Friends with benefits

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    Jan 23, 2015 5:57 PM GMT
    What do you consider friends with benefits...

    I'm just wondering, use to have a friend some time ago who was married with three kids.

    There were times he'd have sex with his wife, and if I was staying the night to help with his business he'd put his cock in my hole or I'd get to suck him off.

    I think he was just overly horny and a friend with benefits.
  • Aidenz

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    Jan 23, 2015 6:17 PM GMT
    If all parties agree I think that's great. Of coarse you have to be sure everyone agrees. Don't let him say you're friends with benefits and it turns out he's cheating on his wife without her blessing. And of coarse play safe. Otherwise I think it's good to be free with your sexuality but there are a lot of emotions tied into sex too so you have to find a way to manage that. It's best that you have a steady partner yourself instead of running around chasing every cock. If you know you're limits then that could be a very intimate and interesting friendship
  • dextersima

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    Jan 24, 2015 5:58 AM GMT
    I don't believe in friends with benefits. It's basically acquaintances who fuck regularly.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Jan 24, 2015 6:05 AM GMT
    gwms saidWhat do you consider friends with benefits...

    I'm just wondering, use to have a friend some time ago who was married with three kids.

    There were times he'd have sex with his wife, and if I was staying the night to help with his business he'd put his cock in my hole or I'd get to suck him off.

    I think he was just overly horny and a friend with benefits.

    That's one description
    or
    an x wife, a new wife , a couple of kids and a couple of girl friends and he likes to bottom from time to tme

    or

    he could be just a really fun friend that you and him have 3 ways with other guys with from time to time

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    Jan 24, 2015 7:12 AM GMT
    No friends with benefits for me. I just need a mutual cuddle friend. icon_redface.gif
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    Jan 24, 2015 7:53 AM GMT
    friends with benefits means exactly that.

    FRANS who have the benefit of sex.

    I find this concept to be kind of disturbing & disgusting TBH.

    I guess that I'm old fashioned, I don't care. older generations were better at romantic relationships anyway.

    IT JUST MEANS THAT THEY ARE WILLING TO BE YOUR FRAN.

    your friend, not your boyfriend.

    they don't want to get cereal w. u

    maybe cos you don't completely meet their expectations of a relationship partner.

    maybe cos being a hoe is one of the things they love about life.

    who knows.

    i think it's OK as long as you really don't like them as anything more than a friend & you can't stand the idea of being in a relationship with them. & you should make sure they feel the same way.

    cos the minute you start developing strong feelings for them, you're going to hate that term.
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    Jan 24, 2015 10:32 AM GMT
    dextersima saidI don't believe in friends with benefits. It's basically acquaintances who fuck regularly.


    I really like your reply, thanks.