way or the other, I enjoy sex just as much as the next guy does. The idea of hitting the docs, going through the testing, over and over again, taking meds, and possibly coping with a life changing health condition for the sake of one shag is just not appealing enough for me.

    They bareback their lives. I don't do mine.


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    Jan 13, 2015 5:37 AM GMT
    +1 well said