Do you only date equally good looking or hotter?

  • PE_Mike

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    Jan 17, 2015 1:34 PM GMT
    Models and jocks often mix but seldom last. Charity and desperation aside, do you generally desire guys you consider 'better looking' than you? or does every dog have its day?
  • SilverRRCloud

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    Jan 17, 2015 2:49 PM GMT
    Starting a debate on the issue of being "better looking" would be opening a veritable can of worms here. icon_eek.gif

    I like to think of it in the following manner:

    I always aim for the top of the fresh meat market.

    I have been pretty successful so far. Some people have told me that I was simply dating the guys in my league!

    I doubt that very much.

    When it comes to dating, looks are only one, albeit a very important part of the dating equation for most guys.

    Guys who are solely "looks" focused will go for the looks only. It is pretty much like an investor who puts all of his eggs in one proverbial basket.

    The rest will quickly figure out that there is so much more to the phenomenon of sexual attraction than the looks alone. This is where wits, name, maturity, reputation, networks, wealth and many other things come into play.

    SC




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    Jan 18, 2015 3:08 PM GMT
    I go for guys who I am attracted to. I don't bother ranking myself against guys (and neither should any of you). Generally speaking, the guys with the best bodies/looks have usually not been the better dates or even the most fun in bed. So I don't go all gaga over looks like I did when I first started hooking up. For me, how a guy carries himself and how he communicates with me are 2/3rds of of the attraction equation.
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    Jan 18, 2015 8:12 PM GMT
    i'm mostly into personality believe it or not.if a guy isn't so great looking,but is hella fun to be around.I'm happyicon_biggrin.gif
  • ZakSayWhat

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    Jan 18, 2015 9:05 PM GMT
    i definetly date with and sleep with men that are lower on the scale than me.

    its fine tho. Im happy too.
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    Jan 19, 2015 7:39 AM GMT
    I don't care about looks, it's about the guys personality.
  • Antarktis

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    Jan 19, 2015 12:47 PM GMT

    Hogwash!
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    Jan 20, 2015 3:46 AM GMT
    I go for guys that i think cute, attractive to me......don't care what others said. Look is one part, personality is another big part.