Ever had an ex talking bad about you behind your back?

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    Feb 10, 2015 1:54 AM GMT
    You guys ever had an ex talked like that behind your back?
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    Feb 10, 2015 2:22 AM GMT
    Oh hell yes.
    There is reason they are an ex.
    I know a lot of guys say they are friends with their ex. but not ever in my case.
    Two years into my relationship my man was still getting crap about me on social media from exes.
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    Feb 10, 2015 2:30 AM GMT
    I am really sorry that you were so hurt, it is very hard to hear an ex say awful things but even worse to say something about something you can't change such as race, looks, etc.

    When my former partner and I broke up. He went around and told all our friends I was a bitch and did nothing but complain and never could be satisfied with anything and topped it with that I was a whore.

    Most of the people who I considered friends believed him, some even spread more rumors. A few though didn't believe anything, and even with people inquired about my ex....I always said "He is a good man and we just couldn't make our relationship work". I never said a bad thing about him...even thought I so wanted to.

    Years later several of those friends who believed him apologized and said they were sorry for the pain they caused.

    Hopefully you will realize you are far better off w/o him than with him. You will meet a guy who loves you for you and never will try to hurt you.
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    Feb 12, 2015 9:25 AM GMT
    Ronar2 saidYou guys ever had an ex talked like that behind your back?


    All the time
  • magicjake

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    Feb 12, 2015 3:09 PM GMT
    I dated someone who was closet cray - cray. Some next level craze..

    After I GTFO, first came the death threats, followed by some stalking, which finally evolved to being called every name in the book to anyone who would listen to him - for 7 years.

    At least he didn't boil my rabbit. I lost a lot of friends due to the name calling but I don't care. It was worth it just to be free. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Feb 12, 2015 3:29 PM GMT
    I still hear from friends, and friends of friends, that my ex wife is desperately trying to still talk crap about me... and failing at it.

    I'm not not the asshole that she tries to tell everyone I am, and most of our mutual friends know it.

    So whatevs...
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    Feb 13, 2015 4:48 AM GMT
    They might do it once . . .
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    Feb 13, 2015 5:09 AM GMT
    Only my ex-wife… LOL.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Feb 13, 2015 6:22 AM GMT
    What x doesn't .... isn't that what you're doing now? icon_twisted.gif
  • SilverRRCloud

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    Feb 18, 2015 5:28 AM GMT
    To some extent, this is probably unavoidable.

    No matter how hard people try neither to hurt anyone nor to get hurt themselves, breaking up is usually a messy affair.

    Fortunately, the opinions of the others have hardly ever played any significant role in my life. I have been marching to my own drums for a very long time now.

    So, I shrug with my shoulders, and move on without as much as a word. Not worth my time and energy.

    SC