Anyone else curious about their partner's farts/bowel movements?

  • NeuralShock

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    Jan 31, 2015 6:53 AM GMT
    No, I'm not talking about scat.

    But anyone else get really curious about some aspects of their partner letting one rip? Or how often they go to the bathroom/how much when they bulk? icon_redface.gif
  • SilverRRCloud

    Posts: 875

    Feb 03, 2015 1:07 PM GMT
    Nope. Not really.

    All my HS buddies and I grew up in locker rooms, swimming pools, and on the nude beaches.

    No one ever thought that you needed separation walls between urinals or that anything but the open showers made any sense.

    Being naked with other guys was viewed as perfectly natural.

    A dude would rip one in the locker room, and some dudes was crack up laughing, someone would say that this was disgusting, and the offender would almost invariably reply, "Now, it is disgusting, and when you were fucking me, this was fine, rite?" At that point, everyone else started cracking up until the next dude ripped one, too.

    Later on in college, if it was an all male party, sleepover or whatever, no one would lock the bathroom door. So, you barged-in, and a dude was either pissing, or two or even three dudes were pissing in together, or a dude was taking a dump. Wow, no one cared, and no one commented. At times, guys were having sex in the corner of the bathroom, and no one made any remark about it. We were trying to grow up, and thought that any reaction to what was obviously going on was immature.

    Some dudes made it a point of sharing the news about the quality AND the quantity of the dump they took with the rest of us in the lockers, bars or wherever it was males only. Everybody agreed that the dude was disgusting, and we all moved on to the next subject.

    I believe that while growing up your curiosity extends to virtually everything, including the subjects you mentioned. Once, more or less everybody talked this thing thru and once everybody agreed that this was disgusting but natural, the curiosity was sated.

    The thing that really mattered was that most of us grew up being comfortable while being naked around other guys, talking nonsense, watching other dudes do whatever they were doing at that time. So, a pretty strong bond was created, and hardly anyone felt excluded, isolated, underestimated, etc..

    Basically, you got it out of your system at the right time and age.

    SC

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    Feb 03, 2015 1:40 PM GMT
    Anyone else curious about their partner's farts/bowel movements?

    NO! icon_razz.gif

    Unless he's sick, or recovering from major surgery under general anesthesia. Which has happened to my husband, and then things like this become diagnostic tools to help gauge recovery.

    The thing I do pay special attention to are indigestion discomfort, and deep belching. I learned while caring for my Father that recurring belching can be a symptom of the onset of a heart attack.

    So that when my husband exhibited those symptoms for several hours, including lower stomach pain (but no other classic cardiac signs), I took him to the hospital ER on a Sunday. I'd heard that strange deep belching before in my Father, when no food had been eaten recently that could have caused it.

    Turns out he was just at the beginning of a "slow" heart attack, and they performed open heart surgery on him to do a bypass. Which was totally successful, and he avoided permanent heart muscle damage with our early response.

    I don't know what your motive in this question is, but there are some things we should all monitor with our partners. It's one of the reasons spouses, straight or gay, statistically live longer than people who live alone.
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    Feb 03, 2015 2:33 PM GMT
    NeuralShock saidNo, I'm not talking about scat.

    But anyone else get really curious about some aspects of their partner letting one rip? Or how often they go to the bathroom/how much when they bulk? icon_redface.gif

    I think you should have created a sock account to ask this. We now know more about you than we would care to.