Why are all hot guys gay?

  • wesv

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    Jan 14, 2015 2:25 AM GMT
    How many of you heard this question? Even my sister asked me this. I don't think it's always true. But of course, yes, our dating pool is the most competitive contrary to the easy desperate gay guy stereotype. We care about our looks more and we are more likely to work out and stay in shape compared to straight guys. That's just my theory why straight girls think that.

    Why do you think straight girls say that?
  • dilfforrent

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    Jan 14, 2015 2:55 AM GMT
    Most self-conscious about body image:
    gays > straight women > straight men > lesbians

    Most attractive:
    gays > straight women > straight men > lesbians
  • Rene_Aensland

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    Jan 14, 2015 3:14 AM GMT
    Oh Wes, it's 100% true.
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    Jan 14, 2015 3:28 AM GMT
    Where is this smorgasbord of attractive men to date? I was not aware...When they say that I want to show them the spawn of Quasimodo running around where I live. I don't get offended though, I take it as a compliment and move on.



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    Jan 14, 2015 4:51 AM GMT
    wesv saidHow many of you heard this question? Even my sister asked me this. I don't think it's always true. But of course, yes, our dating pool is the most competitive contrary to the easy desperate gay guy stereotype. We care about our looks more and we are more likely to work out and stay in shape compared to straight guys. That's just my theory why straight girls think that.

    Why do you think straight girls say that?



    Nowadays, I would say body image, puberty and internet awareness at an EARLY age........

    In my youth, there was no such thing as 'gay in high school', at least out ones. The only people concerned or with knowledge of any body image were the straight male jocks and their coaches. Any guy 'suspected' of being gay was not into body image at all, more like brains. If I remember, the jocks.. baseball, football, wrestling were required to spend some time in the high school workout room, lifting weights and keeping their bodies fit, even after school hours. While any suspected gay guy was usually in drama, math club or band, also including after school hours in practice.

    Not sure when, but probably with the concept of high school gay straight alliance changed this dramatically. Young gay boys could be out and be jocks too, working out side by side with their straight friends, no longer confined to drama club, as a way to combat bullying. http://www.gsanetwork.org/get-involved/start-gsa

    It appears as though the young gay guys have pushed their straight counterparts into the role of 'drama club' as they were once, they saw their parents go through it and refused to be put into this stereotype, all the while, generational creating a new stereo type of the 'Muscle Mary' of today

    This was OUR body image, we didn't care icon_lol.gif


  • AMoonHawk

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    Jan 14, 2015 5:01 AM GMT
    They only say that when they want to get into your pants
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    Jan 14, 2015 5:40 AM GMT

    If it is all about body image, study these people carefully, our straight male counterpart body image seem to match that of their females, varies (wide hip..etc) while our gay men body image seems to be that of the same as the other men icon_idea.gif



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    Jan 14, 2015 7:25 AM GMT
    Isn't the answer obvious???

    We are simply better than everyone else.

    It's jus a fact of life...
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    Jan 14, 2015 8:19 AM GMT
    Hmmm

    I think to may carbohydrates have changed this a little.
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    Jan 15, 2015 12:53 AM GMT
    That isn't said in every city, sigh.... icon_cry.gif
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    Jan 15, 2015 11:15 PM GMT
    I wish this was true where I live. All of the best-looking guys here are straight.
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    Jan 16, 2015 1:04 PM GMT
    That is not true in all cases. It's just something straight women say when they can't get a man.
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    Jan 16, 2015 1:42 PM GMT
    Because you need to be hot to attract someone hot -- unless you are one of those who believe in the invisible hand of providence... icon_lol.gif
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    Jan 16, 2015 1:55 PM GMT
    Rene_Aensland saidOh Wes, it's 100% true.
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    Jan 16, 2015 4:51 PM GMT
    Why are all hot guys gay?

    Because they are, Blanche.

    Next time you find a really hot guy, ask him if he wants a BJ. They almost universally say yes, because they are all gay.
  • rdberg1957

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    Jan 16, 2015 8:38 PM GMT
    bachian saidBecause you need to be hot to attract someone hot -- unless you are one of those who believe in the invisible hand of providence... icon_lol.gif


    Except that it isn't exactly true. Sometimes hot guys end up with someone average who loves them with all their hotness. Sometimes hot guys go with other hot guys. And sometimes guys who are not hot end up happy. Go figure.
  • rdberg1957

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    Jan 16, 2015 8:46 PM GMT
    Notice the question. Why are all hot guys gay? Notice that not all gays are hot. Some of the best dressers are gay and work at high end clothing stores. Some of the handsomest men are gay. But it is still just a percentage of men and I don't know that the percentage of hot straight men is different than the percentage of hot gay men. I kind of consider myself to be a not so hot gay man. I have always had my niche of men who thought I was hot, but it was a small group. Most guys are attractive to somebody. Some guys have a lot more to pick from because many people find them attractive. I am 57 and I like my body more as I age. I play tennis and racquetball and really like my legs. I think gay men do pay more attention to their looks and give more energy into self-care of various kinds.

    I put more energy into therapy than I wish I needed to, but it paid off for me. I like myself better. Someone who likes themselves as well as others is always hot.
  • Sincityfan

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    Jan 16, 2015 8:51 PM GMT
    Give them a link to this website. I'm sure their opinions will quickly change.
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    Jan 16, 2015 8:56 PM GMT
    I don't agree, but it's only due to the fact that straight men outnumber us by a a large margin. I guess you can say good looking men aren't as far in between amongst gay men due to body image issues, but I wouldn't say they're "better looking" - better groomed/dressed, maybe.

    For instance, when I can go into gay bars/club I feel like an 8 or 9 compared to everyone there but if I go to a regular bar/club full of straight men I'll feel more like a 7.
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    Jan 17, 2015 1:18 AM GMT
    rdberg1957 saidExcept that it isn't exactly true. Sometimes hot guys end up with someone average who loves them with all their hotness. Sometimes hot guys go with other hot guys. And sometimes guys who are not hot end up happy. Go figure.


    "Some people win the lottery. Some people don't."

    Your use of "some" is misleading. Most hot guys go with other hot guys.
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    Jan 17, 2015 2:34 AM GMT
    This is often said out of frustration, I hear it a lot here in NYC: "All the good men are taken and the hot remaining guys are all gay!" Too many times this is caused by having a laundry list for how a potential BF should look and be. If he's hot they'll move down the list. Gay guys are guilty of this as well so are straight guy's but to a lesser degree I think.

    Attractiveness from ugly to smoking hot is varied amongst various sexualities from 100% straight to 100% gay. Maybe that hot guy someone thinks is gay is actually bi.... who know?

    On the flip side I hear some gay guys lament why are all hot guys straight icon_rolleyes.gif
  • PE_Mike

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    Jan 17, 2015 1:27 PM GMT
    Mirror, mirror, on the wall.... who's prettier, you or your bf?
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    Jan 18, 2015 12:06 AM GMT
    robbaker saidwhy are all the ugly ones gay too ?

    We got old.   icon_twisted.gif
  • Eli_jah

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    Jan 18, 2015 9:18 PM GMT
    Cash saidIsn't the answer obvious???

    We are simply better than everyone else.

    It's jus a fact of life...


    Seconded. icon_biggrin.gif
  • ZakSayWhat

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    Jan 18, 2015 9:28 PM GMT
    there are hot ppl in every genre duh