The Eternal Search

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    Jan 12, 2015 6:53 AM GMT

    I've never dated anyone but I know what I want, if that makes sense. I want someone who will be there for me. Who shares similar interests. Who loves cuddling together in cold weather. Who can be romantic, but also really dirty in the bedroom. I feel like that's the eternal search. Doesn't this sound incredible?
  • devonterus

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    Jan 12, 2015 7:09 AM GMT
    Yes it does like you told me TBh you seem like such a sweet nice guy and I can't believe your single your to cute for that I'msure your prince charming us out there somewhere keep looking
  • AMoonHawk

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    Jan 12, 2015 7:32 AM GMT
    Stop looking for prince Charming and just concentrate on making friends ... they will lead you to the one
  • johnnyqhomo7

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    Jan 12, 2015 4:07 PM GMT
    Im a fan of you icon_smile.gif. You seem nice. icon_smile.gif
  • ASHDOD

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    Jan 12, 2015 4:55 PM GMT
    instead of thinking and wondering,start doing things [a hard lesson i learn from my own expirience]
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    Jan 12, 2015 9:42 PM GMT
    Lol welcome to the club, all gay guys want boyfriends club. You just have to get out there, date, trial and errors. Hell, I broken a lot of hearts and been heartbroken too. Anyway, I'm hoping my next one will be the **One, prince charming who's going to stay. icon_redface.gificon_redface.gificon_eek.gif
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    Jan 12, 2015 10:24 PM GMT
    bahlobahlo said
    I've never dated anyone but I know what I want, if that makes sense. I want someone who will be there for me. Who shares similar interests. Who loves cuddling together in cold weather. Who can be romantic, but also really dirty in the bedroom. I feel like that's the eternal search. Doesn't this sound incredible?


    There are 7 billion people on earth where are you hiding?
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    Jan 13, 2015 2:50 AM GMT
    Thanks for the feedback guys! Yeah I'm not looking for "Prince Charming" cause I know everyone has flaws, but I'd just like to have someone to cuddle with and love icon_smile.gif Preferably we'd be watching horror movies while cuddling, but not absolutely necessary hahaha
  • Tig3r

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    Jan 13, 2015 3:06 AM GMT
    So you want this "Perfect" (for you) guy, but now I have to ask the question; what are you doing to attract or find this guy?

    I've done the online dating thing for a while, I would read the profile, find that we have the exact same things in common, same goals, looking for each other (based off what we both seem to want), send them a message talking about the direction that our favorite show is going or some kind of cute hello, and never get a response. I still see these same guys, still single looking for "the one".
  • 5100s

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    Jan 13, 2015 1:51 PM GMT
    You should look in the mirror because you're probably going to end up with something comparable to what you see. We can't expect what we find to be any better than what we are.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Jan 13, 2015 4:32 PM GMT
    There is no perfect guy out there.
    Think about it. When you get involved in a relationship with a guy, you inherit everything that is going on in his life. It is not just you and him and a whole new life, it is you and everything going on in your life (family, job, finances, friends, etc.) and everything going on in his life (family, job, finances, friends, etc.). So if think your life becomes less complicated, think again. It becomes way more complicated and requires a whole lot of work.
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    Jan 13, 2015 4:45 PM GMT
    bahlobahlo said
    I've never dated anyone but I know what I want, if that makes sense. I want someone who will be there for me. Who shares similar interests. Who loves cuddling together in cold weather. Who can be romantic, but also really dirty in the bedroom. I feel like that's the eternal search. Doesn't this sound incredible?


    No, it doesn't. Moonhawk has part of the equation, you have the other. Now put them together and you get....us.

    Remember as well, the thing to fear is not failing in your search, because you will many times, or will hit gold on the first try - no one knows. The thing to fear is not trying or giving up.

  • josephmovie

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    Jan 13, 2015 8:06 PM GMT
    WE all have am ideal and we all learn to compromise.
  • mybud

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    Jan 13, 2015 8:32 PM GMT
    Always keeps this important criteria in your mind, while dating. When meeting others, slip these into conversations and see how guys react. Continue to search for your incredible..he's out there.
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    Jan 13, 2015 11:09 PM GMT
    Thanks guys for the feedback! I've never been someone who needs to be in a relationship, but I often feel that it would be nice to have someone to come home to and laugh at little things about and cuddle while watching reruns. That's all I'm saying. Hopefully what ever prospects I would find could lead into a great, long-lasting relationship.
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    Jan 14, 2015 3:57 PM GMT
    bahlobahlo said... it would be nice to have someone to come home to and laugh at little things about and cuddle while watching reruns...


    relationships are a LOT of work.
    Especially for something that will not change the partners core values. Will not directly line the partner's pockets with money.

    the long term relationships
    given enough time; almost anything can and will go wrong. You will have to forgive lots of things you never thought possible, only to see yourself commit the same sin(s).

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    Jan 14, 2015 4:19 PM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidStop looking for prince Charming and just concentrate on making friends ... they will lead you to the one

    Not this. Obviously.
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    Jan 14, 2015 7:58 PM GMT
    pellaz said
    bahlobahlo said... it would be nice to have someone to come home to and laugh at little things about and cuddle while watching reruns...


    relationships are a LOT of work.
    Especially for something that will not change the partners core values. Will not directly line the partner's pockets with money.

    the long term relationships
    given enough time; almost anything can and will go wrong. You will have to forgive lots of things you never thought possible, only to see yourself commit the same sin(s).



    What do you mean by having to forgive each other's sins?