Could you date an ethnic person who hated the racial group to which they belonged?

  • Inque

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    Jan 29, 2015 7:29 PM GMT
    Could you date a black/Asian/etc person who disliked/hated their own racial/ethnic group? Could you date someone with self hatred?
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    Jan 29, 2015 7:39 PM GMT
    Someone with self hatred has many issues. And it would be something that would affect the relationship greatly. I've been on quite a few dates with Asian guys. And some seemed to think all Asians were ugly as hell. And would only date white guys no exceptions. But i'm Half Asian whether they like it or not. So when asian guys who only date white guys hit on me. It's confusing and at the same time kind of sad.

    I think it's important to love who you are. And to always love your culture whatever it may be.
  • smegnificient

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    Jan 29, 2015 7:42 PM GMT
    lol you and your rhetorical questions. I feel sorry for all the black guys here who have to cringe at all your posts
  • Inque

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    Jan 29, 2015 8:16 PM GMT
    lifeduringwartime23 saidSomeone with self hatred has many issues. And it would be something that would affect the relationship greatly. I've been on quite a few dates with Asian guys. And some seemed to think all Asians were ugly as hell. And would only date white guys no exceptions. But i'm Half Asian whether they like it or not. So when asian guys who only date white guys hit on me. It's confusing and at the same time kind of sad.

    I think it's important to love who you are. And to always love your culture whatever it may be.


    I don't see it that way. If I were a white guy I'd be flattered.
  • NeuralShock

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    Jan 29, 2015 8:21 PM GMT
    It depends on the guy, if he droned on and on nonstop about it I doubt I'd be able to bear it.

    But if he collected his stuff together and moved forward then things would be okay! But if it was a constant pity party it would NOT be alright!
  • Zigs_01

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    Jan 29, 2015 8:31 PM GMT
    I don't get why people would hate their race. Think of a time before you started hating your ethnic group. You fine and normal than, right? Why should anything be different?
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    Jan 29, 2015 8:32 PM GMT
    No.
  • Rene_Aensland

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    Jan 29, 2015 8:39 PM GMT
    You mean people like you?

    Hell fucking no.
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    Jan 29, 2015 8:58 PM GMT
    Inque saidCould you date a black/Asian/etc person who disliked/hated their own racial/ethnic group?


    Hard to believe that such people even exist.
  • Kovyn

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    Jan 29, 2015 9:15 PM GMT
    Would never date anyone who isn't white.

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  • Destinharbor

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    Jan 29, 2015 9:48 PM GMT
    I doubt this happens very often. More frequent would be someone who wasn't into his own race sexually. To your question, no. To mine, sure. I can see how that could happen without it being a serious psychological issue.
  • Inque

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    Jan 29, 2015 10:14 PM GMT
    HikerSkier said
    Inque saidCould you date a black/Asian/etc person who disliked/hated their own racial/ethnic group?


    Hard to believe that such people even exist.


    They do.