Getting Hit on by Women

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    Jan 12, 2015 6:16 PM GMT
    How do you guy's deal with getting hit on by a woman/ women without offending them?

    I've just experienced this a bit more than last year (could it be pre Valentine's Day hunt for a BF?) One was last week by a girl around my age who hit on me in a coffee shop, gave me my number. When she asked for mine I didn't really know what to say and just honestly told her I wasn't into girl's but maybe we could be friends. She got this shocked look on her face like I had just said something unbelievable, turned around and muttered "asshole" walking out. Maybe she thought I was lying? (I think it's pretty obvious to tell I'm gay after a few moments of observation)

    And this weekend when a bunch of cougars asked if "I was a famous basketball player" while in a elevator. They actually made me uncomfortable and I couldn't get out of there fast enough.

    Why can't gay men hit on me as I go about my day btw. Frustrating! :/
  • AMoonHawk

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    Jan 12, 2015 6:44 PM GMT
    I hate when women think they can turn you. Each situation is different, but usually I either ignore them or flat out tell the are the wrong sex and add "been there, done that, no thanks". icon_evil.gif
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    Jan 12, 2015 9:26 PM GMT
    Just like if it were a guy hitting on you, all you have to say is no thanks. No explanation expected or to be given.
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    Jan 13, 2015 1:34 AM GMT
    I feel so good about myself when women hit on me. it's not often, and I'm usually even to this day oblivious to it...but when it happens and I notice it, I feel awesome. and I get a sense of joy telling them I'm gay (and now married).
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    Jan 13, 2015 1:42 AM GMT
    Misoniginst coming in 1, 2, 3.... icon_lol.gif

    This is how it works: women are usually smaller or with less strength than men, so when a crazy one comes at you trying to hit you just grab her arms around herself and dont let her move until she calms down. It's a pain in the ass I know but that way she won't hit you and you won't hit her either.

    With that said a man hitting a woman is the most coward and abusive thing I can think of , I have no respect for men hitting women or children.
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    Jan 13, 2015 1:47 AM GMT
    David3K saidMisoniginst coming in 1, 2, 3.... icon_lol.gif

    This is how it works: women are usually smaller or with less strength than men, so when a crazy one comes at you trying to hit you just grab her arms around herself and dont let her move until she calms down. It's a pain in the ass I know but that way she won't hit you and you won't hit her either.

    With that said a man hitting a woman is the most coward and abusive thing I can think of , I have no respect for men hitting women or children.


    I agree. I would never strike a woman with my fist. I usually just kick them in the pussy.
  • Tig3r

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    Jan 13, 2015 1:52 AM GMT
    I always thank them, give them a compliment as well, then drop the bomb.
    "Um excuse me sir, you are really attractive hehe I generally do not do this but would you maybe wanna go out sometime?"

    "Awe! Why thank you, you have some really pretty eyes. Though I am single, I however play on the other team hun."
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    Jan 13, 2015 1:52 AM GMT
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    David3K saidMisoniginst coming in 1, 2, 3.... icon_lol.gif

    This is how it works: women are usually smaller or with less strength than men, so when a crazy one comes at you trying to hit you just grab her arms around herself and dont let her move until she calms down. It's a pain in the ass I know but that way she won't hit you and you won't hit her either.

    With that said a man hitting a woman is the most coward and abusive thing I can think of , I have no respect for men hitting women or children.


    I agree. I would never strike a woman with my fist. I usually just kick them in the pussy.

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    Jan 13, 2015 1:53 AM GMT
    anyways, i thought this thread was about women hitting you not hitting on you.

    So if a woman hits on you and you're not into them say "no thanks", Easy.
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    Jan 13, 2015 2:12 AM GMT
    Radd said

    I agree. I would never strike a woman with my fist. I usually just kick them in the pussy.


    Never EVER do that... You could lose your shoe!!
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    Jan 13, 2015 2:26 AM GMT
    I don't know why this is an issue. At least you have someone hitting on you
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    Jan 13, 2015 2:39 AM GMT
    JonSpringon said
    Radd said

    I agree. I would never strike a woman with my fist. I usually just kick them in the pussy.


    Never EVER do that... You could lose your shoe!!


    Not only that but the last time I did that stray cats started following me around. icon_neutral.gif
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    Jan 13, 2015 5:20 AM GMT
    broman131 saidI don't know why this is an issue. At least you have someone hitting on you


    Well true.... only wrong gender. Even when I went to gay bars I had to go up to guys (after gauging interest and body language) otherwise it would turn into a staring contest... icon_rolleyes.gif

    One of my friends said gay men are very guarded but that's a big generalization- plus this is NYC. IDK? Maybe I'm not hanging out in Chelsea/ Hell's Kitchen enough?
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    Jan 13, 2015 5:30 AM GMT
    I like it....

    Show off, be funny and get crazy!

    I don't have to fuck em, but they all want some cock!
  • mybud

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    Jan 13, 2015 5:57 AM GMT
    Attention is better than no attention.
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    Jan 13, 2015 6:09 AM GMT
    Been there, just don't wear any Axe body spray around them, I think that stuff was made for straight guys only, my mistake icon_redface.gificon_lol.gif
    I have found other men like a natural, fresh showered or slight musty scent only


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    Jan 13, 2015 8:19 AM GMT
    scruffLA saidBeen there, just don't wear any Axe body spray around them, I think that stuff was made for straight guys only, my mistake icon_redface.gificon_lol.gif
    I have found other men like a natural, fresh showered or slight musty scent only



    Gay guys probably don't like Axe because every time they smell it they have horrible flashbacks to choking helplessly in locker rooms as pubescent boys sprayed it all over themselves after gym without mercy. Or that could just be me
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    Jan 13, 2015 8:31 AM GMT
    I love it!
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    Jan 13, 2015 11:19 AM GMT
    In my experience getting hit on by women I can say that they are more preseptive then you might think , I've told women "I'm gay" when they hit on me.
    That just made them more open to talk to , they now see you as either a challenge or the guy they can talk to so freely.
    Once you've told them your gay / not interested you become a big brother , I knew a girl in high school and she knew I was gay , I could sit and watch her as she tried on clothes and never flinch or try hitting on her.
    Of course I did try to go the other way in school ,it was ok, but guys are my life.
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    Jan 13, 2015 12:28 PM GMT
    Same problem here...Each case is different. After a while of deflections, they get the hint...
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    Jan 13, 2015 2:26 PM GMT
    Radd said
    David3K saidMisoniginst coming in 1, 2, 3.... icon_lol.gif

    This is how it works: women are usually smaller or with less strength than men, so when a crazy one comes at you trying to hit you just grab her arms around herself and dont let her move until she calms down. It's a pain in the ass I know but that way she won't hit you and you won't hit her either.

    With that said a man hitting a woman is the most coward and abusive thing I can think of , I have no respect for men hitting women or children.


    I agree. I would never strike a woman with my fist. I usually just kick them in the pussy.


    Cunt Punt!
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    Jan 15, 2015 6:47 PM GMT
    David3K saidanyways, i thought this thread was about women hitting you not hitting on you.

    So if a woman hits on you and you're not into them say "no thanks", Easy.


    It sounded a bit like the women of Uruguay don't take no for an answer icon_eek.gif
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    Jan 15, 2015 7:30 PM GMT
    I usually just tell them, "sorry, I'm already taken" even though that's not really the case.