Guys I need help, its about a guy

  • juankgdney

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    Jan 12, 2015 2:14 AM GMT
    So I meet this hot tall buffed guy 4 days ago and gave him my number he write me back and then we talked on the phone that same day for about 20 min until I had to hang up, he evem said he wanted to ask me out, we could speak more that day, we only texted a little the next 2 days, I wrote him a message today on whatsapp saying Hi and he saw it but hasnt replied back, im really confused he sounded really into me when we talked through the phone. What do you guys think? , any advices?
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    Jan 12, 2015 1:40 PM GMT
    Maybe he forgets what you look like. Send him a picture of your best assets to remind him.
  • juankgdney

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    Jan 12, 2015 1:47 PM GMT
    Hahaha thanks yeah maybe I will, he responded yesterday saying hes not gay and hes engaged but still would like to know me better, which got me even more confused lol
  • dannyandre

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    Jan 12, 2015 2:34 PM GMT
    I think he's confused with his sexuality? Something tells me that he's having problems with his fiancee that's why he decided to ask you out? I don't know, I'm making a wild guess here. icon_lol.gif Or maybe he wants to be friends first.... or friends with benefits. Opps.
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    Jan 12, 2015 2:49 PM GMT
    Man I really don't know why he's having second thoughts. He should be having wet dreams. Especially if he met you in person. OMG. No advice here good lookin.... He must not want to compromise something...aaahhh
  • AMoonHawk

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    Jan 12, 2015 3:01 PM GMT
    Ask him out or you'll probably never go out ... guys can only state they have fiances if they have set a wedding date, so chances are that he's only got a GF and is confused about his sexuality. Obviously, he was turned on by you or he wouldn't have interacted so aggressively, but now that he hasn't seen you for a while, he is having second thoughts and heading straight back to the back of closet. Ask him out and get to know him better. Who knows, maybe you'll click. The first guy I was partners with had a fiance when I met him, I'm absolutely certain that, to-this-day, he is glad that he never went down that road.
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    Jan 12, 2015 9:47 PM GMT
    Lol ## He's just not that into you brah ## !!, oh well, next fish in the sea.
  • davfit

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    Jan 12, 2015 10:38 PM GMT
    If you do meet up... he will melt and drop his girl and sleep with you ....who would'nt...lol
  • juankgdney

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    Jan 13, 2015 1:56 AM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidAsk him out or you'll probably never go out ... guys can only state they have fiances if they have set a wedding date, so chances are that he's only got a GF and is confused about his sexuality. Obviously, he was turned on by you or he wouldn't have interacted so aggressively, but now that he hasn't seen you for a while, he is having second thoughts and heading straight back to the back of closet. Ask him out and get to know him better. Who knows, maybe you'll click. The first guy I was partners with had a fiance when I met him, I'm absolutely certain that, to-this-day, he is glad that he never went down that road.


    Thanks!! Your probably right! He might be scared, I'm gonna try to be smooth and ask him out, I'm just used to guys doing it with me not the other way around
  • juankgdney

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    Jan 13, 2015 1:57 AM GMT
    LAXWill10 saidLol ## He's just not that into you brah ## !!, oh well, next fish in the sea.


    nooooo!!!!icon_sad.gif I hope not!! I really like him
  • juankgdney

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    Jan 13, 2015 1:57 AM GMT
    davfit saidIf you do meet up... he will melt and drop his girl and sleep with you ....who would'nt...lol


    Awww thanks man!
  • juankgdney

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    Jan 13, 2015 1:58 AM GMT
    robbee333 saidMan I really don't know why he's having second thoughts. He should be having wet dreams. Especially if he met you in person. OMG. No advice here good lookin.... He must not want to compromise something...aaahhh


    Thanks! I wish he did
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    Jan 13, 2015 2:21 AM GMT
    It's probably coming as a surprise to many of the readers here realizing you might be insecure with yourself.

    The pictures you've posted of yourself portray an Adonis. We'd be forgiven for believing that you have men swooning for your attention.

    But that's probably not the case, right? Guys who meet you are few and far between. I suggest casting a wider net outside your local community. A larger city perhaps?
  • juankgdney

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    Jan 13, 2015 3:39 AM GMT
    mickeytopogigio saidIt's probably coming as a surprise to many of the readers here realizing you might be insecure with yourself.

    The pictures you've posted of yourself portray an Adonis. We'd be forgiven for believing that you have men swooning for your attention.

    But that's probably not the case, right? Guys who meet you are few and far between. I suggest casting a wider net outside your local community. A larger city perhaps?


