Hairy Ass Problems...

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    Jan 24, 2015 6:38 PM GMT
    I'm a pretty hairy Italian guy. I have hair pretty much everywhere on my body, except for my back (thank God). Actually, I do have a small patch of hair on my lower back, but nothing a little Nair can't take care of.

    I have hairy legs/thighs (front and back), hairy chest/torso. I can deal with those areas, because I can sometimes trim it if I feel like it's too much, and I don't want to be completely hairless anyway...

    My biggest issue though is the hair in my ass crack. My cheeks are just a little bit fuzzy which is okay with me, but for some reason there is a load of hair inside my ass cheeks and I don't know what to do about it. Dark, coarse hair. I've read some people saying to trim it, some say shave it completely, some say leave it alone.

    My biggest issue with it, is that I feel like it causes odor. I don't want any guy (or girl) going down there and it smelling bad, and I'm not sure any guy would want to play with my ass or especially rim me, with it being that hairy.

    Shaving/trimming the inside seems so difficult. Any tips on how to take care of this? Should I also embrace my hair on my chest/belly or should I get rid of that too? I personally prefer guys with little to no chest/torso hair, and just the right amount of hair on the legs and arms.
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    Jan 24, 2015 7:04 PM GMT
    You´re posting about your hairy ass in a gay dating website while having a little girl in your profile picture, really? At least blur her face she doesn't need to get involved in any of this.
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    Jan 24, 2015 7:18 PM GMT
    If it is making you stinky and holding bacteria, get it taken care of once and for all.
    Do not use chemicals, have it waxed off or try to keep it trimmed.
    Go get it removed with Laser. It takes a few treatments to get what's out now and what's dormant and will come out later.
    Laser is permanent and will be worth your investment and time.
    Most of us have normal amount of hair in that area and it's not a problem.
    If you have a forest and it stinks.. it needs to be gone.
  • HottJoe

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    Jan 24, 2015 7:30 PM GMT
    Grow it out and put it in a ponytail.
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    Jan 24, 2015 11:56 PM GMT
    You need to crop that pic. Its wrong on a lot of levels having a child on here! icon_eek.gif
  • whytehot

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    Jan 25, 2015 12:18 AM GMT
    What's so wrong about that? Plenty of pics on dating profiles with nieces and nephews or orphanage children present.
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    Jan 25, 2015 2:29 AM GMT
    whytehot saidWhat's so wrong about that? Plenty of pics on dating profiles with nieces and nephews or orphanage children present.


    On Facebook? sure. on a dating site with plenty of cock pics everywhere and where 70% of threads are about sex, no way. This should be common sense.

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    Jan 25, 2015 5:56 AM GMT
    David3K said
    whytehot saidWhat's so wrong about that? Plenty of pics on dating profiles with nieces and nephews or orphanage children present.


    On Facebook? sure. on a dating site with plenty of cock pics everywhere and where 70% of threads are about sex, no way. This should be common sense.



    You're being so dramatic. This is a dating site, you're right. And not everyone's profile contains nudes. My profile doesn't. Whats so wrong about posting a picture of me and my little cousin in my profile?
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    Jan 25, 2015 6:51 AM GMT
    no one said they have to be nudes, but come on… use some common sense. Take a stupid selfie, its just not right to feature a child on a site like this. Does her mother know she is featured in you gay online profile? Im sure she would mind!
  • whytehot

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    Jan 25, 2015 7:18 AM GMT
    You're just jelly cuz you haven't had a pic taken by someone else since age 25. Some people have spent so much time online that they lack a nuanced understanding of normal behavior and overcompensate by trumpeting arbitrary rules

    One of my tinder profile pics has kids running in the background at a wedding. But RJ is different right? Maybe stop bumping the "will you have sex with the guy above you" threads, and make this place less embarrassing?
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    Jan 25, 2015 7:29 AM GMT
    whytehot saidYou're just jelly cuz you haven't had a pic taken by someone else since age 25. Some people have spent so much time online that they lack a nuanced understanding of normal behavior and overcompensate by trumpeting arbitrary rules

    One of my tinder profile pics has kids running in the background at a wedding. But RJ is different right? Maybe stop bumping the "will you have sex with the guy above you" threads, and make this place less embarrassing?


    Are you deflecting this to me? Cause I'm not sure WTF you are talking about.
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    Jan 25, 2015 7:57 AM GMT
    whytehot saidYou're just jelly cuz you haven't had a pic taken by someone else since age 25. Some people have spent so much time online that they lack a nuanced understanding of normal behavior and overcompensate by trumpeting arbitrary rules

    One of my tinder profile pics has kids running in the background at a wedding. But RJ is different right? Maybe stop bumping the "will you have sex with the guy above you" threads, and make this place less embarrassing?


