tiki52 saidim a bisexual why gay guys hate us because we cant pick a one gander or we are liars ??????? why cant you guys understand us bisexuals are so complicate if i could choose a girl or a guy i will definitely pick a one but truth is we cant we attract to both gender
And therein lies the problem. First, I don't hate you. But I can't get involved with a guy for an LTR when I know he might still be interested in women.
I haven't got the equipment to compete with a woman, and so I'm wasting my time with a bisexual guy. Who might dump me for a woman. Against a male rival I might have a chance of competing, but against a female I'm out of my league.
So it isn't that I hate bisexuals. Rather I've always just seen you guys as romantic dead ends for me. I'll be friends, no hatred, but I won't make an emotional investment in you.
And BTW, I do believe bisexuals are a real sexual category. And all the points in between on the Kinsey Scale, from completely straight to completely gay, with bi in the middle.