Hey guys I don't mean to have a pity party but I keep feeling that the guys in my hometown and college area reject me based on because either I'm bulking or some preference of race. And I'm learning to love myself before I can love someone else but I just can't help but feel down that because I'm trying to do whats right for me I still manage to miss out on meeting guys based on my looks. I know this sounds shallow but everytime I meet a guy they say I look way better in person than in my pics and I know that I'm not a professional photographer so its just annoying that I'm trapped between getting rejected on apps for my pics for race or body or in person there may be guys that are into me but they all seem to be straight. Can anyone offer any advice?