Do You Hate Lesbians?

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    Feb 07, 2015 8:18 PM GMT
    I've heard so many gay men say they hate Lesbians lately. I've never actually understood this because I find them much easier to be around than most gay men. So I thought I'd do a casual poll here and ask how many guys dislike Lesbians and why. Of course I realize that most people won't answer this honestly but hopefully some of you will.
  • Destinharbor

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    Feb 07, 2015 8:36 PM GMT
    I like lesbians. We have some great friends, 2 couples, that we vacation with occasionally. We attended their wedding. No problem. Now when they get together in a big group, they do have a tendency to drink to passing out for some reason and they get extremely rowdy. But we just retreat to a different room and they know to leave us alone. Besides, they usually pass out about 7:30. No kidding. But we love them anyway.
  • RSportsguy

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    Feb 07, 2015 8:43 PM GMT
    I play softball with a quite a few lesbians and they are all great! Never had a problem with any of them.
  • roadbikeRob

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    Feb 07, 2015 8:46 PM GMT
    Hell no. Hating lesbians doesn't make a lick of sense. I never had any problems with lesbians.
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    Feb 07, 2015 8:58 PM GMT
    Not at all! Never understood the hate.
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    Feb 07, 2015 9:09 PM GMT
    I only get annoyed if they look Hotter than I do in a leather motorcycle jacket but other than that I can't imagine having any issues...
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    Feb 07, 2015 9:39 PM GMT
    Lesbians are great. They combine the best characteristics of women (empathy, caring) and men (rational, fair). Gay men have a lot to learn from them.
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    Feb 07, 2015 9:57 PM GMT
    I dont hate anyone. I have a few lesbo friends. They are always fun to be around. 1 in particular was in our dirt biking group… She hoped on that dirt bike and rode like the wind, kept up, never whined, and at night looked like a million bucks in a dress and heels.. She is awesome. icon_smile.gif)
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    Feb 07, 2015 11:30 PM GMT
    indigodog said
    sf_swimmer saidLesbians are great. They combine the best characteristics of women (empathy, caring) and men (rational, fair). Gay men have a lot to learn from them.



    So you're saying that women are not rational? What fucking idiot.


    Yes, women are completely incapable of being rational, which I guess makes you one.
  • thadjock

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    Feb 07, 2015 11:40 PM GMT
    sf_swimmer said

    Yes, women are completely incapable of being rational,


    u got that right, we lost the war when we let em vote.
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    Feb 08, 2015 12:18 AM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle said
    sf_swimmer said
    indigodog said
    sf_swimmer saidLesbians are great. They combine the best characteristics of women (empathy, caring) and men (rational, fair). Gay men have a lot to learn from them.



    So you're saying that women are not rational? What fucking idiot.


    Yes, women are completely incapable of being rational, which I guess makes you one.


    sf said "the best characteristics."

    Someone's comprehension skills needs improving, apparently.


    Thank you. I'm glad somebody got it.
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    Feb 08, 2015 1:56 PM GMT
    sf_swimmer saidLesbians are great. They combine the best characteristics of women (empathy, caring) and men (rational, fair). Gay men have a lot to learn from them.


    From my experience, I totally agree here with all points.
  • Peterluke

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    Feb 08, 2015 3:10 PM GMT
    We should not make generalization about genders. That does not seem 'fair' to me . I have no problem with lesbians.
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    Feb 08, 2015 3:48 PM GMT
    Do You Hate Lesbians?

    Nope. In fact, yesterday my husband & I went to a gay bar, which had 3 separate bars operating. We chose the one bartended by 2 lesbians, friends of ours. And most of the customers at the bar were lesbians. The majority of whom we knew.

    We had a great time, hugs all around. I think my husband & I must be among the most well-known gay guys within the lesbian community, a number of them having come to our house for dinner.

    And disregard anything southbeach1500 posts to the contrary. I once wrote about a funny encounter I had with a (possible) lesbian some years ago, over her trying to illegally steal a handicapped parking space from me. And he keeps pasting it out of context.

    Anyway, all my eyewear for the last 7 years has come from a shop owned by a lesbian couple (Chic Optique in Wilton Manors, FL). And we regularly eat at a lesbian-owned cafe, "13|Even" in Wilton Manors, which I recommend if you visit here. Another of our lesbian restaurant favorites is "Le Patio". Try them if you come here, for a French-focued cuisine.

    And we participate in an annual charity golf tournament that benefits women's causes, organized by a lesbian friend. Mostly involving women (called "Iron Ladies"), but men are allowed, too. It's how I got involved in golfing myself.

    So no, I'd say we don't hate lesbians.

    http://13-even.com

    http://www.lepatiowiltonmanors.com
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    Feb 08, 2015 3:54 PM GMT
    No, not at all! actually I am dreaming to see live show of two lesbians. icon_lol.gif
  • mxne

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    Feb 08, 2015 3:54 PM GMT
    No. My best friend is a lesbian icon_wink.gif
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    Feb 08, 2015 4:31 PM GMT
    Radd saidI've heard so many gay men say they hate Lesbians lately. I've never actually understood this because I find them much easier to be around than most gay men. So I thought I'd do a casual poll here and ask how many guys dislike Lesbians and why. Of course I realize that most people won't answer this honestly but hopefully some of you will.


    I'm with you on this one all the way.
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    Feb 08, 2015 4:59 PM GMT
    Peterluke saidWe should not make generalization about genders. That does not seem 'fair' to me . I have no problem with lesbians.



    +1

    (However, I find myself getting bored in predominantly lesbian social settings.)
  • Zigs_01

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    Feb 08, 2015 5:20 PM GMT
    To hate someone, you have to be denied of service. Is it irrational to hate someone who hasn't done anything. People who usually hate gays and lesbians stems from insecurity.
  • johnnyqhomo7

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    Feb 08, 2015 6:13 PM GMT
    i only hate the homophobes, no one else realy. plus im trying to not even do that, hate is a poison. Jesus taught me that.
  • thadjock

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    Feb 08, 2015 7:03 PM GMT
    johnnyqhomo7 said hate is a poison. Jesus taught me that.


    amen brother
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    Feb 08, 2015 8:47 PM GMT
    Lesbos are great! My best friend in the whole wide world is a Lesbian. We've known each other for what seems like 20 years now (actually met each other in elementary school).

    Hate is such strong word. I will state that there are personality types among the lesbian kingdom that I find a tad bit disagreeable. That personality type is the "Overly Aggressive Super Butch Lesbian".

    Don't Get me wrong, "Super Butch" lesbians are ok in my book. Its when that particular type incorporate hyper aggression into what they perceive to be an integral part of the opposite gender/and or dominant role. Thats when the you get the sub-type as listed above (the OASBL).

    Anywhoos, Thats just my 2 cents

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    Feb 08, 2015 11:36 PM GMT
    There are Gay misogynists (Lesbian or not). As there are straight men. They are assholes!

    I had a great time with Pat and Mel, a couple I met in Galveston this week.

    I used to sell RE a long time ago and a lot of my clients were Lesbian.
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    Feb 09, 2015 12:37 AM GMT
    I don't hate them...I don't think I hate anybody...but I find a lot of them awkward to be around. Not all...but a good many.
  • davfit

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    Feb 09, 2015 3:32 AM GMT
    I like them of course..the ones I don't like ...are the ones who hate Men (we have all met those)..they are mentally ill..