Disrespectful comments to bottoms

  • wesv

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    Feb 21, 2015 7:56 PM GMT
    I sent a photo of my back and ass to a guy just for the sake of it. I don't find him attractive but only wanted to chat. Then he said that my ass needed work and that was unacceptable for a bottom. I couldn't understand how that was an issue because I didn't want to hook up. Then for a week and a half I didn't say anything to him. Yesterday we started chatting again. I felt like I should've not replied since he said something very rude. What should I have done?
  • Eli_jah

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    Feb 21, 2015 8:04 PM GMT
    Why are you still talking to him? Why did you send him a picture of your backside if you weren't trying to hook up?

    He sounds like a douche. Drop him.
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    Feb 21, 2015 8:06 PM GMT
    someone who would be that nasty to u for no reason isn't worth any futher effort, especially if he's not even cute. ur body looks great, so he was prob just trying to hurt ur feelings. why did u send him an ass pic just to chat though?


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    Feb 21, 2015 8:07 PM GMT
    Tell him that even though life is too short, the real reason you can't do a long term relationship with him is because his penis is too short.

    Here, text him this
    Life-is-short-and-so-is-your-penis-Women
  • bobbobbob

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    Feb 21, 2015 8:09 PM GMT
    What should you have done? Not worry about it. If you asked him what he thought of the pic you sent maybe he gave you an honest opinion instead of flattery. That's a more admirable quality in people than them only telling you what they think you want to hear.

    I took a brief look at your profile and think you're damned fine just as you are. Don't let forum people or those IRL mess with your self image.

    As for chatting with him a 2nd time since he initiated it, I'd say he might possibly wasn't attempting to be rude with his first comments but it's impossible to know with reading the correspondence between the two of you.

    And you might want to be more selective about sending out pics of your butt. LOL. Had I received it I'd have probably made a joke and moved on and forgot about it.
  • mybud

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    Feb 21, 2015 8:10 PM GMT
    I think it was rude..Moreover...Sometimes I believe gays have this destructive angst..They start by building a guy up, only to tear them down over time. I also believe we should look more into the attributes of a guy's heart and soul, and less on physical attributes. Looks fade,but the heart retains what's of the most importance..The love and respect you share between the both of you.
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    Feb 21, 2015 9:40 PM GMT
    You brought it on yourself by sending him the picture. Next time don't do that.
  • buddycat

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    Feb 21, 2015 9:43 PM GMT
    I agree, if you just want a chat, why send a picture of your ass?
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    Feb 21, 2015 9:50 PM GMT
    wesv saidI sent a photo of my back and ass to a guy just for the sake of it. I don't find him attractive but only wanted to chat. Then he said that my ass needed work and that was unacceptable for a bottom. I couldn't understand how that was an issue because I didn't want to hook up. Then for a week and a half I didn't say anything to him. Yesterday we started chatting again. I felt like I should've not replied since he said something very rude. What should I have done?


    I think you're being disingenuous. If you didn't find him attractive why send him a nude? Makes absolutely no sense at all. Yes, he was rude to criticize your body but you were sending mixed signals.
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    Feb 21, 2015 10:25 PM GMT
    wesv saidI sent a photo of my back and ass to a guy just for the sake of it. I don't find him attractive...


    Are you like the Asian version of Inque?
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    Feb 21, 2015 10:31 PM GMT
    This post is very confusing. You said you weren't even attracted to the guy. So why would his opinion matter to you? and you sent a photo to a guy you don't even like. Showing your private parts just for the hell of it?icon_eek.gif



    Wesv.. my Asian brother is this a troll thread? icon_lol.gif Furthermore... I'm sure your ass is fine. And brings much joy to other people.
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    Feb 21, 2015 10:35 PM GMT
    Ooh, this is your post #666. icon_eek.gificon_eek.gif
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    Feb 21, 2015 10:39 PM GMT
    polfsky saidOoh, this is your post #666. icon_eek.gificon_eek.gif


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    Feb 21, 2015 10:53 PM GMT
    mybud saidI think it was rude..Moreover...Sometimes I believe gays have this destructive angst..They start by building a guy up, only to tear them down over time. I also believe we should look more into the attributes of a guy's heart and soul, and less on physical attributes. Looks fade,but the heart retains what's of the most importance..The love and respect you share between the both of you.


    Marry me you sexy beast; only if you're verse or a bottom though... I can't deal with top only bros WTF?!?!
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    Feb 21, 2015 10:57 PM GMT
    wesv saidI sent a photo of my back and ass to a guy just for the sake of it. I don't find him attractive but only wanted to chat. Then he said that my ass needed work and that was unacceptable for a bottom. I couldn't understand how that was an issue because I didn't want to hook up. Then for a week and a half I didn't say anything to him. Yesterday we started chatting again. I felt like I should've not replied since he said something very rude. What should I have done?


    I have a sneaking hunch that he was very very wrong.
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    Feb 22, 2015 1:33 AM GMT
    # 666 ?

    What kind of numerology is the OP playing?
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    Feb 22, 2015 1:50 AM GMT
    build a bigger ass
    send him another pic
    tell him he'll never get it
    profit??
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    Feb 22, 2015 1:50 AM GMT
    Why would you send an unsolicited picture of your ass in the first place?

    Sounds like you need a reality check and he is a douche bag. Maybe you are meant for each other?
  • bobbobbob

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    Feb 22, 2015 2:10 AM GMT
    pazzy saidwait... you sent a pic of your ass and back to another guy without him asking for it simply to chat with him?

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    You were dead on with that pazzy.
  • Joeyphx444

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    Feb 22, 2015 2:45 AM GMT
    If you want approval and attention go on Instagram
  • NeuralShock

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    Feb 22, 2015 3:42 AM GMT
    Why do guys not send ME pictures of their ass when they want to talk.

    I mean come on, that's just not fair.
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    Feb 22, 2015 3:51 AM GMT
    Princess, you need to grow some thicker skin! Nobody likes a whiny bottom. If you can't take some criticism online, you're in for a world of pain.

    Why don't you post your ass pix on here so we can all reassure you?
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  • wesv

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    Feb 22, 2015 3:53 AM GMT
    Some of you are right. I shouldn't have sent an ass pic. That guy was just a friend. I want nothing more than that. He's attracted to me, but I'm not attracted to him. I met this guy at a bath house. He saw my ass there because it's a clothing optional place. I was walking to my locker and took off my towel. That was how he saw it in person. He made a comment that I had a nice ass. Remembering that made me want to send a pic of it. I have no idea why, but he wasn't impressed with the photo.
  • JuneauMike

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    Feb 22, 2015 3:55 AM GMT
    wesv saidI sent a photo of my back and ass to a guy just for the sake of it. I don't find him attractive but only wanted to chat. Then he said that my ass needed work and that was unacceptable for a bottom. I couldn't understand how that was an issue because I didn't want to hook up. Then for a week and a half I didn't say anything to him. Yesterday we started chatting again. I felt like I should've not replied since he said something very rude. What should I have done?


    Wesv I think you look very masculine and attractive.
  • NeuralShock

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    Feb 22, 2015 3:56 AM GMT
    wesv saidSome of you are right. I shouldn't have sent an ass pic. That guy was just a friend. I want nothing more than that. He's attracted to me, but I'm not attracted to him. I met this guy at a bath house. He saw my ass there because it's a clothing optional place. I was walking to my locker and took off my towel. That was how he saw it in person. He made a comment that I had a nice ass. Remembering that made me want to send a pic of it. I have no idea why, but he wasn't impressed with the photo.


    Not a photogenic butt.