Having HIV is not the end of your sexual life !

  • ToneZj

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    Feb 05, 2015 2:50 AM GMT
    When we know we have HIV,we may be upset and think our sexual life is over, but once we settle down to learn the facts,we will realize it's not the end of our sexual life,we can date someone also with HIV to have sex.
  • ToneZj

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    Feb 06, 2015 2:16 AM GMT
    Don't give up.
  • Janny

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    Feb 06, 2015 11:39 AM GMT
    you are right.icon_razz.gif
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    Feb 07, 2015 1:44 PM GMT
    ToneZj saidWhen we know we have HIV,we may be upset and think our sexual life is over, but once we settle down to learn the facts,we will realize it's not the end of our sexual life, we can date someone also with HIV to have sex.

    Actually you can date and have sex with a non-HIV person, as well, provided you tell him, so he can make an informed decision. I knew before we met that my first partner was poz, a man I totally adored.

    And I had more sex with him, with me as the bottom, and giving him oral, than with any man before in my life. We just did it safely, with condoms. And if my present husband should become poz (I can't realistically believe he would, we're both negative & monogamous) my life with him would continue as before, sex and all.

    And BTW, I understand that an HIV+ couple should also practice safe sex with condoms, because there are different HIV strains. Having unprotected sex can worsen their conditions, and complicate their treatment. Or so HIV specialists have told me.
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    Feb 07, 2015 2:05 PM GMT
    Um is there something the OP wants to share with us?icon_wink.gif



    I totally agree about the post and have had safe sex with a Poz guy before.
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    Feb 08, 2015 8:48 PM GMT
    i've never had sex with a poz out of fear, but now i'm more open to it. there are a lot of hot guys with hiv. icon_twisted.gif

    aren't there measures both people can take, other than condoms? like prep for hiv- guys . or other meds for hiv+ guys that make their virus undetectable.icon_rolleyes.gif

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    Feb 10, 2015 2:05 AM GMT
    Yes,there are many guys with hiv,so they can find a perfect match.
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    Feb 12, 2015 9:44 AM GMT
    StudlyScrewRite said Um is there something the OP wants to share with us?icon_wink.gif

    Yeah - that he is a fake - who's photo is available at:

    https://www.tradebit.com/filedetail.php/117692801v7503609-bare-chested-young-man-wearing-pyjama-bottoms-lying
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    Feb 26, 2015 7:03 AM GMT
    Really?
  • ToneZj

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    Feb 27, 2015 2:09 AM GMT
    Yinifer saidYes,there are many guys with hiv,so they can find a perfect match.

    Hope you can find your love.
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    Feb 27, 2015 5:08 AM GMT
    As a man who has lived with HIV for the over the last 30 years, I can say, without a doubt, that you can live a sexually fulfilling life while openly living with HIV. It's all about honesty and the "maturity test".
  • vhotti26

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    Feb 27, 2015 8:50 AM GMT
    For some people, getting HIV and becoming undetectable seems to be the cue card to get even raunchier and drop any safe behavior altogether.
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    Feb 28, 2015 2:08 AM GMT
    ToneZj said
    Yinifer saidYes,there are many guys with hiv,so they can find a perfect match.

    Hope you can find your love.

    Thanks,I will.
  • ToneZj

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    Mar 02, 2015 2:41 AM GMT
    Finding the right footing in the dating scene can be difficult for anyone. However, a positive HIV diagnosis can complicate things further.
  • ToneZj

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    Mar 03, 2015 7:58 AM GMT
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  • Janny

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    Mar 06, 2015 1:41 AM GMT
    ToneZj saidFinding the right footing in the dating scene can be difficult for anyone. However, a positive HIV diagnosis can complicate things further.

    I agree with you
  • ToneZj

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    Mar 09, 2015 1:46 AM GMT
    TomLee saidIs there anyone living with aids?

    Sure
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    Mar 09, 2015 1:53 AM GMT
    Why are you all feeding the troll?

    Fake photo:
    https://www.tradebit.com/filedetail.php/117692801v7503609-bare-chested-young-man-wearing-pyjama-bottoms-lying

    Of course since the website sells this stock photo, maybe he honestly paid for it.
  • ToneZj

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    Mar 11, 2015 1:37 AM GMT
    TomLee saidicon_question.gif

    What do you want to say?
  • TheBaise

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    Mar 12, 2015 12:12 AM GMT
    GAMRican saidAs a man who has lived with HIV for the over the last 30 years, I can say, without a doubt, that you can live a sexually fulfilling life while openly living with HIV. It's all about honesty and the "maturity test".



    Right on. Dox say since I got a zero virtual load for a long time / I'm not likely to infect guys / if I was to top 'em without protection. Yeah / there's a chance of infecting 'em, but so frickin' little / especially if my neg. partner is using the new meds / always or just when we get down.
  • Janny

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    Mar 16, 2015 1:47 AM GMT
    Your Online Home for Dating with HIV & Dating with AIDS!
  • Janny

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    Mar 17, 2015 1:47 AM GMT
    TomLee saidIs there anyone living with aids?

    Sure,It is.
  • venue35

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    Mar 20, 2015 1:22 PM GMT
    Art_Deco said
    ToneZj saidWhen we know we have HIV,we may be upset and think our sexual life is over, but once we settle down to learn the facts,we will realize it's not the end of our sexual life, we can date someone also with HIV to have sex.

    Actually you can date and have sex with a non-HIV person, as well, provided you tell him, so he can make an informed decision. I knew before we met that my first partner was poz, a man I totally adored.

    And I had more sex with him, with me as the bottom, and giving him oral, than with any man before in my life. We just did it safely, with condoms. And if my present husband should become poz (I can't realistically believe he would, we're both negative & monogamous) my life with him would continue as before, sex and all.

    And BTW, I understand that an HIV+ couple should also practice safe sex with condoms, because there are different HIV strains. Having unprotected sex can worsen their conditions, and complicate their treatment. Or so HIV specialists have told me.
    How gross...
    The thought of you bottoming and giving someone a blowjobicon_cry.gif
  • Janny

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    Mar 23, 2015 1:33 AM GMT
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    Mar 25, 2015 1:33 AM GMT
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