ToneZj saidWhen we know we have HIV,we may be upset and think our sexual life is over, but once we settle down to learn the facts,we will realize it's not the end of our sexual life, we can date someone also with HIV to have sex.
Actually you can date and have sex with a non-HIV person, as well, provided you tell him, so he can make an informed decision. I knew before we met that my first partner was poz, a man I totally adored.
And I had more sex with him, with me as the bottom, and giving him oral, than with any man before in my life. We just did it safely, with condoms. And if my present husband should become poz (I can't realistically believe he would, we're both negative & monogamous) my life with him would continue as before, sex and all.
And BTW, I understand that an HIV+ couple should also practice safe sex with condoms, because there are different HIV strains. Having unprotected sex can worsen their conditions, and complicate their treatment. Or so HIV specialists have told me.