Do you reply or not , in some way, to hits or messages from others on websites like RJ grindr bigmuscle. Why Not or Why?

  • EDRock

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    Feb 11, 2015 6:35 PM GMT
    Unless someone is just vulgar, offensive or nonsensical I most always have one or two words of a return greeting, appreciation for a compliment or answering a question. I admit it peeves me most of the time if someone I've messaged does not have appreciation, consideration, good will towards their fellow man to return even 1, 2 words like "Thanks" "LOL" " You're not really my type but thanks!" If you're not acknowledging most hits on your profile you are a part of what's wrong with the world. Opinion? Yes but I know, in some small way, I make the world a better place with such small acts of consideration. ; )
  • YTC1989

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    Feb 12, 2015 2:33 AM GMT
    Not practical. A one word reply to every message I get will take half an hour a day haha.
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    Feb 12, 2015 2:58 AM GMT
    Speaking only of RJ and FB, I send some sort of reply unless the original email was obnoxious or dumb. But for a lot of guys here, whether they send a response to an email from a stranger depends on how hot the stranger looks.

    But if you get lots of messages, like YTC 1989, it would not be practical.
  • EDRock

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    Feb 12, 2015 11:56 AM GMT
    Not bragging but I get lots of messages and I do respond most of the time. That's kind of my point. Thanks for the feedback.
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    Feb 12, 2015 12:29 PM GMT
    Do you reply or not , in some way, to hits or messages from others on websites like RJ grindr bigmuscle.

    Of those 3 I'm only on RJ. And I don't reply to any hits. I do chat with guys I know, of course, and to requests for advice or information when they sound sincere & legitimate, not playing games.
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    Feb 12, 2015 2:41 PM GMT
    Usually, I reply to everything except to rude or really lame messages from strangers. I check them out on their page on here and try to find something to say.

    So, one-pic empty profiles are not interesting, no matter how hot the pic. I figure that it's a fake or there would be more pics and infos. D'oh

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    Feb 12, 2015 5:24 PM GMT
    I always reply to messages and photo comments which are sent to me , it is just a question of being courteous to the person who has taken the time to write those comments .icon_smile.gif