why? why? and why?

  • bmikesell2012

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    Feb 03, 2015 8:49 AM GMT
    Why is the gay community is so fixated of looking like a greek god. You dont know how many times i got called fat that comes out of the gay community mouths! I think this is sad. I know some of you will say cause its a healthy and blah blah blah. However, it should be what the inside counts.
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    Feb 03, 2015 9:17 AM GMT
    Doubtlessly, you are very busy, happily dating the plentiful and adorable fat guys. Why on earth would you notice or even care what jocks and lean guys, or those aspiring to such, think?
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    Feb 03, 2015 2:25 PM GMT
    bmikesell2012 saidWhy is the gay community is so fixated of looking like a greek god.

    I think they want to look like Adonis (he was really not a god) and definitely not like Posideon or Zeus.
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    Feb 03, 2015 7:18 PM GMT
    Once you are hot and beautiful you will understand. People like beautiful things. It's like art. And gay men tend to like art.


    So there you go....icon_biggrin.gif
  • metta

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    Feb 03, 2015 7:22 PM GMT
    "RealJock is an online meeting place for gay men looking to connect with other gay men who share their interest in fitness and a healthy life."

    http://www.realjock.com/aboutus/

    There are plenty of web sites designed specifically for bears. Seek and you shall receive. icon_wink.gif


    here are just a few:

    http://bearunderground.net/


    http://www.gaybearnation.com/forums


    http://www.justusboys.com/forum/forums/33-Bears-Daddies-Chasers-etc

    http://www.bearclub.com/
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    Feb 03, 2015 7:36 PM GMT
    jmusmc85 saidOnce you are hot and beautiful you will understand....

    i would not say it like that but if you use self denial (control what you shove in your mouth and exercise) what would you think of someone that didnt?

    its both health + what's inside that makes a hot guy
  • HottJoe

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    Feb 03, 2015 7:41 PM GMT
    Well, you can't tell other people who to date (if you could there wouldn't be a gay community and we'd all be in traditional marriages), but you can certainly prioritize "what's on the inside" for yourself.
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    Feb 03, 2015 7:55 PM GMT
    I prefer beefy guys.
  • Rene_Aensland

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    Feb 03, 2015 7:56 PM GMT
    bmikesell2012 saidWhy is the gay community is so fixated of looking like a greek god. You dont know how many times i got called fat that comes out of the gay community mouths! I think this is sad. I know some of you will say cause its a healthy and blah blah blah. However, it should be what the inside counts.


    The community is dead.
    This IS NOT a community. This gay community doesn't exist anymore, the way things have been going we are extremely divided and there is no sense of unity anywhere.
  • metta

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    Feb 03, 2015 8:10 PM GMT
    ^
    Community does not mean that we all agree. We are a diverse community with diverse opinions and have always been so.

    I used to have a friend that used to call us MOTT, for the same reason: Member of the Tribe
  • Rene_Aensland

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    Feb 03, 2015 9:01 PM GMT
    noun, plural communities.
    1.
    a social group of any size whose members reside in a specific locality, share government, and often have a common cultural and historical heritage.
    2.
    a locality inhabited by such a group.
    3.
    a social, religious, occupational, or other group sharing common characteristics or interests and perceived or perceiving itself as distinct in some respect from the larger society within which it exists (usually preceded by the):
    the business community; the community of scholars.
    4.
    a group of associated nations sharing common interests or a common heritage:
    the community of Western Europe.
    5.
    Ecclesiastical. a group of men or women leading a common life according to a rule.


    At best we are 2/5.