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  • ignaceqbc

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    Jan 28, 2015 11:11 PM GMT
    hi guys
    i know a guy from my gym..we talk bla bla bla, i was afraid to telling the truth that i love him. time goes by...he give me a lift to montreal, we sing together in the car. that was the first time.
    the second time. he decided to take me up from my work to montreal, again he give me a lift. on the way back from montreal to Quebec. finally he told me that he went to montreal is for dating. but he was not sure that he will move to montreal for good. my heart was already broken.
    1. does he know that i expected more than a friends.
    2. what should i do??
    every message that i sent to him on facebook will never be replied instead really important.
    our different ages is 16 years old different. iam afraid that i will rejected by him. the last time he drop me in front of my home.

    thanks for advice
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    Jan 29, 2015 4:52 PM GMT
    You've given very little information... (did you EVER tell him you're interested - did you guys ever date, have sex, is he even gay??, etc...???)

    Unfortunately I believe you've answered your own question. He's interested in someone else and may even move to be with them. Cut your losses, stop trying with this guy, and move on. You'll both be happier in the long run.

    Date someone you KNOW is interested. Good luck.
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    Jan 29, 2015 9:46 PM GMT
    "every message that i sent to him on facebook will never be replied instead really important."

    He's never replied from Facebook?

    But he's given you 2 rides to Montreal. It sounds like a friendship/buddy thing. Just guessing. At least fess up, MAN UP. DON'T tell him you love him....he'll run away for sure!
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    Jan 30, 2015 2:42 AM GMT
    [quote][cite] i was afraid to telling the truth that i love him.[/quote]
    But Blanche, you don't love him. You can't love him. Sounds like you are infatuated or have a crush on him. One can't love someone he does not really know well.
  • ignaceqbc

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    Feb 01, 2015 1:17 AM GMT
    manboynyc saidYou've given very little information... (did you EVER tell him you're interested - did you guys ever date, have sex, is he even gay??, etc...???)

    Unfortunately I believe you've answered your own question. He's interested in someone else and may even move to be with them. Cut your losses, stop trying with this guy, and move on. You'll both be happier in the long run.

    Date someone you KNOW is interested. Good luck.


    According to him it is too far and probably he will not get into that guy because of the distance and the things will become complicated.

    I never try dating with him I just wait and see right now. And I promise no sex date because I belive better do not have sex at the beginning.
  • ignaceqbc

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    Feb 01, 2015 3:36 AM GMT
    HikerSkier said[quote][cite] i was afraid to telling the truth that i love him.

    But Blanche, you don't love him. You can't love him. Sounds like you are infatuated or have a crush on him. One can't love someone he does not really know well.[/quote]

    Why I cannot love him?
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    Feb 01, 2015 4:14 AM GMT
    ignaceqbc said
    HikerSkier said[quote][cite] i was afraid to telling the truth that i love him.

    But Blanche, you don't love him. You can't love him. Sounds like you are infatuated or have a crush on him. One can't love someone he does not really know well.


    Why I cannot love him?[/quote]

    Ummm.......maybe because you don't even know him? How old are you again? icon_confused.gif