Rape fantasies

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    Feb 04, 2015 2:10 PM GMT
    NO, I DON'T HAVE ANY!
    But a whole lot of guys seem to either have them or say they do. (It's far from being only a bi/gay thing. Look at the comments following any article about some man's being arrested. Count how many bring up "Bubba in prison" scenarios.) There's a fair amount of gay porn that strongly suggests - shall we say - one of the performers is getting his ass invaded against his will.
    How many really, deep down, dream of sexually assaulting someone or having it done to them? Not "I'd hit that," but "I'm owning that piece whether he likes it or not" or "I hope these new jeans will get me jumped in an alley." icon_question.gif

    One of my "other sports" is writing stories that revolve around wrestling and/or sex, for one-handed reading purposes. Recently a guy here connected with me for some material. One of his specifications was that I have him win a submission match and then "emasculate" his opponent. I honored the request - conjured up an imaginary bout followed by the loser getting raped. The RealJocker loved it ("good shit.") THEN I sent an epilogue: The victim pressed charges and the offender got locked up for 30-40 years. icon_cool.gif

    Maybe it stems from knowing a few people who were victimized in this way. But when guys talk about "rape fantasies" in those specific terms I hope they're not serious. What do others think and feel about this?

  • Destinharbor

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    Feb 04, 2015 4:33 PM GMT
    Fantasies are tricky things. They don't necessarily reflect something the guy actually wants to do or have happen. Do you think fucked up fantasies are evidence of mental disorders? Even if never acted on?
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    Feb 04, 2015 4:38 PM GMT
    Destinharbor saidFantasies are tricky things. They don't necessarily reflect something the guy actually wants to do or have happen. Do you think fucked up fantasies are evidence of mental disorders? Even if never acted on?


    And that's the thing. I believe a totally healthy person can have rape fantasies.
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    Feb 04, 2015 8:10 PM GMT
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    I conjured up an imaginary bout followed by the loser getting raped. The RealJocker loved it ("good shit.") THEN I sent an epilogue: The victim pressed charges and the offender got locked up for 30-40 years. icon_cool.gif

    Although never having been part of one, it would seem that a submission wrestling match where the loser gives up his ass to the winner isn't really "rape," though, since it was agreed to beforehand (as much as the loser may actually dislike being fucked).
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    Feb 05, 2015 1:36 PM GMT
    Well, damn! I thought this was going to be where we shared our stories of fulfilling a hot guys rape fantasy....




    ...and yes I did, several times. Even wrote some erotica about it and it was submitted by a "friend" to some gay mag and got recognition. HE took credit for it, but I have (somewhere on a 3.5" floppy disc) the original story, typos and all!
  • NeuralShock

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    Feb 05, 2015 2:27 PM GMT
    It isn't actually rape in that instance. It is more of a domination game where both parties mutually want to roleplay.