I agree OKCUPID is the best with more real people and more people SERIOUS about meeting up. All the sites seem to have a lot of scammers, phonies and escorts pretending to be real so you have to be careful. I had a cute guy, who I was convinced was in love with me, me ask me for $900. LOL.
Realjock is a distant second and the rest are pretty much useless even when you PAY.
I was on Manplay, Gaydating and Amor for months with ZERO results except a thinner wallet. LOL