wesv saidI don't mean to sound like a dick, but so many of you guys are giving me that impression. I hear things like "I used to have sex with girls and liked it, but now I prefer to have sex with guys." You guys word things so incorrectly like "when I used to be straight." And what's up with this "I just started to like guys more than girls two years ago but I still kinda like girls"? WTF? Is sexual orientation a choice then? I just don't understand how gays and lesbians go around saying "bitch, I was born this way" but you send the wrong message to straight people.
I was born with my gay orientation. I don't know about you.
You are simply misunderstanding the message.
Once you reach a certain age, you are simply horny all the time, or most of the time. It's a fact of life.
You may find guys attractive, and girls, too. (Some men do. Some don't.) You have not had any time to establish a pattern of your sexual behavior. When an opportunity presents itself, you go for it. Besides, some guys are more curious than the others. Even though they may prefer having sex with one gender, they still want to try playing with the other option, too.
I always found men more sexually attractive than women. Yet, a few times, I ended up with a choice of either ending the night with a cute girl, or going home alone. I would always choose the former over the latter. I have no problem in being called an opportunist
Over the time, I established my network of friends and buddies, and practically always had the option of finding a reasonably hot dude to mess around with. So, I stopped banging the chicks around, and focused on my male buddies.
I never thought that I chose to be gay. If I had had the choice, I would have chosen to be gay, though.
The fact that I have booked quite a few sexual encounters with girls does not make anything that I otherwise would not be.