lol religion is dead here for most part, I never heard of mormons until I meet my Murican BF xD
unlike USA we have strong sex education and condoms are free everywhere, we are well aware of the dangerous of drugs, unprotected sex,etc. here in portugal we have coke and "AX" (heorin)(like most Europe I assume), but it´s rare, only "retards" use it (here anything behond pod=looser), very rare for you to see it, reason why drugs dont sell, anyone with a little bit of brain know that "Tina" (meth/crystal) is completly destructive, the same goes for coke, it takes away brain in spoons dose. we have "pollen", wish is what you guys call ache I think, we mix it up with tabaco, it´s weaker than weed and more trashy, smeels bad...I did it a handfull of times as a teen back in shool and last time when my collegues from school invited me to a birthday party, but it´s harmless for most part and kills libido or any desire to do anything really.
in US for all the new laws on marrige and adoption there´s still a lot of hate, even self hate, last time I was in california for my BF I´ve visited Castro...a lot of lost guys just trying to fit in on the most obivious path, drugs make it easier for people to do things they would not be ok with in the right frame of mind, the diference is this drugs make you go stupid and destroy you, like the "party and play", it´s completly destructive, there´s no shades of gray here friend, it´s black and white, drugs are bad, these people use meth to loose their minds on common sense (self defence), become horny and end up having raw sex, speading HIV all over
...here we even have a group that helps kids coming out and suport them, teaching safe healthy sex and giving suport to the person as well as the family, I was part of that group.
USA is a great coutry but has some real issues with drugs, the famous people even do coke and it´s considered "fancy" because it´s expencive lol...drugs exists everywhere and it´s easy to get it in USA, it´s more present than I ever seen compared to Europe overall, thou I heard it´s becoming a thing in gay comunity in UK too...I guess is more about being a judgmental concept, there´s need to be more drug shaming I guess xD
oh and I noticed republicans and religion is pretty hardcore in USA and "alive", they kinda slowing USA down and not allowing sex to be talked in schools because it seems religious parents "don´t want their kids to learn how to have sex" lol, kids will have sex regardless, we just need to teach them on how to do it right!
lol we do have "spirits" and smokes, all easy to get it, even when you´re younger than 18 (our 21).remember smoking is a psico/European thing xD
regardless on topic, I kinda already gave my opinions about this, "whore shaming" is kinda dumb, as long people are responsible and no one is hurting anyone it´s not of anyone else concern...
people have diferent conceps of sexuality, and sexuality is complicated, some are more romantic, others more "noughty" oriented like what we see on porn, some like muscles, some like fattys, some like cuddles with sex, there´s even str8 guys that don´t like porn because it´s not their vision of sex! be open minded. if someone don´t want to take someone who does orgies and 3somes and sleeps around with half of the world for relationship material is fine, I wouldnt either, but there´s no reason to shame someone as long they are responsible about it and are not hurting anyone, it´s their life and body, let them enjoy life in the way they see fit