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    Jan 25, 2015 3:11 PM GMT
    Quoted from RJ's Terms of Use (TOU):

    Images of minor persons. Content depicting any person's image, in whole or in part who is under the age of eighteen (18 ) years old, is illegal and prohibited.

    On the other hand, that particular photo was presumably approved by RJ admin.
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    Jan 25, 2015 3:19 PM GMT
    Art_Deco saidQuoted from RJ's Terms of Use (TOU):

    Images of minor persons. Content depicting any person's image, in whole or in part who is under the age of eighteen (1icon_cool.gif years old, is illegal and prohibited.

    On the other hand, that particular photo was presumably approved by RJ management.
    Its more than clear there is no active admin anymore. Im sure Jeff doesnt even open the pictures to its full size or give them a second look, he just clicks on 'accept' to get the job done.
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    Jan 25, 2015 3:30 PM GMT
    I'd get a boy friend first; see how he feels about it.
    Personally, I like hair on a man--the more the masculine, in my opinion.
    Also, can't stand stubble; so there is a commitment I wouldn't have time for.
    If you are athletic or do a lot of work out in the heat, you're going to chafe.
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    Jan 25, 2015 4:02 PM GMT
    Many come to this website for the "eye candy" (the ones that post and the ones that only watch), to say the least. Imagine them horny jumping from profile to profile and in the middle of it they see the clear pic of your little niece. Do you like it?

    Not all of us are like that, granted, but the many that do are enough not to post pictures of kids on a freaking sex website, period.

    Go ahead, show this website to her parents and see what they think of it.

    Its unvelievable so many gay men lack basic common sense.
  • Jav1993

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    Jan 25, 2015 4:18 PM GMT
    How did ass hair turn into a discussion on kids.

    Look, if you feel uncomfortable with it, you can trim it a bit. Experiment. find the length you like. it's all about what makes you comfortable. I believe most people wouldn't care unless an odor did come from it.

    In terms of the cousin in your pic, i like it. Family guys are cute and it adds a new dimension to you. Nobody else cares and if they do, they're idiots. Its you chatting with the guys, not your cousin.

    That's all i gotta say. Plus italians are gorgeous so just continue being you
  • Aidenz

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    Jan 25, 2015 4:27 PM GMT
    If it's really a problem look into hair removal. Waxing, nair, shaving, trimming, you name it. Understand that your hair is genetic though and even if you deal with at and end up completely somooth it will grow back and thicker if you do it wrong. For that much hair, stuff like waxing could be really painful and you have to think about if you'll get razor bumps and stay real clean. Some guys are into hair and even body odor. You look like an otter/wolf type and
    that can be hot. You'll put off a manly vibe. If you're comfortable with a guy like that then it's no problem. If it's a body image thing, it may have a deeper psychological implication. Overall you should take measures to take care of yourself. Not everyone can be smooth but not everyone can be hairy. You shouldn't be jealous but of course take care of yourself. For a good compromise, I recommend trimming your stuff down to a manageable level.
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    Jan 25, 2015 5:10 PM GMT
    I removed my "inappropriate" pic and replaced it with a cropped one.

    Now, back to the ass hair discussion please. -_-
  • venue35

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    Jan 27, 2015 2:32 AM GMT
    just trim that spider like ass crack with a trimmer or get someone to do it for you
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    Jan 27, 2015 6:14 AM GMT
    Just use toilet paper + wet wipes after you shit. Or use a bidet if you have access to one.
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    Jan 27, 2015 6:21 AM GMT
    There are plenty of guys like me who LOVE a hairy ass. There is nothing I like more than eating a furry crack.....and the furrier the better. Just be yourself dude and stop trying to feminize yourself. There are just as many guys who will reject you for waxing your butt like a girl as there are queens who will reject you for a manly, hairy ass. And the "hair=odor" thing is ridiculous.
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    Feb 13, 2016 4:20 AM GMT
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    Feb 13, 2016 9:29 AM GMT
    Just shower twice a day, don't get waxed down there because it can cause ingrowing hairs which you then have to go and have surgery to sort it out and sometimes they pack it with gauze and leave it as an open wound depending on infection and you have to get it cleaned and dressed several times a day by a nurse while you are lying on your front for days on end until it is clear of infection and then either healed or sewn up. Happened to a friend of mine, he said it was very humiliating having so many different people seeing his body in a venerable position like that, friends and family were visiting him in hospital and seeing his ass crack if they arrived at the wrong moment.
    Some guys like hairy, I do, but just embrace it, it's not like you have a hairy back because thats not so great.
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    Feb 13, 2016 11:42 AM GMT
    What an ass hole icon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gif