Feb 07, 2015 12:48 AM GMT
So have you guys ever experienced that a straight guy was flirting with you? I´m not talking about straight guy messing with the gay guy, like pretending to want hook up while his straight friends are standing around drunk and laughing, but a straight guy casually throwing hints. There is this guy that I been talking to at a some food nights at a friends house. I first realized something odd when we were talking about skinny jeans and he openly said that he thought that I probably looked good in skinny jeans, then when he had to leave he shook my hand and gave me a wink . Not vey impressive I know, but it was one of those moments. I just came home from another food night with him. He asked if i would put on hot-pants if he asked. We were sitting at the dinner table and there was no macho heads to laugh if it was supposed to be a joke, most of the people at the gathering are LARP´s. He has a girlfriend and i´m not hoping and dreaming for him to dump her and declare his undying love for me. She can have eternity with him, I just want a taste, he has a good head on his shoulders and not a wuss like most of the guys I have been dating. My dilemma is: I have always felt that as a gay man you should respect non gays preferences, so if we pretend that he was actually flirting with me, I acted ubergay divaísh and "oblivious" so I could divert from his questions. I know that some of you are probably thinking that I´m deluding myself, but for argument sake: if you had a chance at the forbidden fruit, shouldn't you take it? He already made the choice to be a douche to his girlfriend, so why not with you?