Don't u think Grindr app full with sluts

  • tiki52

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    Feb 05, 2015 5:09 AM GMT
    Don't u think Grindr app full with sluts
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    Feb 05, 2015 5:11 AM GMT
    is there a rank above Captain?


    Captain Obvious?
  • Tig3r

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    Feb 05, 2015 5:11 AM GMT
    tiki52 saidDon't u think Grindr app full with sluts
    Objection-Leading!
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    Feb 05, 2015 5:23 AM GMT
    is this a real question? lol
    regardless, most yes, would fit on such definition I guess, it´s a app mostly for hook up, reason why it works by distance, and depending in each coutry can be more or less gross, a lot of the gay hook up culture goes around the "party and play" (use of meth/extasy with viagra/coke etc), but there´s simply guys trying to explore their sexuality in a healthy way, meet the guy, have a talk, a couple of drinks just to relax, there´s mutual respect, quesmestry and they go from there. nothing worng with that, maybe just not for you. once in a blue moon you see a few guys trying to keep themselfs open everywhere to dates. this is the vision most common in USA and UK, if you´re from my little coutry there´s no such things as drug use, and most people are honest about their intentions...
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    Feb 05, 2015 1:25 PM GMT
    100% sluts + judgemental assholes.

    No inbetweens.

  • Feb 05, 2015 1:44 PM GMT
    Sex is healthy stop being so heteronormative-puritan
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    Feb 05, 2015 3:15 PM GMT
    grofte said100% sluts + judgemental assholes.

    No inbetweens.


    Lol. I tried it for one month. All I found were the judge-mental divas, no sluts. And a lot of headless torsos.
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    Feb 05, 2015 7:48 PM GMT
    Preach! Nothing but regret from gay apps. But it's impossible to meet a guy it seems.
    Living with a straight roommate is turning me straight. Hockey, chicks, beer, chicks. Only gay guys in town are only found on grindr.
  • Eli_jah

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    Feb 05, 2015 8:36 PM GMT
    It depends. You are not going to find the love of your life on Grindr, and it is foolish to think as such.
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    Feb 05, 2015 8:42 PM GMT
    ^
    Speak for yourself...
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    Feb 05, 2015 9:10 PM GMT
    I dated someone I met on Grindr for 2 years. You don't really get the opportunity to flirt/socialize on a day to day basis like straight people do, so I've always used it as an opportunity to meet new people then decide what type of relationship I want with them (and in most cases, none at all).
  • FredMG

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    Feb 05, 2015 9:33 PM GMT
    If you aren't a "grinder slut" then how would you know.

    Double standards, never a shameless thing.
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    Feb 05, 2015 9:39 PM GMT
    Sluts are the best. Where do I get this Grindr app?
  • mladri

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    Feb 05, 2015 10:02 PM GMT
    I stopped using Grindr and Scruff after I heard about those pranks that happend to random guys.
  • Svnw688

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    Feb 05, 2015 11:00 PM GMT
    Mulignan saidIt depends. You are not going to find the love of your life on Grindr, and it is foolish to think as such.


    Well.....I found my current b/f from what was meant to be a simple 1 hour, 1 time, Grindr hookup. Our 2 year anniversary is in 2 weeks just after V-day.

    Not saying it's the norm, but a stable quality person can find his match anywhere. We're normal guys, we just each happened to be horny and ready to get our rocks off that night. I don't think our story is the rule, but it's certainly not that far-fetched an idea.
  • JESIE

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    Feb 05, 2015 11:02 PM GMT
    dont judge because they sin differently than you do lol
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    Feb 06, 2015 12:50 AM GMT
    Mulignan saidIt depends. You are not going to find the love of your life on Grindr, and it is foolish to think as such.
    i disagree. Apps have replaced gay bars as a place to meet someone
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    Feb 06, 2015 1:31 AM GMT
    Yes! Isn't it wonderful!
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    Feb 06, 2015 3:48 AM GMT
    Is this a trick question??
  • NeuralShock

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    Feb 06, 2015 3:51 AM GMT
    Impossible to meet a sane guy anymore icon_cry.gif
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    Feb 06, 2015 4:38 AM GMT
    I mean the same could be said of any gay app/site. Just depends how you use it.
  • Dxyankee

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    Feb 06, 2015 4:50 AM GMT
    Yes... Its really a shame.
  • Chrismarch

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    Feb 06, 2015 5:46 AM GMT
    Okay, can we PLEASE stop slut shaming?

