How can I up my dating game?

  • infinitefrien...

    Posts: 376

    Jan 25, 2015 7:08 PM GMT
    I don't get much attention for guys and they don't usually followup once they start talking to me, or just randomly ignore me...

    What should I be doing?

    thanks!
  • Rene_Aensland

    Posts: 2495

    Jan 25, 2015 7:08 PM GMT
    Start with a Face pic.

    No one wants to date a pussy.
    Pun intended.
  • zalcland

    Posts: 51

    Jan 25, 2015 7:12 PM GMT
    True, a face pic is a great place to start.

    I've also found the more I get into the mindset of not needing a man / being happy alone, the more guys seem to want to talk to me.

    Guys tend to want a man that seems content in life.

    Healthy and active lifestyle doesn't hurt either.
  • craycraydoesd...

    Posts: 596

    Jan 25, 2015 7:24 PM GMT
    not having a face picture on an online gay forum - where embarrassing secrets of insecurity or pettiness are revealed - does not necessarily mean not having a face picture on dating sites or apps...

    I also get a chuckle out of the members with 20953024 posts who will inevitably come here and pontificate about meeting people in real life.
  • infinitefrien...

    Posts: 376

    Jan 25, 2015 7:27 PM GMT
    This is my profile
    http://www.ladslads.com/profiles/infinitefriend
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    Jan 26, 2015 7:50 PM GMT
    Not that I'm an expert - but I'd go with: Don't do/say anything you wouldn't respond well to if you were in their shoes.

    Gay guys have a habit of starting conversations online with the words: horny, sexy, top/bottom, masculine, hot and "hey - how are you". I avoid those words. Just avoid sex as a conversation starter.

    Personally, I always find it nice to know someone's taken the time to read my profile. I mean if you're looking to start meaningful conversations - why not start by finding what means something to the person you're interested it.
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    Jan 27, 2015 4:10 AM GMT
    infinitefriend9 saidI don't get much attention...


    Well, that explains all your inane posts! Look at me! Look at me!