    Yes I'm insecure about myself, I used to be thin and ugly
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    Jan 13, 2015 3:53 AM GMT
    juankgdney saidYes I'm insecure about myself, I used to be thin and ugly


    But now look at what the mirror shows you. Nothing like the younger you. This guy's affront will be completely forgotten when you realize that what you have to offer is THAT sexy.
  • Tig3r

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    Jan 13, 2015 3:53 AM GMT
    juankgdney said
    mickeytopogigio saidIt's probably coming as a surprise to many of the readers here realizing you might be insecure with yourself.

    The pictures you've posted of yourself portray an Adonis. We'd be forgiven for believing that you have men swooning for your attention.

    But that's probably not the case, right? Guys who meet you are few and far between. I suggest casting a wider net outside your local community. A larger city perhaps?


    Yes I'm insecure about myself, I used to be thin and ugly

    I highly doubt that you used to be ugly. You have attractive features yes, but your body is very intimidating, maybe you might have scarred him off? Lol
  • juankgdney

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    Jan 13, 2015 4:14 AM GMT
    Tig3r said
    juankgdney said
    mickeytopogigio saidIt's probably coming as a surprise to many of the readers here realizing you might be insecure with yourself.

    The pictures you've posted of yourself portray an Adonis. We'd be forgiven for believing that you have men swooning for your attention.

    But that's probably not the case, right? Guys who meet you are few and far between. I suggest casting a wider net outside your local community. A larger city perhaps?


    Yes I'm insecure about myself, I used to be thin and ugly

    I highly doubt that you used to be ugly. You have attractive features yes, but your body is very intimidating, maybe you might have scarred him off? Lol


    Maybe but he's a big dude, wich is why I like him in the first place, I feel like I also don't want to get involved with some one who isn't sure of what he wants, but it's hard to make sense of things like that when you like someone
  • mybud

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    Jan 13, 2015 5:32 AM GMT
    If he really wanted it he'd react quickly...Move on.
  • MikemikeMike

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    Jan 13, 2015 8:16 AM GMT
    juankgdney said
    Tig3r said
    juankgdney said
    mickeytopogigio saidIt's probably coming as a surprise to many of the readers here realizing you might be insecure with yourself.

    The pictures you've posted of yourself portray an Adonis. We'd be forgiven for believing that you have men swooning for your attention.

    But that's probably not the case, right? Guys who meet you are few and far between. I suggest casting a wider net outside your local community. A larger city perhaps?


    Yes I'm insecure about myself, I used to be thin and ugly

    I highly doubt that you used to be ugly. You have attractive features yes, but your body is very intimidating, maybe you might have scarred him off? Lol


    Maybe but he's a big dude, wich is why I like him in the first place, I feel like I also don't want to get involved with some one who isn't sure of what he wants, but it's hard to make sense of things like that when you like someone


    This is the smartest thing you said thus far.icon_idea.gif Plus if he leaves a relationship with someone he is engaged to, there is a good chance he will do the same to you someday.
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    Jan 13, 2015 2:16 PM GMT
    Maybe when you were younger you perceived yourself as ugly... as in not having muscle. You were probably a beautiful person then as you are now... here's the thing though that i'm not sure whether you portray this in person or not. The title "you better work bitch" could mean that you want someone to look after you. A lot of guys aren't into that, so it could easily scare someone off. I treat people as equals, I don't expect someone to carry their own weight all the time and probably I may not either, but if you desire a ltr with anybody the best happens with give and take.

    I guess what i'm trying to say is even though he may have a job or business he may feel it could be a one way street.

    One deal breaker with me is passion, if someone isn't in to high octane making out there's no first base. You may have got a text from him referring to that. Something flipped him into saying that he was not gay. It could be a closet thing as well..... probably not your issue at all. That's all the variables I can think of....aaaahhh
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    Jan 13, 2015 5:45 PM GMT
    Why would you want to continue seeing him knowing he is engaged? Would you feel good about that?
  • SnowSpirit

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    Jan 14, 2015 12:38 AM GMT
    Is it really a good idea to get involved with someone who says they have a fiance?!

    I suggest running for the hills and not get involved in the drama that will ensue.
  • juankgdney

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    Jan 14, 2015 2:35 AM GMT
    Rebellion saidWhy would you want to continue seeing him knowing he is engaged? Would you feel good about that?


    I dont know my dick is thinking more than my brain right now or in my case my butt lol, I know hes trouble but isnt every bottoms dream to "turn" a straight guy?
  • juankgdney

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    Jan 14, 2015 2:35 AM GMT
    robbaker saidunfotunately he's probably not interested because he found a younger hotter muscle boy or twink.


    F U
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    Jan 14, 2015 3:16 AM GMT
    robbaker saidunfotunately he's probably not interested because he found a younger hotter muscle boy or twink.


    Highly unlikely. Have you looked at Juan lately?!??
    And even if it was true that's kind of a rude thing to say.