    You say Grindr is filled with rude, terrible and slutty people. So how exactly are you a better person by slut shaming and hating on them? Just like any group of people, you find a variety of men on Grindr. Many aren't looking for just sex (they say it right in their profile). And while yes, it is often used for sex, many people use bars or bathhouses for sexual encounters too. Just because you want sex doesn't make you a dirty person.

    Calling someone a slut is shaming their sexuality. There is NOTHING WRONG with being sexual. We're born with it. It's like teaching kids about abstinence and excluding safe sex. It's natural, so they'll probably want to do it. Plus, they'll be completely unprepared and unsafe if they do.

    Grindr isn't going away, but your terrible attudes sure can.
  • Sunny_x9

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    Feb 06, 2015 7:23 AM GMT
    you can find sluts in this site as well
    most of online sites would have lots of sluts
    now SLUT is a social reform
    SLUTS are good people now
    anyway everyone has their own opinions
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    for me - I don't like SLUTS
    take care
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    Feb 06, 2015 1:44 PM GMT
    lol religion is dead here for most part, I never heard of mormons until I meet my Murican BF xD
    unlike USA we have strong sex education and condoms are free everywhere, we are well aware of the dangerous of drugs, unprotected sex,etc. here in portugal we have coke and "AX" (heorin)(like most Europe I assume), but it´s rare, only "retards" use it (here anything behond pod=looser), very rare for you to see it, reason why drugs dont sell, anyone with a little bit of brain know that "Tina" (meth/crystal) is completly destructive, the same goes for coke, it takes away brain in spoons dose. we have "pollen", wish is what you guys call ache I think, we mix it up with tabaco, it´s weaker than weed and more trashy, smeels bad...I did it a handfull of times as a teen back in shool and last time when my collegues from school invited me to a birthday party, but it´s harmless for most part and kills libido or any desire to do anything really.
    in US for all the new laws on marrige and adoption there´s still a lot of hate, even self hate, last time I was in california for my BF I´ve visited Castro...a lot of lost guys just trying to fit in on the most obivious path, drugs make it easier for people to do things they would not be ok with in the right frame of mind, the diference is this drugs make you go stupid and destroy you, like the "party and play", it´s completly destructive, there´s no shades of gray here friend, it´s black and white, drugs are bad, these people use meth to loose their minds on common sense (self defence), become horny and end up having raw sex, speading HIV all over
    ...here we even have a group that helps kids coming out and suport them, teaching safe healthy sex and giving suport to the person as well as the family, I was part of that group.
    USA is a great coutry but has some real issues with drugs, the famous people even do coke and it´s considered "fancy" because it´s expencive lol...drugs exists everywhere and it´s easy to get it in USA, it´s more present than I ever seen compared to Europe overall, thou I heard it´s becoming a thing in gay comunity in UK too...I guess is more about being a judgmental concept, there´s need to be more drug shaming I guess xD
    oh and I noticed republicans and religion is pretty hardcore in USA and "alive", they kinda slowing USA down and not allowing sex to be talked in schools because it seems religious parents "don´t want their kids to learn how to have sex" lol, kids will have sex regardless, we just need to teach them on how to do it right!

    lol we do have "spirits" and smokes, all easy to get it, even when you´re younger than 18 (our 21).remember smoking is a psico/European thing xD

    regardless on topic, I kinda already gave my opinions about this, "whore shaming" is kinda dumb, as long people are responsible and no one is hurting anyone it´s not of anyone else concern...
    people have diferent conceps of sexuality, and sexuality is complicated, some are more romantic, others more "noughty" oriented like what we see on porn, some like muscles, some like fattys, some like cuddles with sex, there´s even str8 guys that don´t like porn because it´s not their vision of sex! be open minded. if someone don´t want to take someone who does orgies and 3somes and sleeps around with half of the world for relationship material is fine, I wouldnt either, but there´s no reason to shame someone as long they are responsible about it and are not hurting anyone, it´s their life and body, let them enjoy life in the way they see fit