What's it take to get some action?

  • Aidenz

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    Jan 23, 2015 6:02 PM GMT
    I've been on this site for over a year and no one in my area has responded to my message or even asked for a date. What gives? i thought this was a gay dating sight. I think I should get at least a few offers. Maybe I'm being too picky or maybe guys are looking for someone more muscular but that's a hard order to fill at the moment and where do "muscle for muscle only" guys draw the line? Dates with cool guys are great but every once in a while a shallow hottie is good too. And if that guy happens to be hot and cool, all the better!

    Basically: Fellas where you at?
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    Jan 23, 2015 6:11 PM GMT
    Aidenz saidI've been on this site for over a year and no one in my area has responded to my message or even asked for a date. What gives? i thought this was a gay dating sight. I think I should get at least a few offers. Maybe I'm being too picky or maybe guys are looking for someone more muscular but that's a hard order to fill at the moment and where do "muscle for muscle only" guys draw the line? Dates with cool guys are great but every once in a while a shallow hottie is good too. And if that guy happens to be hot and cool, all the better!

    Basically: Fellas where you at?

    You answered yourself. I am just speculating, but it seems the kind of guys you are going after are more muscular/ripped than you, and they want someone like themselves. So either you get that look or lower your high standard.
    I don't think it's that difficult to draw the "muscle4muscle" line.
  • Aidenz

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    Jan 23, 2015 6:42 PM GMT
    __morphic__ said
    You answered yourself. I am just speculating, but it seems the kind of guys you are going after are more muscular/ripped than you, and they want someone like themselves. So either you get that look or lower your high standard.
    I don't think it's that difficult to draw the "muscle4muscle" line.


    I get that. We can't all have bodybuilders and fitness models chasing after us, but still I'm saying NO ONE in my area has gone after me or responded. My ideal preference: Red hair, white, muscular, green eyes, smooth or well trimmed hair, around 5'11-6'6 +/- 5 years my age ( No less than 18 of coarse unless I'm in a different country). That's a rather unrealistic to ask for but it's just my ideal. The thing is, it'd be nice to get attention from anyone in my age group or at least reasonably attractive who's withing travel distance much less my own country.

    Even if they are weirdos checking me out, they're in New York or Australia or something. Somewhere were I can't even consider doing anything with them. The only exception was this nice looking muscular guy in Pasadena, but that's too far for me to walk or take a bus in a reasonable amount of time.
  • Aidenz

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    Jan 23, 2015 7:45 PM GMT
    pazzy saidare you trolling?


    trolling?
  • Aidenz

    Posts: 46

    Jan 23, 2015 8:10 PM GMT
    pazzy said
    Aidenz said
    pazzy saidare you trolling?


    trolling?


    are you looking for a boyfriend, a date or sex?

    if you're looking for a date or sex, then those two shouldn't be difficult. you just aren't doing it right.


    ... So what am I doing wrong? Granted you don't know my habits. What would you do though?

    (It'd be nice to meet guys outside of apps but that doesn't seem to happen much either =/)
  • Aidenz

    Posts: 46

    Jan 23, 2015 8:33 PM GMT
    I guess so. I could try more apps, clubs gym etc. I'm not a flirt in person and don't like to go to gay events